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What do you do when you are really down and out

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banned8y, 4m agoPosted 8 years, 4 months ago
Need some advise here :)

Edit; I would normally think that everything that happens to you - Good or bad- is to make you a more perfect person and is nature/God's way of showing you that he wants to add something nice to you and in retrospect the years of struggle always look the best ...

but having said that at times you just cant help feeling down I reckon and henc not for me but for every single member out there
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banned8y, 4m agoPosted 8 years, 4 months ago
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#1
suicide?
#2
Get drunk!!
#3
magic mushrooms!
#4
DarloNige
Get drunk!!


I agree!

vodka anyone?
#5
yea thats what id do. get drunk
#6
get up and in
banned#7
mhh1981
suicide?


:evil:
banned#8
DarloNige
Get drunk!!


SunTzu
magic mushrooms!


loupomm
I agree!

vodka anyone?


mr miagi
yea thats what id do. get drunk



Left drinking ages back
#9
A nice Smoke of a ciggie
#10
become a scout leader.
1 Like #11
Watch telly and eat nice things, I find television helps to take my mind off what ever is making me feel down
My other half always tries to make me smile which although I really don't feel like doing it, it does make you feel better.

Smile :-D

:friends:
1 Like #12
Buy a new car ........ ;-)
1 Like #13
Sweets and Chocolate. Must be the only man that does haha
1 Like #14
buy something i want but cant afford :thumbsup:

hukd comes in handy for this one
1 Like #15
Yep, buy something

though when the bill comes in you will probably feel worse.
banned#16
emasu
become a scout leader.


Lol I like that

smithyp1
Buy a new car ........ ;-)


New car ? ohh the cheapest ferrari would even do

Jo3l
Sweets and Chocolate. Must be the only man that does haha


Love chocolates mate, thanks for reminding me :)

airey
buy something i want but cant afford :thumbsup:

hukd comes in handy for this one


You bet

AND REPUTE ADDED FOR ALL OF YOU .... THOUGH STILL SORTA BLUE TO BE HONEST
banned#17
LaoTzu
Watch telly and eat nice things, I find television helps to take my mind off what ever is making me feel down
My other half always tries to make me smile which although I really don't feel like doing it, it does make you feel better.

Smile :-D

:friends:



Have you noticed I have not put you in multi-quote ... thanks
1 Like #18
Focus On The Posotives.

And Think Of Someone Else Who Has Ut Worse Than You And Youll Appreciate What U Dont Have Bad.,
banned#19
LadyMadonna
Yep, buy something

though when the bill comes in you will probably feel worse.


Frankly will be offshores for six months ... So I think at least the bill wont make me blue for some time :thinking:
#20
Heres another one I do. Get your 10 most favourite songs, and play them ridiculously loud.

Its like screaming without screaming lol ;)

Mind if I ask whats up mate?
#21
mummyspam1985
.

And Think Of Someone Else Who Has Ut Worse Than You And Youll Appreciate What U Dont Have Bad.,


That is good advice.
banned#22
mummyspam1985
Focus On The Posotives.

And Think Of Someone Else Who Has Ut Worse Than You And Youll Appreciate What U Dont Have Bad.,


I beleive in that actually everything happens to make you stronger and a better and hopefully a prosperous person, but still at times you cannot help but feel down YKWM ?

Repute added for you

thanks
banned#23
LadyMadonna
That is good advice.


You bet,
1 Like #24
Go out with my friends, they always cheer me up :) if not my last resort is my hubby :whistling:

keep yourself busy so you don't have time to be 'down'. I have three boys so they keep me busy but i try and have some 'me' time. I do aerobics, go to lunch with my friends, out for a drink every other week with the girls; there is always HUKD's :thumbsup:
#25
you come on here and talk to people - that always helps
also you try and think of the positive things in your life, you must have some and appre iate them
Sorry you are feeling down - but tomorrow is another day
#26
go around your mates, this always work for me.
#27
Go into carpet right and shout "WHY DON'T YOU OPEN NEW YEARS DAY"

or

go onto the tube, and pretend to get a phone call - see how many others think they've suddenly got a signal.
#28
Move to Beverly Hills and move in with Richard Dreyfuss and Bette Midler...
#29
Are you in India at the moment? Enjoy some quiet contemplation at sunset . . . .
#30
Dell_in_the_bed
I beleive in that actually everything happens to make you stronger and a better and hopefully a prosperous person, but still at times you cannot help but feel down YKWM ?

Repute added for you

thanks


GRANTED. also i find sometimes you want that time to feel your the worst off in the whole world, and as long as u recognise that and only wollow for a short while u can feel better for it.

i hold back my feelings most of the time but three times a year without fail i let it all out, that was last week as would have been my sons third birthday. for 24 hours i felt like the worst off person in the world, but the next day started and i made the consious effort to think asbout all the good in my life and people who have suffered even worse than me. and i got through that day by letting myself dwell on it for a few hours:oops:
#31
Dell_in_the_bed
Frankly will be offshores for six months ... So I think at least the bill wont make me blue for some time :thinking:


think of the sea
banned#32
Jo3l
Heres another one I do. Get your 10 most favourite songs, and play them ridiculously loud.

Its like screaming without screaming lol ;)

Mind if I ask whats up mate?


cheers mate you good.... the other question is answered in your PM
banned#33
mbgringo
Are you in India at the moment? Enjoy some quiet contemplation at sunset . . . .


Good guess

I was in India for the weeknd for now in Pakistan will be flying back to India mid-August ....
#34
Or you could log off the computer and go get some sunshine! Go for a run. Exercise and sunshine together are a great combo.

After a **** day, I slap my trainers on and blast through a mile or six with some tunes on my iPod. All those natural feel good chemicals flood into your brain. Endorphins rule. Of course, when I'm feeling ******, it's hard to motivate myself. But a little willpower gets me out the door, cos I know I'm gonna feel better after pounding the pavements for an hour.
banned#35
Aimee1985
Go out with my friends, they always cheer me up :) if not my last resort is my hubby :whistling:

keep yourself busy so you don't have time to be 'down'. I have three boys so they keep me busy but i try and have some 'me' time. I do aerobics, go to lunch with my friends, out for a drink every other week with the girls; there is always HUKD's :thumbsup:


Thanks... the hubby part will land me in the alternative choice zone though :p

octobergirl
you come on here and talk to people - that always helps
also you try and think of the positive things in your life, you must have some and appre iate them
Sorry you are feeling down - but tomorrow is another day



pcnutta
go around your mates, this always work for me.


emasu
Go into carpet right and shout "WHY DON'T YOU OPEN NEW YEARS DAY"

go onto the tube, and pretend to get a phone call - see how many others think they've suddenly got a signal.


Cheers you all are sweethearts
#36
Gazbert
Or you could log off the computer and go get some sunshine! Go for a run. Exercise and sunshine together are a great combo.

After a **** day, I slap my trainers on and blast through a mile or six with some tunes on my iPod. All those natural feel good chemicals flood into your brain. Endorphins rule. Of course, when I'm feeling ******, it's hard to motivate myself. But a little willpower gets me out the door, cos I know I'm gonna feel better after pounding the pavements for an hour.

im out of breath just reading that!! ha ha
banned#37
Gazbert
Or you could log off the computer and go get some sunshine! Go for a run. Exercise and sunshine together are a great combo.

After a **** day, I slap my trainers on and blast through a mile or six with some tunes on my iPod. All those natural feel good chemicals flood into your brain. Endorphins rule. Of course, when I'm feeling ******, it's hard to motivate myself. But a little willpower gets me out the door, cos I know I'm gonna feel better after pounding the pavements for an hour.


You actually made me laugh you know so thank you for that
#38
Dell_in_the_bed
cheers mate you good.... the other question is answered in your PM


Haha, Glad I could help mate. Ive been having a lot of trouble myself lately so Im getting good at cheering up lol. :thumbsup:

BTW, The PM didnt come through :S
#39
Dell_in_the_bed
Have you noticed I have not put you in multi-quote ... thanks


Thank u for not multi quoting me :)

If we were never sad we would never know how wonderful happy is, try not to live in the past or the future cos these don't exist, just here and now, this very moment, see how very lucky you are to be here, alive, breathing, with the sun and air on your face. You only live once, we might go thru lots of downs but equally there are lots of ups, we might not actually know you personally on here but the thought that someone is thinking about you and wishing you well is a comforting thought, I needed help the other day and a few kind words from other HUKDers made a world of difference.

Take care and I hope things improve for you :thumbsup:
banned#40
LaoTzu
Thank u for not multi quoting me :)

If we were never sad we would never know how wonderful happy is, try not to live in the past or the future cos these don't exist, just here and now, this very moment, see how very lucky you are to be here, alive, breathing, with the sun and air on your face. You only live once, we might go thru lots of downs but equally there are lots of ups, we might not actually know you personally on here but the thought that someone is thinking about you and wishing you well is a comforting thought, I needed help the other day and a few kind words from other HUKDers made a world of difference.

Take care and I hope things improve for you :thumbsup:



I wish I could add repute to that answer x 10 times :)

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