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I have my 8yr old tomorrow for contact and as the weather has changed not sure what to do!? Anyone have any ideas Read More
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8y, 2w agoPosted 8 years, 2 weeks ago
I have my 8yr old tomorrow for contact and as the weather has changed not sure what to do!?

Anyone have any ideas
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8y, 2w agoPosted 8 years, 2 weeks ago
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#1
boy or girl?

what about having some fun painting and getting messy,most kids love that.....
#2
I have my 8yr old tomorrow for contact


is this like a weekend thing?

why not a theme park

how much is your buget?

do you have a car?

what about staying over at seaside?
#3
ilovepink
is this like a weekend thing?

why not a theme park

how much is your buget?

do you have a car?

what about staying over at seaside?


i think the op is saying that the weather is now bad....;-)
#4
we need more details... boy or girl?

what are your childs interests, is there anything he/she would like to do?

Ask Mum if she has any ideas?
#5
theme parks are good with weather like this....not as busy:thumbsup:
#6
Bowling.
#7
It's an 8yr old boy, i do have a car, i was hoping to go seaside but obviously not now it's raining :whistling:

And yes i get 8hrs every fortnight so like to make it enjoyable, would do painting but would rather take him out as if he's in he tends to just want to play the computers, which i dont mind for an hour but he wont get off it :thumbsup:

Thought about bowling, was thinking about the Trocadero in London, but it means train swapping and not sure i can be arsed with that :lol:
#8
ilovepink
theme parks are good with weather like this....not as busy:thumbsup:


true and the log flume would be even better!!:-D
#9
Not sure his mum would appreciate me taking him to a theme park in the rain :whistling: it's taking me 3yrs through court to get where i am now :thumbsup:
#10
Charlie Scene
true and the log flume would be even better!!:-D


yeah its cool went with some mates few years ago it was horrid weather althougth all rides were still going hardley any queues was great
#11
apples33
It's an 8yr old boy, i do have a car, i was hoping to go seaside but obviously not now it's raining :whistling:

And yes i get 8hrs every fortnight so like to make it enjoyable, would do painting but would rather take him out as if he's in he tends to just want to play the computers, which i dont mind for an hour but he wont get off it :thumbsup:

Thought about bowling, was thinking about the Trocadero in London, but it means train swapping and not sure i can be arsed with that :lol:


dunno what part of the country you're in...

I'd go for southend, mess around at the adventure park and then the sea life centre.

8 hrs a fortnight, is pretty restrictive. Not sure how much else you can fit into that time. Make sure he's well fed and happy by the time he goes home to his Mum ( new comp game perhaps? or something new to wear etc ) helps keep em both buttered up! :)

Good luck!
#12
apples33
Not sure his mum would appreciate me taking him to a theme park in the rain :whistling: it's taking me 3yrs through court to get where i am now :thumbsup:


man thats tough....glad your there for him though,i am pretty lucky i get my son every thurs overnight...and every other weekend from thurs night until monday morning....never had any problems with his mum,we even swap days to suit each other:-D
i am sure if you keep proving your reliable then it might get easier for you.....the kid will benefit in the end:thumbsup:
#13
yeah southend sounds good, you got seaside and theme park all in 1 xxx
#14
ilovepink
yeah its cool went with some mates few years ago it was horrid weather althougth all rides were still going hardley any queues was great


top tip thanks:-D, i hate queues:x
#15
apples33
Not sure his mum would appreciate me taking him to a theme park in the rain :whistling: it's taking me 3yrs through court to get where i am now :thumbsup:


why don't you do some cooking with him? Would mum approve of that

how about some healthy chocolate cornflake cakes? good fun, you can get messy, lick the bowl together and then eat them all in one go.
#16
apples33
Not sure his mum would appreciate me taking him to a theme park in the rain :whistling: it's taking me 3yrs through court to get where i am now :thumbsup:


wow that must be tough xxx only 8 hrs a week :(
#17
Charlie Scene
man thats tough....glad your there for him though,i am pretty lucky i get my son every thurs overnight...and every other weekend from thurs night until monday morning....never had any problems with his mum,we even swap days to suit each other:-D
i am sure if you keep proving your reliable then it might get easier for you.....the kid will benefit in the end:thumbsup:


Thats good to hear :thumbsup:

My Ex cheated on me, then moved the other guy in and stopped all contact, my boy was only 3 at the time, so had to go through courts, i do get overnight shortly so will give me more time :thumbsup: but me and the Ex aren't amicable, she would rather i was out of their lives so they can get on with there's
#18
Southend does sound good, but i'm in London so will take me over an hour to get there, wouldn't have much time when i'm there, and the weather will still be crap :-D
#19
Charlie Scene
top tip thanks:-D, i hate queues:x


just remember yourplastic poncho:thumbsup: and a rucksack for spare DRY clothes:thumbsup:
#20
apples33
Thats good to hear :thumbsup:

My Ex cheated on me, then moved the other guy in and stopped all contact, my boy was only 3 at the time, so had to go through courts, i do get overnight shortly so will give me more time :thumbsup: but me and the Ex aren't amicable, she would rather i was out of their lives so they can get on with there's


how sad for you and your son xx

ask your son for some ideas on where he'd like to go next time you meet up
#21
apples33
Thats good to hear :thumbsup:

My Ex cheated on me, then moved the other guy in and stopped all contact, my boy was only 3 at the time, so had to go through courts, i do get overnight shortly so will give me more time :thumbsup: but me and the Ex aren't amicable, she would rather i was out of their lives so they can get on with there's


thats so cold:x
why is it mothers like that only think of themselves and not their child really annoys me
#22
apples33
It's an 8yr old boy, i do have a car, i was hoping to go seaside but obviously not now it's raining :whistling:

And yes i get 8hrs every fortnight so like to make it enjoyable, would do painting but would rather take him out as if he's in he tends to just want to play the computers, which i dont mind for an hour but he wont get off it :thumbsup:

Thought about bowling, was thinking about the Trocadero in London, but it means train swapping and not sure i can be arsed with that :lol:


bottle of sleeping pills(just dont overdo the dosage):thumbsup:
#23
apples33
Thats good to hear :thumbsup:

My Ex cheated on me, then moved the other guy in and stopped all contact, my boy was only 3 at the time, so had to go through courts, i do get overnight shortly so will give me more time :thumbsup: but me and the Ex aren't amicable, she would rather i was out of their lives so they can get on with there's


im sure your a great dad, time will prove that mate,all the best with everything:thumbsup:
#24
ClarityofMind
how sad for you and your son xx

ask your son for some ideas on where he'd like to go next time you meet up


We usually make plans for next contact, and it was going to be seaside and cos the crappy weather i cant do that :x he changes his mind as well if he had his way he'd stay in and play the ps2 where i'm not a computer person.

What makes it worse, is i have to tell me Ex what i'm doing with him when i collect him so it puts me on the spot, i did say in court to her that i would rather to collect him, you know he's safe and carry on with my contact, but no she said i'd like to know what you have planned :x
#25
Charlie Scene
im sure your a great dad, time will prove that mate,all the best with everything:thumbsup:


+1
#26
blackpeppa
why don't you do some cooking with him? Would mum approve of that
how about some healthy chocolate cornflake cakes? good fun, you can get messy, lick the bowl together and then eat them all in one go.


I think cooking is a great idea - how about pizzas. You can buy bases and then be as wild as you like with toppings. You can make a seinsible one just in case and then let his imagination run riot with his own!
#27
about going swimming then lunch somewhere perhaps let them pick where to go for lunch
or give him a few choices to pick from swimming, bowling or maybe pictures
#28
Charlie Scene
im sure your a great dad, time will prove that mate,all the best with everything:thumbsup:



Thanks mate :thumbsup:
#29
ttwcd
about going swimming then lunch somewhere perhaps let them pick where to go for lunch
or give him a few choices to pick from swimming, bowling or maybe pictures


Went swimming last contact, and because i have a skin condition i cant go in the water yet so had to take my mum with me to go in with him, where i took him they had a bowling alley so might take him there and bowl :thumbsup:

He's not really a film person, he says it's boring sitting there for 2 hrs :lol:
#30
http://www.dayoutwiththekids.co.uk/

Stick your region in etc,age of child,indoors,outdoors and gives list of activities.

I'd choose an indoor play area if I was out this weekend with the kids,but need to stay in and catch up on things in house.
#31
apples33
We usually make plans for next contact, and it was going to be seaside and cos the crappy weather i cant do that :x he changes his mind as well if he had his way he'd stay in and play the ps2 where i'm not a computer person


thats why i reckon take him out, let him enjoy himself, last task of the day- new ps2 game, he'll go home happy :)

does he get on well with the new step dad?.. just hoping theres a good influence in his life.

i wouldnt mind a few drops of rain so long as he has waterproofs and fresh dry clothing in the car.

have u been to the museum of childhood in bethnal green? my kids love that. The science museum in the city is brill, esp for boys and theres a play area in the basement. Natural history museum? you mentioned the trocadero.. arent they updating it at the moment?

if you go into london eat at the rainforest cafe, kids love it there.

uhm, madame tussauds.. ah ha, london dungeon! he'll love being scared :)

Trip down the thames, or up in the eye. Tower of london?
#32
How about re-creating the seaside at home? Depends if you know any friends with kids though and could be a bit messy!! Try and borrow someone's sandpit (you might want some plastic sheets down) so you can build sandcastles and just be creative, go for a paddle in the bath, get some ice-creams and cornets in, let him play on his computer for a while which would be like the arcades (but cheaper) but stop and play on a game with him. Just think of anything you'd do together if you were at the seaside and try and think of something similar you could do at home.

My daughter is 8yrs old too which is a sticky age as they're trying to be all grown up (she's 8 going on 18) but she would love to do something like this, a bit of a laugh and I'm sure he'll appreciate it. You could even put your swim things on while you're playing if you want to really get into it, go outside and fly a kite in between the rain or play cricket (obviously I don't know which of these you have but you don't have to do them all).

Use your imagination, perhaps think of things together and enjoy your 8 hours. I can't imagine only seeing my kids for that short amount of time a fortnight but good for you for fighting to see him, he'll SO appreciate it one day.
#33
how about asking him what he would like to do first ?
#34
apples33


What makes it worse, is i have to tell me Ex what i'm doing with him when i collect him so it puts me on the spot, i did say in court to her that i would rather to collect him, you know he's safe and carry on with my contact, but no she said i'd like to know what you have planned :x


she wants to know he's having a good time... also it gives her chance to rubbish you to him if he hasnt so make sure he's happy x x
#35
ClarityofMind
... also it gives her chance to rubbish you to him if he hasnt so make sure he's happy x x
:-D arent woman just sooo sly :-D:-D
#36
queenlush
how about asking him what he would like to do first ?


good idea. never thought of that.
#37
queenlush
how about asking him what he would like to do first ?


Nope, i have to know what i'm doing before i pick him up, as soon as i get there i get asked what i'm doing with him that day
suspended#38
trocadero is rubbish now. What about the science or natural history museum
#39
transit
:-D arent woman just sooo sly :-D:-D


it happens!
#40
Tinkytayls
trocadero is rubbish now. What about the science or natural history museum


Is it? last time i went was 1997 :oops:

You win though with your idea, natural history museum it is :thumbsup: i think he'll like the train ride as well bit more adventerous for him

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