Anyone think iv caught my Gf cheating ?? she says they are just friends....hmmmm

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You think?

What have you seen/heard?

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Hello stranger xxx

Original Poster

Kris is her brother, this Daniel broke up with his fiance about 2 weeks ago when i got back from offshore.
His fiance is my gf best mate.....will i tell her ??

Im lee at the top of the mobile conversation

I cant believe this is happening to me :x:x:x:x:x

hi prissymiss x

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I think its clear whats going on, if these messages are true.

Just tell her to go whsitle..

Make sure you get all your dvd's back because you'll be wanting to watch something and remember its at hers still and you'll kick yourself lol

Is he a friend of yours?? Is her brother Kris a friend of yours??

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I was offshore 5 weeks ago and looked at my virgin mobile website, you can check the last 60 texts or calls. I seen this odd number happening over and over every 5 min.
I founf out it was Daniels, and it all exploded from there.
I called her when i was offshore and said what are all these text messages from daniel, first thing she said was "what do you think im fu***** cheating on you!"

Tell her!!

Texting each other 30 - 40 times a day . . . . . . . sorry dude, confront her!

Original Poster

Daniel is no friend of mine now, he was a bit of a mate,
kris is only 15 and yeh i ger on with Kris really well....but i think he has been lying for his sister

Original Poster

I have confronted her, she says they are just mates
i said to her tell me the truth and ill just move out etc (which ive done already now) and all she could say was "no were just friends" and "no im not cheating on you"

Original Poster

ill post a 2 days of recorded text messages to his number and see what you think

this happened avery day, let me post them up but ill blur out bits

Maybe ask Kris outright because he prob wont be expecting it and might just tell you the truth. Then you have proof whereas its quite obvious what she is doing but she is gonna keep lying till you get proof.
She is playing mind games with you but i think you know for certain she is cheating.
How old is she? U dont live together or anything?

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They might not have done owt wrong, but from the texts they both sound pathetic and act like school kids, good enough grounds to move on mate.

dont look good :-(

get rid and find yourself someone worthy

Personally i think its quite obvious whats going on and they are being very sneaky about it. if I were you mate I would knock it on the head.

And from personal experience try not to look into her email, telephone bills etc - I did it when i thought my gfriend was cheating. As soon as i did it i knew it was over as i didnt trust her - Caught her at it though. lol.

All the best.

Hmm does seem a bit dodgy doesnt it, you say you saw them holding hands when her brother went to the toilet, seeing is believing!

All them texts, and if it was innocent why would she be deleting them, go with your instinct saxo, i think you already know.

Why do people do this? Why can't they just be honest and finish one thing, and then start the other.

All the best to you saxo, good you found out

Sorry mate but do you really need to hear from us? Does she know you have seen the texts? If so how did she explain them?

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His is the 989 one

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PM'd, take care xxx

nadss;2590284

All them texts, and if it was innocent [COLOR=Blue]why would she be … All them texts, and if it was innocent [COLOR=Blue]why would she be deleting them[/COLOR], go with your instinct saxo, i think you already know.


I usually delete my texts as soon as ive read them, doesnt mean its suspicious, I do it out of habit from when phones could only store 10;-)

nadss;2590284

Hmm does seem a bit dodgy doesnt it, you say you saw them holding hands … Hmm does seem a bit dodgy doesnt it, you say you saw them holding hands when her brother went to the toilet, seeing is believing!All them texts, and if it was innocent why would she be deleting them, go with your instinct saxo, i think you already know.Why do people do this? Why can't they just be honest and finish one thing, and then start the other.All the best to you saxo, good you found out




People cheat like this because they want to make sure it will work with the new person before they finish with the other person. so then if it does all go wrong at least they have the old one still. They are selfish and cruel. They should be honest but they dont.

Doesn't look too good to me :-(. I hope either way you manage to get it sorted out.

Maybe she hasn't been cheating, but obviously you're not happy with their friendship (some wouldn't care, many would), she should therefore move on from the friendship to save your relationship. I am guessing she won't though as in her eyes, her actions are fine.

Dump the cheating cow!

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Well that is other excessive texting. I think its clear mate.

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hope whatever happens your ok xxxx

saxo she has absolutely no respect for u...thats blatent enough from the way she talks about her man to other men...... secondly... her relationship with this guy is very cosy cosy and some of the stuff does seems obvious. fact she deletes only his messages is very worrying....

u know exaclty whats going on...its just hard to accept it.... good luck matey x

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i think i know why she isnt telling me that its finished
she knows i have all this coz i told her i managed to see they texts,
she doesnt want me to go to Nicolle (her best mate who was with Daniel) because he has a kid to her.....

and that will really mess things up for him, yes they are being sneaky
and taking kris everywhere is just a suspicious, it means there taking him places so they have an excuse if anyone sees them together.

Thanks for all the comments folks, i cant eat or sleep and its driving my head crazy.
i go away offhsore on friday morning and iv had to put up with all this since i got back 2 weeks ago

How old are you?? how old is she???
Does she text you that much or did she use to txt you that much because surely no-one has that much time to txt??

Sorry for you mate, its a bitter blow, but it does get better in the end, ive been there myself so try not to hold grudges as they eat you up inside. Thats may seem easy enough to say but it can be done, find distractions, hang out with mates go for a drink with them, but try not to spend too much time in your own company as thats when thoughts start festering and breeding. Once they get hold it can be hard to let go.

Did you know it takes the average blow just 10 days from the end of a relationship before he starts subconciously looking at alternatives and a woman 9 weeks:thumbsup:

Is her Name Mary, think I know her

Saxo_appeal; I still don't think she is "cheating" in the definition sense, if that helps?

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try not to spend too much time in your own company as thats when … try not to spend too much time in your own company as thats when thoughts start festering and breeding.



thats exactly what im like just now :roll:

Get with nicolle and take a picture of yous together and message it to her, revenge is best served cold.

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pghstochaj;2590360

Saxo_appeal; I still don't think she is "cheating" in the definition … Saxo_appeal; I still don't think she is "cheating" in the definition sense, if that helps?



Do you think its the start of something then? she clearly keeps saying she has done nothing wrong and hasnt been etc with him
but why go out with him to bowling ? texting, meeting etc

He is a piece of dirt !!!!!!!!!

u say your going offshore on friday, do you do that often for long periods of time?
Im not saying what she is doing is ok but maybe they are just friends because she's lonely and misses you but then that doesnt explain why she still sees him so much when your back. hhmmmm!!

Its like a mourning process, you feel shock, denial, anger. After that Acceptance and Hope. The fact that your on here and talking about it is a good sign.

Really hope it all works out for you saxo

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Saxo_appeal, move on mate, reading the text messages .....

There is always two sides of a picture and you might you want to look into this a bit more before you make a decision, best of luck with either way you decide to go matey

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Do you think its the start of something then? she clearly keeps saying … Do you think its the start of something then? she clearly keeps saying she has done nothing wrong and hasnt been etc with himbut why go out with him to bowling ? texting, meeting etcHe is a piece of dirt !!!!!!!!!



Personally, I reckon if you let it happen as it is, nothing would happen, assuming your girlfriend is a reasonable person. Some people just like friendships like that whilst in a relationship, in my experience. A lot of people (including me) would not agree it is appropriate however. I would always be thinking that he would be turning her against you (little comment here, little comment there) and I would find that a very difficult way to live.
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