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You knew a woman who was married and was doing stuff behind her husbands back! Would you tell the husband or keep it to yourself ? Serious Question! Read More
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8y, 4m agoPosted 8 years, 4 months ago
You knew a woman who was married and was doing stuff behind her husbands back!

Would you tell the husband or keep it to yourself ?

Serious Question!
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8y, 4m agoPosted 8 years, 4 months ago
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#1
Whats your relationship with the husband in question?
banned#2
Is this two different women or the same one. Its confusing when you post the same thing twice!
#3
mbgringo
Whats your relationship with the husband in question?


your not very close but would say hello if you saw him!
#4
mmm-stay out of it-in cases like this it can only go bad for the person doing the telling methinks-noone will thank you for news like that-my opinion only but what other people do is none of your business unless it directly harms you.
#5
guv
Is this two different women or the same one. Its confusing when you post the same thing twice!


didnt realise it had posted twice, i expired the other thread!
banned#6
scotland88
didnt realise it had posted twice, i expired the other thread!


Cool:thumbsup:
#7
scotland88
your not very close but would say hello if you saw him!


Hmm, interesting, would say hello then go see the wife methinks!

To be fair, the WORST thing to do (especially if the relationship with the parties is tenious) is get involved, sit back and enjoy the soap opera . . .
[mod]#8
I'd keep quiet............the husband doesn't want you bragging to him about his wife. :w00t:
#9
mbgringo
Hmm, interesting, would say hello then go see the wife methinks!

To be fair, the WORST thing to do (especially if the relationship with the parties is tenious) is get involved, sit back and enjoy the soap opera . . .


Syzable
I'd keep quiet............the husband doesn't want you bragging to him about his wife. :w00t:


i LOL'd at both posts Classics lol
#10
i wouldnt bother saying anything unless the person was close to me
banned#11
are you ready for the big fallout, think of the consequences before barging in
#12
Unless you're actually friends with the man, I'd stay well out of it....
#13
mumzyleah
i wouldnt bother saying anything unless the person was close to me


sassie
are you ready for the big fallout, think of the consequences before barging in


its jst the whole, thought of the husband getting used, i dont find it particularly fair tbh, if it was me no matter how hurt i would be i would like to know if my wife/gf/partner was fooling around
#14
She sounds easy, I'd hit on her!
#15
scotland88
its jst the whole, thought of the husband getting used, i dont find it particularly fair tbh, if it was me no matter how hurt i would be i would like to know if my wife/gf/partner was fooling around


If you know about it and you're not particularly close, it's only a matter of time until it gets back to her husband anyway
banned#16
scotland88
its jst the whole, thought of the husband getting used, i dont find it particularly fair tbh, if it was me no matter how hurt i would be i would like to know if my wife/gf/partner was fooling around


thats you, that doesnt mean he would feel the same, maybe he already suspects but chooses to ignore till he is ready to deal with it. I once told a very good friend of mine her hubby was cheating, trust me it didnt go down well and he denied everything and left our friendship in tatters, the truth did come out in the end, when she decided she was ready to face it i suppose, we are still friends but not like we where, do i regret it, sometimes i regret it very much and other times i dont
#17
sassie
thats you, that doesnt mean he would feel the same, maybe he already suspects but chooses to ignore till he is ready to deal with it. I once told a very good friend of mine her hubby was cheating, trust me it didnt go down well and he denied everything and left our friendship in tatters, the truth did come out in the end, when she decided she was ready to face it i suppose, we are still friends but not like we where, do i regret it, sometimes i regret it very much and other times i dont


that sucks, im sorry that happened to you and your friend! i feel you made the correct choice tho.
#18
grass her up
banned#19
scotland88
that sucks, im sorry that happened to you and your friend! i feel you made the correct choice tho.


wasnt really my choice to make though, was it :thumbsup:
#20
to be honest you should stay well out of it x you really dont know thier circumstances x for all you know he could be violent !! you dont know what happens behind closed doors x and if anything happened you wouldnt forgive yourself . x plus you need to have all the facts before you make a decision x dont be playing god hun in other peoples life x dont mess with destiny x thats what i say x evrything happens for a reason !! x
#21
mumzyleah
i wouldnt bother saying anything unless the person was close to me


Same here.
#22
sassie
wasnt really my choice to make though, was it :thumbsup:


as a human with feelings and a conscience, it sorta was your choice, but i see where you are coming from!

suppose it will all end in tears one day anyway!
#23
sassie
thats you, that doesnt mean he would feel the same, maybe he already suspects but chooses to ignore till he is ready to deal with it. I once told a very good friend of mine her hubby was cheating, trust me it didnt go down well and he denied everything and left our friendship in tatters, the truth did come out in the end, when she decided she was ready to face it i suppose, we are still friends but not like we where, do i regret it, sometimes i regret it very much and other times i dont


scotland88
that sucks, im sorry that happened to you and your friend! i feel you made the correct choice tho.


Sounds like you've answered your own question by agreeing it was the correct choice.

I really feel for Sassie, as I would tell my friend in the same circumstance and I think my friend would be fuming if he knew I was aware of everything and kept my mouth shut.

Just like someone else said, if you're distant to the person and you've managed to findout, how long do you think it'll take for word to get back to the innocent party?
banned#24
think this s going to be one of those you cant do right for wrong, whichever way it goes
#25
Anonymous letter :thumbsup:
banned#26
peodude
Anonymous letter :thumbsup:


why dont you have a conscience if you do it anonymously :?
#27
I'd blackmail her in exchange for sexual favours of course.

More so if she's hella fit.
#28
Tell her you know
#29
This one's easy, as already stated 'you can't win' if you say something.

Say something now - there will be denial from both sides.
Say something after - they'll feel like you held it back from them on purpose.

Solution: forget you ever knew anything about it. Never mention it to either party (or anyone who knows them). It's a little white lie which if you were to tell the truth, wouldn't do anyone any good whatsoever.
#30
peodude
Anonymous letter :thumbsup:


sassie
why dont you have a conscience if you do it anonymously :?


You said yourself, doing it personally, changed your relationship with the people. If you'd have sent an anonymous note, then your relationship would be intact.
#31
I'd avoid like the plague....

My fiance's brother was going with a girl and I knew for a fact that she had been two timing him and going with another man behind his back, I told him and at first he was okay but it soon backfired on me as she said it was lies and we had a huge falling out.... He soon realised I told him the truth but never appoligised for the way he was acting towards me.... now I just stay clear, not worth the hassle
#32
How do you know theres cheating going on if you dont know these people as friends? In the current credit crunch climate they may have split up and are living seperate lives in the same house willingly til finances look better etc. i know a couple who did this for about a year after they split up.
banned#33
peodude
You said yourself, doing it personally, changed your relationship with the people. If you'd have sent an anonymous note, then your relationship would be intact.


Then i would have been no better than the one cheating :thumbsup:

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