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Been married for 8yrs now gone a bit stale, went out on a works night out a few weeks ago and got very close to a work collegue who is just perfect in every way . Been having a sexual relationship … Read More
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5y, 11m agoPosted 5 years, 11 months ago
Been married for 8yrs now gone a bit stale, went out on a works night out a few weeks ago and got very close to a work collegue who is just perfect in every way . Been having a sexual relationship since and its mind blowing trouble is i have 2 kids and she has one child with her partner but both of us are just mad for each other and struggle being apart. Been very unhappy for a while (1yr) can`t seem to please my wife with anything and basically had enough.what the hell do i do my head is going to explode soon
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5y, 11m agoPosted 5 years, 11 months ago
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banned 3 Likes #1
Leave wife.
17 Likes #2
u posted in the right place. sit back and we shall see what we can do.
9 Likes #3
may have been decent to leave the wife and kids before sleeping around, bit late in the day to be worrying now, just sit and wait for the real crap to hit the fan and have to say you will deserve it
4 Likes #4
Oh dear !..........kids i feel for tbh ,,,
5 Likes #5
ok u met lady a few weeks ago......and u are doing the nasty and loving it...obviously ...all fun and frolics stage.

if u r unhappy dont u think its an idea to speak about it, maybe try work it out with marriage councillors or something. u got kids with ur wife i assume. stop being a selfish idiot and see if u can get somewhere before u throw it all away cos u got a hard on

if u were my bloke it'd be game over though
#6
Have you spoken to your wife? maybe she's as unhappy as you and would also want to separate.Does your fancy piece have a partner?

The grass ain't always greener - btw nobodies perfect.

Edited By: aunty jane on Jun 12, 2011 00:15
#7
can`t seem to please my wife with anything and basically had enough.what the hell do i do

You could always start by talking to your wife & at least hear her side of the relationship.
#8
If you love 2 people then Choose the second person that came along because you would never have found the second person if you truly loved the first.
3 Likes #9
ur username is 'hotukdealsno1fan'......u sound like a real catch
2 Likes #10
Its not love its lust, I'd think very seriously about what you are about to do ! have you talked to your wife about how you feel ?
3 Likes #11
05jamhad
If you love 2 people then Choose the second person that came along because you would never have found the second person if you truly loved the first.

anyone told u u chat crap
7 Likes #12
wife should kick u to the kerb. after she totally screws u over financially. what a low-life dad u r....great example for the kids
1 Like #13
WOW!

hope your using protection and not spreading any potential diseases, i feel sorry for your wife and kids
banned#14
Monogamy is a modern concept aimed at controlling the population. Give a man a medal if he can stick with one woman for his entire life but don't berate a man for giving into base urges. We all gotta eat right...
1 Like #15
How would you feel if your wife was screwing someone from work?
4 Likes #16
inb4 the 'other women' is a hukds members lulz


ps asking members of the misk for marriage advice = FAIL

Edited By: ilovepink on Jun 12, 2011 00:22
#17
master_chief
Monogamy is a modern concept aimed at controlling the population. Give a man a medal if he can stick with one woman for his entire life but don't berate a man for giving into base urges. We all gotta eat right...


are you married ? have you got kids ?
banned#18
ilovepink
inb4 the 'other women' is a hukds members lulz


ps asking members of the misk for marriage advice = FAIL


The bigger fail is to make the assumptions it's a serious thread. I'm looking at it as a hypothetical scenario for debate at best.
banned#19
richp
master_chief
Monogamy is a modern concept aimed at controlling the population. Give a man a medal if he can stick with one woman for his entire life but don't berate a man for giving into base urges. We all gotta eat right...


are you married ? have you got kids ?


Irrelevant to the discussion. You can't argue that society didn't create the so-called values which are enforced on us, it's not a conceit concocted by the individual.
2 Likes #20
master_chief
ilovepink
inb4 the 'other women' is a hukds members lulz


ps asking members of the misk for marriage advice = FAIL


The bigger fail is to make the assumptions it's a serious thread. I'm looking at it as a hypothetical scenario for debate at best.


im personally waiting for an update thread - 'i got my mistress up the duff and my wife has chlamydia'
3 Likes #21
You are one seriously messed up dude, women are basically nuts in general and you want to leave one for another, my advice get rid of both and have a five knuckle shuffle
2 Likes #22
Lol.......mc strikes again !!!!!
#23
master_chief
ilovepink
inb4 the 'other women' is a hukds members lulz


ps asking members of the misk for marriage advice = FAIL


The bigger fail is to make the assumptions it's a serious thread. I'm looking at it as a hypothetical scenario for debate at best.

true dat....having doubts anyone who admitts to being the number 1 fan of a shopping forum can be getting laid by a colleague whilst married for 8 yrs.

http://doctore.blog.is/users/b4/doctore/img/dont_worry_im_from_the_internet.jpg
#24
Just read the post again, it's not your mind she's meant to be blowing ;)
#25
boabbyrab
You are one seriously messed up dude, women are basically nuts in general and you want to leave one for another, my advice get rid of both

With your Username,does that mean you like the Boabby oO
banned 1 Like #26
http://chzgifs.files.wordpress.com/2011/06/fencingstrategyp1.gif

OP''s wife on Right
#27
Nope, straight as the next man (please dont be a homersexual)
4 Likes #28
Do you a good job and house? If you decide to leave family, give me her number. Ready made for me.

Don't be so low, its not only the wife you are screwing over, its her partner and both sets of kids. The grass is never EVER greener on the other side.

Man up and talk about things.
2 Likes #29
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#30
Hi everyone ,
I know i am been made out to be the bad guy here but please i have talked to my wife about my unhappines and she seems to not understand and i know what i`m doing to my kids is very wrong but i can`t help my feelings towards my work collegue. I have been with my wife now for nearly 19yrs from friends to wife and thats just it , it feels like we are friends not lovers. My work collegue is also ina long term relationship of nearly 12yrs with her partner but for some reason it just feels right between us just don`t no what to do.
banned 4 Likes #31
Just leave your laptop lying about with this page open. Maybe your wife will take the hint and **** off.
banned#32
gmdlogan
Do you a good job and house? If you decide to leave family, give me her number. Ready made for me.

Don't be so low, its not only the wife you are screwing over, its her partner and both sets of kids. The grass is never EVER greener on the other side.

Man up and talk about things.


What a ridiculous statement. If the grass was never greener on the other side then we'd all still be with our first bf/gf.

I know a few people who left their partners for someone else and are significantly happier now.

Rarely can you "fix" a broken relationship and be truly happy. Sweep under the carpet maybe.
banned#33
All this feeling for the kids is such clichéd BS. I'm going to counter that cliché with another and state the obvious - it ain't good for any kids to be brought up in an unhappy environment.

Best this guy can do is leave (in this scenario). Point of no return has passed. Best for the wife and kids and for him.
3 Likes #34
Got married. Error
Had kids. Error.
Had an affair. Error.
Did it with a work colleague. Error
Posted it all on HUKD. Error

Seriously, no one can help you here mate, you need some therapy or some shizzle.
#35
What you gonna do if your fancy bits bloke comes round and kicks your @rse?

Are you gonna tell your mrs you've been doing a Ryan Giggs???

Edited By: aunty jane on Jun 12, 2011 00:50
2 Likes #36
hotukdealsno1fan
Hi everyone ,
I know i am been made out to be the bad guy here but please i have talked to my wife about my unhappines and she seems to not understand and i know what i`m doing to my kids is very wrong but i can`t help my feelings towards my work collegue. I have been with my wife now for nearly 19yrs from friends to wife and thats just it , it feels like we are friends not lovers. My work collegue is also ina long term relationship of nearly 12yrs with her partner but for some reason it just feels right between us just don`t no what to do.


ok you've talked to your wife about being un-happy (we all have **** days, but work things out), but have you actually told her you've been seeing someone else & having a sexual relationship ? when you tell your wife this & the person you have feelings for decides this isnt what she wants, what then ? as i said before it's lust not love !


Edited By: richp on Jun 12, 2011 00:54
banned 2 Likes #37
LMAO, first time I've wandered in here. What a pack of losers. OP for thinking this is the place to share their Walter Mitty lifestyle and the rest for feeding their illness.

Of to look for more laughs...............
#38
'just feels right' eh? I wouldn't be suprized if you end up telling this second woman the same thing, few months or a year down the line. Don't screw up what you got already. Talk it over properly. Looks like your not really that bothered and want any odd excuse to get out of it.
#39
howardino
LMAO, first time I've wandered in here. What a pack of losers. OP for thinking this is the place to share their Walter Mitty lifestyle and the rest for feeding their illness.

Of to look for more laughs...............


Laugh as much as you want, but you read the comments so you are also feeding your illness. oO. Curiosity killed the cat.

Edited By: PraxxtorCruel on Jun 12, 2011 00:56
1 Like #40
Thing is Master Chief, suppose its how we've been fetched up. I would die for my kid. I'd do anything to make him happy.

How is OP going to feel when someone else is putting his kids to bed at night?

The kids are what life is all about. Well in my eyes anyhow.

So you are telling him to walk out on his kids because he like sleeping with a flooze. Nice one. You get yourself a job writing for the dear master chief section of the sun.

Edited By: gmdlogan on Jun 12, 2011 00:59

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