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you forget how precious life is...........a thank u to those who expressed concern x

edjaned Avatar
8y, 7m agoPosted 8 years, 7 months ago
for those who were asking about my mates little girl she passed away on monday night 4 years old such a waste,me my sister,my mate and her 2 remaining children were with her little girl (lucianna) till 4.30 in the morning then she was taken to chapel of rest.it is also the second child she has lost her first son died at 18 months in a house fire.
thanks to those who have said kind words it just reminds u of how precious life is and has made me be greatful for my families health and i realise i need to stop moaning over silly little things and be greatful for what we have

donations can be given on http://www.lucianna.co.uk/Welcome.html see page 9 for clicky link thanks
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8y, 7m agoPosted 8 years, 7 months ago
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#1
:( i am so sorry to hear the news. my condolences go out to all concerned.
#2
o ... ed.... :( thats so so so sad to read..even though u had told us this was gonna happen... it must be numbing.

i have an 18month old and a 4 year old... i cant even begin to imagine how she must feel...or u for that matter.

really dont know what to say... hugs and hope she copes at this horrid horrid time xxx
banned#3
Gosh, that woman needs some luck.

I had a bad few months about 18 months ago.

My friend commited suicide, my grandad died and my boyfriend was held up at work.

Very stressful time and it has taken counselling and anti-d's to get right again.
#4
dlm hugs to u as well.... tragic :(
banned#5
magicbeans
dlm hugs to u as well.... tragic :(


Thanks magicbeans, I'm getting there.
#6
I'm so sorry to hear that edjaned. :-(

Thanks for letting us know.
#7
Damn very very sad.....can I ask how? It hasn't been mentioned.
#8
Our condolences go out to all those concerned ... I cannot even imagine what one would go through in that situation .... my sister lost her first baby girl at birth ... baby had some complications and did not live more than 1 month in an ICU ....
#9
dlm
Thanks magicbeans, I'm getting there.


u sound positive hun..... thats a massive step. keep it up..... xxx
banned#10
thats really sad....things like this happen and it just makes me feel like there is no god

Condolences to all concerned
#11
SanjayShetty
Our condolences go out to all those concerned ... I cannot even imagine what one would go through in that situation .... my sister lost her first baby girl at birth ... baby had some complications and did not live more than 1 month in an ICU ....


:(
#12
Was it not meningitis?
Very, very sad. I wish her and her family some well needed peace.
banned#13
magicbeans
u sound positive hun..... thats a massive step. keep it up..... xxx



I'm ok, I feel like I have hijacked this thread a bit.

My condolences to all concerned with the little girl.
#14
I'm so sorry, this must feel unbearable, those of us with children know how precious they are.

my heart goes out to your friend an her family.
#15
thoughts are with all those concerned. big hugs to u hun
banned#16
ODB_69
thats really sad....things like this happen and it just makes me feel like there is no god

Condolences to all concerned


Unfotunately our bodies are not made of steel.

There is so much that can happen to you mentally and physically.
#17
So very sad to hear this edjaned xx :friends:
#18
magicbeans
:(


Thanks magicbeans .. i m sure my sis is coping well since last week ... but i can in no way imagine what could one go through in this stage ...
#19
none of it seems real atm i have seen elderly people dead befor but i never imagined to see a child passed away i just tried to put my feelings aside and think what i feel is nothing compared to how my mate feels it was heartbreaking,at least she is out of pain now and at least at her age she didnt understand death she just knew she was poorly she was a happy and brave little thing till the end.funeral is on monday.i just keep looking at my 4 year old and seeing lucianna,i just want to do what i can for my friend,thanks guys x
#20
Very sad news

:friends:

and extra ones for those in need :friends::friends::friends:
banned#21
edjaned
none of it seems real atm i have seen elderly people dead befor but i never imagined to see a child passed away i just tried to put my feelings aside and think what i feel is nothing compared to how my mate feels it was heartbreaking,at least she is out of pain now and at least at her age she didnt understand death she just knew she was poorly she was a happy and brave little thing till the end.funeral is on monday.i just keep looking at my 4 year old and seeing lucianna,i just want to do what i can for my friend,thanks guys x


You sound like an amazing friend, it's so hard dealing with death.

You just do not know what to say, just try to be there for your friend x x
banned#22
Can we all send money to a family fund.

I feel like I or we need to do something nice.
#23
melu
Damn very very sad.....can I ask how? It hasn't been mentioned.


of course sorry didnt mention that
she started with headaches in oct then started having fits and a stroke then they found she had an adult form of brain tumour (cancer)
she had operations to remove the tumour and chemo and she was doing really well but 8 weeks ago she had a fit again and when she had an mri they found the tumour had grown bigger and had spread into the brain fluid so they said it would be cruel to put her through it again and it would just be delaying her death,she was very brave
#24
How awful, no one should ever have to go through something like that. Please pass on my condolences.
#25
My heart goes out to you and your friend. I am so very very sorry xxx
#26
dlm
Can we all send money to a family fund.

I feel like I or we need to do something nice.


yes im for that too-please let me know if you sort something out?

It is absolutely tragic -maybe we can put together so the other children could have a treat?

sorry if this sounds awful just the family must have been through hell..
#27
Thats awful. My 8 month old was in hospital last week but is thankfully home again now. I lost a baby 3 years ago but cant imagine how awful it is for your friend to lose a little girl. My heart goes out to you all x x x
#28
Condolences from here too. Losing a child must be one of the most difficult challenges life can throw at you. I know a few people who have gone through this and they've all needed good friends like you to help them through.
#29
she is collecting money to save for her gravestone but please dont think i was asking for donations x
my mate is on benefits as she was sole carer for lucianna some charities have helped with funeral costs
we are all putting money together for the stone and flowers
as a few of u know i had been redecorating annmaries home as it had become run down to say the least as she was so busy back and fourth to hospital so she has also been hard trying to get money together for that as i want annmarie and her 2 other children to at least have a nicer home its hard work for her on her own her family are absoloutly useless
#30
westmorlandlife
I'm so sorry, this must feel unbearable, those of us with children know how precious they are.

my heart goes out to your friend an her family.


I think this sentiment says so much ...
My condolences to all concerned and wish the family happiness in the future ... :(
#31
http://www.forumsextreme.com/imgs1/sSig_ImSorry.gif Oh my god that is such terrible news! It takes something like this to make you realise just how much you love you kids/family! Kaylah is 10 months old i am taking her to the doctors this afternoon with slightly suspected measles and i am getting really parnoid about it! But that is nothing compared to what this little girl went through.
My heart goes out to her parents and all her family and friends!
The only good to come of this is that at least she is not suffering anymore.
banned#32
edjaned
she is collecting money to save for her gravestone but please dont think i was asking for donations x
my mate is on benefits as she was sole carer for lucianna some charities have helped with funeral costs
we are all putting money together for the stone and flowers
as a few of u know i had been redecorating annmaries home as it had become run down to say the least as she was so busy back and fourth to hospital so she has also been hard trying to get money together for that as i want annmarie and her 2 other children to at least have a nicer home its hard work for her on her own her family are absoloutly useless


You haven't been asking for donations.

I just want to do my bit for a family in need.

Please pm me your name and address and I will send a cheque today x x
#33
dlm
Gosh, that woman needs some luck.

I had a bad few months about 18 months ago.

My friend commited suicide, my grandad died and my boyfriend was held up at work.

Very stressful time and it has taken counselling and anti-d's to get right again.


hugs to u too
my uncle who i was extremely close to comitted suicide so i know how awful coping is :friends:
banned#34
edjaned
hugs to u too
my uncle who i was extremely close to comitted suicide so i know how awful coping is :friends:


I know all the unanswered questions, feeling helpless, visiting a grave of a young person with their life ahead of them is awful.

I wanted to go to his wedding not his funeral.

God bless the little girl, your uncle and my friend Keith who would have been 37 next month.

Such a nice guy with his life ahead of him, very sad.
#35
pinkkitty2007
Thats awful. My 8 month old was in hospital last week but is thankfully home again now. I lost a baby 3 years ago but cant imagine how awful it is for your friend to lose a little girl. My heart goes out to you all x x x


i too lost a little boy when i was 22 weeks pregnant

the only thing that got me through were my other children i think that is why i want to be there for her so much i keep saying to her things about how i coped after losing ryan and i tell her my loss of my little boy is nothing in comparison to what she is going through

but she says losing a child at any stage is awful,i just dont know how to comfort her she just says i am not that bad that my little girl has to be taken away from me aswell as my little boy.she feels in some way she is being punished :cry:
#36
edjaned
she is collecting money to save for her gravestone but please dont think i was asking for donations x
my mate is on benefits as she was sole carer for lucianna some charities have helped with funeral costs
we are all putting money together for the stone and flowers
as a few of u know i had been redecorating annmaries home as it had become run down to say the least as she was so busy back and fourth to hospital so she has also been hard trying to get money together for that as i want annmarie and her 2 other children to at least have a nicer home its hard work for her on her own her family are absoloutly useless


please add the bank details for people to contribute as i am sure lots of people will(or they can pm you for them) you didnt ask-we offered!
#37
I offer my sincere condolences to all concerned
#38
louloo
please add the bank details for people to contribute as i am sure lots of people will(or they can pm you for them) you didnt ask-we offered!


thank u so much for your donation we have a year to pay for stone so hopefully with a bit of extra money annmarie can afford to put luciannas photo on the stone from when she was well and still had her hair :)

if any body would like to donate u can pm me

i feel really cheeky doing this :oops:
#39
edjaned
i too lost a little boy when i was 22 weeks pregnant

the only thing that got me through were my other children i think that is why i want to be there for her so much i keep saying to her things about how i coped after losing ryan and i tell her my loss of my little boy is nothing in comparison to what she is going through

but she says losing a child at any stage is awful,i just dont know how to comfort her she just says i am not that bad that my little girl has to be taken away from me aswell as my little boy.she feels in some way she is being punished :cry:



You poor things. Yes it must be doubly hard with her now losing a second child. Life can be so cruel. I just hope that she can realise that its just cruel fate and not in any way a reflection on her, and take some joy from her 2 lovely little ones. I think the fund idea is a great one if it means we can help in any way
#40
It was probably a great relief - too see a child suffering like that I cannot even imagine, kxxxxxxxx at least the had you, your amazing with what you have been doing and though they are grieving I trust and hope someone realises how it has affected you too I know how long this has been for you and you have to try and get things back to some form of normaility, my best wishes go to you and condolences to lucianna's family, well done for being the friend everyone wants

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