As above, what would you define as cheating? My sil rang us last night in floods of tears, she's kicked her husband out and wants to divorce him.
She says he's cheated and can never forgive him, they are both teachers, they were supposed to attend a retirement party for a colleague who is also returning home to Australia, she wasn't well, so he went on his own, he got extremely drunk, and ended up kissing and groping his colleagues 22 yr old daughter on the dance floor. He was so drunk he didn't remember the incident, one of their mutual colleagues told my sil yesterday ( it happened last Friday, and they thought she knew ).
She says its cheating and its over, my husband agrees with her, I don't agree, think he made a drunken mistake and they should try to work it out.