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    Anyone on the forums partners expecting a baby...

    Just wondering if anyone else is in the same situation as me and partner is driving them crazy through the pregnancy lol,this is will be the 2nd child with my partner and this pregnancy is alot differnt to the last one,shes moody,sex drive has gone right down where mine has always been high,she just doesnt seem to make a effort in general,i know her hormones will be all over the place and i expect that i just didnt expect it to be so doff to the last one lol..come on fathers to be help......

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    this is will be the 2nd child with my partner and this pregnancy is alot differnt to the last one,shes moody,sex drive has gone right down quote


    Remember that this time your partner has another child to look after as well as being pregnant!! Take it from me this isn't easy! Just be patient and all will return to 'normal' after the new baby has been born .... just LOVE & SUPPORT HER!

    "shes moody,sex drive has gone right down where mine has always been high,she just doesnt seem to make a effort in general,i know her hormones will be all over the place "

    Are you sure she's pregnant, I just thought women were like this anyway.

    MinstrelMan;3297644

    "shes moody,sex drive has gone right down where mine has always been … "shes moody,sex drive has gone right down where mine has always been high,she just doesnt seem to make a effort in general,i know her hormones will be all over the place "Are you sure she's pregnant, I just thought women were like this anyway.


    :w00t: naughty step >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

    snowtiger;3297651

    :w00t: naughty step >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>



    *sulks*

    got my finger on my lip and everythin :x

    Hi OP,

    I'm in exactly the same situation as you. We are expecting our second in February and this pregnancy has been different from the first one. It's hard work but I do agree with the female posters who are advising you to be as supportive as possible.

    When you think about it, the first time round everything was new and exciting. You could concentrate on each other because there were no other children to worry about. This time around you've been through it all before and it's much more tiring because you are parents at the same time.

    Give yourselves a break, take a step back and have a talk about things together. You'll probably find she's feeling really insecure and if you talk about it things will feel much better. I'm sure she will also understand where you're coming from.

    Original Poster

    thanks for the advice people,i understand its hard as we have another child its just harder as she seems totaly diff this time round,im sure things will work out soon

    ha ha its going to get worse mate i was a nightmare when i was pregnant i remember crying over stupid things and shouting at mark for it heres some examples of my outburts of tears;

    cried because;
    fav top didnt fit anymore
    fav shoes didnt fit (swollen feet)
    couldnt decide what to wear
    no hot water for a bath (lol @ that one)
    dropped my dinner out of the oven straight on the floor

    Also her body is changing at a super fast rate and dosent neciserally look how it did last time, that alone is a big thing for a woman and 100% however good you think she looks she feels polar opposite!!!

    in my first pregnancy I coulndnt get enough!! but this time (baby is 4 months) I didnt wanna know at all and still am not back to normal. Remember you love each other an thats what matters more than anything!! just try giving her a cuddle and tell her all the things she wants to hear hopefully cheer her up no end!!!

    Banned

    you try carryin a huge bump round 4 nine mnths n bein drink deprived!!!!

    ilovepink;3297906

    ha ha its going to get worse mate i was a nightmare when i was pregnant i … ha ha its going to get worse mate i was a nightmare when i was pregnant i remember crying over stupid things and shouting at mark for it heres some examples of my outburts of tears;cried because;fav top didnt fit anymorefav shoes didnt fit (swollen feet)couldnt decide what to wearno hot water for a bath (lol @ that one)dropped my dinner out of the oven straight on the floor



    lolz. . . . . . I attacked the boiler hitting it with a serving spoon screaming because there was no hot water . . . . . :?. . . . . ok now i sound crazy hahaha

    but totally sympathise with the crying thing, gets better tho :-D

    Try to be a bit more understanding, your partner has another person growing inside her of course things are going to change. Its not just the hormones but they play a big part. Just be thankful she is only like this when she is pregnant!
    I have always had a high sex drive even when pregnant but my husband didn't like to have sex as he thought his 'ding a ling' would hit the baby! Tried to explain it wasn't that big ... what i am trying to say is talk to your partner it may be that she has just temporary gone off sex or there may be something that is worrying her :thumbsup:

    Good luck!

    Aimee1985;3298026

    Try to be a bit more understanding, your partner has another person … Try to be a bit more understanding, your partner has another person growing inside her of course things are going to change. Its not just the hormones but they play a big part. Just be thankful she is only like this when she is pregnant!I have always had a high sex drive even when pregnant but my husband didn't like to have sex as he thought his 'ding a ling' would hit the baby! Tried to explain it wasn't that big ... what i am trying to say is talk to your partner it may be that she has just temporary gone off sex or there may be something that is worrying her :thumbsup:Good luck!



    sorry but. . . .pmsl lol rofl hahaha hehehe thats cheered my morning right up :-D

    Aimee1985;3298026

    Try to be a bit more understanding, your partner has another person … Try to be a bit more understanding, your partner has another person growing inside her of course things are going to change. Its not just the hormones but they play a big part. Just be thankful she is only like this when she is pregnant!I have always had a high sex drive even when pregnant but my husband didn't like to have sex as he thought his 'ding a ling' would hit the baby! Tried to explain it wasn't that big ... what i am trying to say is talk to your partner it may be that she has just temporary gone off sex or there may be something that is worrying her :thumbsup:Good luck!



    Exact same thing happened to me with both pregnancies, mine went through the roof and there wasn't a chance because in his words "he might poke the babies head" :roll:

    To the OP just remember what she is going through, she has a child inside her to care for plus another child. Maybe if you could help her out a bit more in general and with child number 1 she might show her appreciation ;-)

    MinstrelMan;3297644

    "shes moody,sex drive has gone right down where mine has always been … "shes moody,sex drive has gone right down where mine has always been high,she just doesnt seem to make a effort in general,i know her hormones will be all over the place "Are you sure she's pregnant, I just thought women were like this anyway.



    hello minstrelman,nice to see your posts again,hope u are all well

    edjaned;3298300

    hello minstrelman,nice to see your posts again,hope u are all well



    all? I'm just 1 man dammit! :whistling:

    yeah i'm tip top thanks treac, how you keepin yourself?

    Cheer up OP, 3rd and 4th time might work out better for you. ;-)

    MinstrelMan;3298336

    all? I'm just 1 man dammit! :whistling:yeah i'm tip top thanks treac, how … all? I'm just 1 man dammit! :whistling:yeah i'm tip top thanks treac, how you keepin yourself?Cheer up OP, 3rd and 4th time might work out better for you. ;-)



    lol sorry didnt mean to spoil your "free and single" image :thumbsup:
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