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Wedding invitation help

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7y, 5m agoPosted 7 years, 5 months ago
Hi there, getting married soon but I need some help, i'm after a way of putting down on the invitation in a kind way that instead of the typical gifts, I would prefer cash instead

as there is nothing that I need, and the cash can go towards the venue etc.
any ideas will be much appreciated..
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7y, 5m agoPosted 7 years, 5 months ago
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#1
How about saying something like

"no boxed gifts"

& just hope they get the hint.
#2
Would 'show me the money' be a little insensitive.
#3
DVS_Dee
How about saying something like

"no boxed gifts"

& just hope they get the hint.


they probably give me a used phone unboxed.. :)
#4
Tell them your having a greek wedding where it is traditional to pin large denomination bank notes to the grooms suit.
#6
greg_68
Would 'show me the money' be a little insensitive.


thought about that, but in a Jerry Maquire kinda tone!
#7
My friend has suggested to me to have a small wooden wishing well were people can just pop money into an envelope and can be anon you could put something on invites saying that you both have everything you need and that a wishing well will be at wedding so people can help make your future wishes come true!.... Then you can also keep wishing well as a small reminder of wedding too....Good luck xx
#8
No presents please, but there will be an entrance fee?
#9
We had this exact issue when we got married last month...

In our invites and on the website we put this text ...
(and we also hired a wishing well)

Because at first we lived in sin
We've got the sheets and a rubbish bin
A gift from you would be swell
But we'd prefer a donation to our Wishing Well !!


We have everything we need after living together for a while,
and only ask that you share our special day.
However, if you wanted to make a monetary contribution, there will be a 'Wishing Well' at the reception.
#10
dmtuk
My friend has suggested to me to have a wishing well were people can just pop money into an envelope and can be anon you could put something on invites saying that you both have everything you need and that a wishing well will be at wedding so people can help make your future wishes come true!....Good luck xx


that sounds interesting, but they probably giv pennies and loose change.. followed by kids dipping low.. but its a nice idea. heheh.
#11
dmtuk
My friend has suggested to me to have a small wooden wishing well were people can just pop money into an envelope and can be anon you could put something on invites saying that you both have everything you need and that a wishing well will be at wedding so people can help make your future wishes come true!.... Then you can also keep wishing well as a small reminder of wedding too....Good luck xx


Great idea :thumbsup:
#12
Babbabooey
We had this exact issue when we got married last month...

In our invites and on the website we put this text ...
(and we also hired a wishing well)

Because at first we lived in sin
We've got the sheets and a rubbish bin
A gift from you would be swell
But we'd prefer a donation to our Wishing Well !!


We have everything we need after living together for a while,
and only ask that you share our special day.
However, if you wanted to make a monetary contribution, there will be a 'Wishing Well' at the reception.



this idea is sounding better, but they my parents probably, think SIN!! wat have they been doing!!!
#13
So what do you get
For the Bride and Groom
Whose house has things
In every room?

When shopping for a present
Please, don't be rash
As the option is there
to just give cash

We hope that you don't find
Our request to be funny
But the decision is yours
To buy a present, or just give money

Now you have the choice
Please do not fuss
the most important thing of all
Is that you come and celebrate with us!
#14
We've been together a few years now;
We have pots and pans and linen and towels;
We have glasses and toasters, really quite a few;
So instead of more gifts, we suggest this to you;
If it doesn't offend and it won't send you running;
What we would really appreciate is quite simply money
#15
In a wedding invitation,
You usually find some lists,
For venues, menus and hotels,
And also for the gifts

But this one is unusual,
It comes in a different way,
As we're not asking for presents,
But for something else today

Now please don't think we're selfish,
Or that this comes from greed,
But we've lived together for a while,
So there's not that much we need

We would appreciate help though,
To send us on our way,
And allow us to have our honeymoon,
In a land quite far away

So now the point of all this rhyme,
The thing that we would like,
Isn't towels, toasters or microwaves,
But pounds and pence alike

And now you know the reason,
Behind this cheeky accord,
Please help to give us memories,
Of a dream honeymoon abroad
#16
It worked out great for us... 99% of people brought a card to the wedding and dropped it in - we had great fun the next day opening them all :)
#17
Those are three that I usually suggest but it depends on what you're planning on spending the money on.
#18
spider1986
Those are three that I usually suggest but it depends on what you're planning on spending the money on.


planned on spending the money on some great hukd deals...

nah only kidding, it will be used to pay for the venue, as a back up .... and contribute to honeymoon etc
#19
We got married last year and didn't want presents. However, it is kind of rude, bad etiquette if you prefer, to include requests for money or gift lists with the invitations. When people contacted us or our parents asking what to get us, we said we didn't really need anything, but if they insisted on getting us something we said we were saving up for a new tv/sofa/whatever, and if they wanted to contribute that would be great.

To be honest I'd be a bit miffed if I was invited to a wedding and there was a poem asking me for money in the invitation!
#20
spider1986
Those are three that I usually suggest but it depends on what you're planning on spending the money on.


thanks for the info... :)
#21
i think 1 of those poems is a good idea. But im a straight forward person and just said i needed cash towards honeymoon.
We had a big decorated box for the pressies and cards it was a godsend.we got about a grand
#22
tessb
We got married last year and didn't want presents. However, it is kind of rude, bad etiquette if you prefer, to include requests for money or gift lists with the invitations. When people contacted us or our parents asking what to get us, we said we didn't really need anything, but if they insisted on getting us something we said we were saving up for a new tv/sofa/whatever, and if they wanted to contribute that would be great.

To be honest I'd be a bit miffed if I was invited to a wedding and there was a poem asking me for money in the invitation!


I see where your coming from, just want a polite way to ask, but it does seem cheeky.
#23
zerowing
planned on spending the money on some great hukd deals...

nah only kidding, it will be used to pay for the venue, as a back up .... and contribute to honeymoon etc


It is becoming popular for the bride and groom to ask for money or vouchers instead of gifts because almost everyone has lived together before the wedding so has everything.

If you're thinking of using it to pay for the honeymoon, one of the travel agents (can't remember which) lets you set up a payment scheme, a bit like a gift list, where your guests can contribute to pay for your honeymoon. This works really well too as all they do is go in and quote your names or account number and pay as much or as little as they want.
#24
cherishu2
i think 1 of those poems is a good idea. But im a straight forward person and just said i needed cash towards honeymoon.
We had a big decorated box for the pressies and cards it was a godsend.we got about a grand


nice, :thumbsup: I need to speak to the other half about the wishing well, but now need to find a nice way of asking.
#25
DVS_Dee
How about saying something like

"no boxed gifts"

& just hope they get the hint.


If you do this be prepared for some OEM gifts.
Do you need a DVD writer or a new version of Windows?
#26
jinjernuts
If you do this be prepared for some OEM gifts.
Do you need a DVD writer or a new version of Windows?


:thumbsup:
#27
"Skint at the mo, so no moola, your not coming in"
#28
stefor
"Skint at the mo, so no moola, your not coming in"


:viking: with a bouncer like that ?
banned#29
cant you just say on the invite

"Gift List at llloyds TSB / HBOS / RBS" ?
#30
dimebars
cant you just say on the invite

"Gift List at llloyds TSB / HBOS / RBS" ?


liking that!! :thumbsup:
they probably give us some free pen's borrowed from barclays bank
#31
I dont think its rude as in invites people used to include a where to buy from wedding list asking for cash is just the same I'd like to thank people for poem ideas as we too are getting married and would love money towards our honeymoon...

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