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    I was out last night with the girls when a shall I say male specimen came up to me and said your eyes are like diamonds go bury yourself . Being as thick as I was didn't get it so my girls explained I thought Ha Ha How can I get back at him. Couldn't think of anything so what I did I went Up to him ( he was with his mates ) started talking to him gave him the come on made him think I was up for it. He bought me a drink and without thinking I threw it over him. Not a happy bunny. Then the next thing I knew I was being chucked out of the bar and now I have been banned. Do people think this is excessive or were they right. I know I should have not chucked the drink but it was the spare of the moment thing.

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    kim44 = bunny boiler. Violence in any form is the domain of the unintelligent. Just because you were too thick to think of a snappy comeback you ruined this chap's night. Shame on you

    castortroy;3011303

    kim44 = bunny boiler. Violence in any form is the domain of the … kim44 = bunny boiler. Violence in any form is the domain of the unintelligent. Just because you were too thick to think of a snappy comeback you ruined this chap's night. Shame on you



    Ditto the above (apart from calling you thick)

    Why the over reaction.....and he even bought you a drink, lads are lads hun :?

    castortroy;3011303

    kim44 = bunny boiler. Violence in any form is the domain of the … kim44 = bunny boiler. Violence in any form is the domain of the unintelligent. Just because you were too thick to think of a snappy comeback you ruined this chap's night. Shame on you


    And you have a soviet assault rifle as your avi? Mind I agree, I'd be pee'd off if some doris threw a drink over my clobber. (I ain't calling you a doris)

    Banned

    I wouldn't throw a drink over anybody, if somebody insults or offends me, i walk away.

    A few year's ago i was head butted by a guy because he didn't like the way i looked at him.

    I made sure he got thrown out, some people can't handle alcohol.

    Maybe you should drink less and think more.

    Whast the hell has this tripe got to do with hot deals in teh UK?

    Shekz0r;3011321

    Whast the hell has this tripe got to do with hot deals in teh UK?


    It's a misc section

    Shekz0r;3011321

    Whast the hell has this tripe got to do with hot deals in teh UK?



    Shekzor, I think you want to head on back to the DEALS section, this is in MISC, which is open for banter!


    Kim44, an bit of an overreaction, regardless of how annoted you were! Not saying he didn't deserve some comeback, might have made more sense to fleece a load of drinks out of him and then enjoy a cheap night out on his expense!
    :whistling:

    Paddy_o_furniture;3011326

    It's a misc section



    Even still. She is clearly just looking for a reaction of either 'you go girlfreind' or 'you are mental'. Doesn't acheive anything either way.

    Banned

    Yeah they were right to ban you, that behavior is what starts fights

    Yes you over-reacted and you should NEVER waste alcohol - Throwing a drink over someone is pathetic. Its not smart and how you acted wasn't classy. You may of thought you embarassed him, but you really just embarassed yourself!

    If it was BG1 I forgive you

    Yup, you prob ruined his night.

    I got bottled by a MAN in a night club many years ago... scar above my right eye to prove it.
    :x If i could have seen through the blood that was running down my face,If Id have caught him, I would have poured more than a drink over him!!

    In your case though, I would have had more revenge by letting him supply me with drinks ALL night, until he thought he was IN ;-) then get in a taxi alone waving BYE BYE to him. He would be MORE deflated and embarassed infront of his mates had you done something like this. Afterall lads are lads ;-) play them at there own game ;-)

    TamaraKnight;3011353

    Yes you over-reacted and you should NEVER waste alcohol



    i shall bare this in mind :lol: (like i didnt already know :w00t:

    Your eyes ARE like diamonds..... And you have ruined my shirt :x

    good for u its about time somebody stood up to these kind of blokes

    Banned

    Foosball Chum;3011347

    Yeah they were right to ban you, that behavior is what starts fights


    totally agree. he was even within his rights to get you charged with assault. :x

    How the hell can throwing a drink at someone be a good riposte?

    depends if his shirt was minging? maybe the drink made it look better? lol

    i dont get what he said, wasnt tht a compliment?

    Cluffy321;3011431

    i dont get what he said, wasnt tht a compliment?



    im glad im not the only one, whose never heard it :oops:

    ive never actually heard of that one lol

    Banned

    Have you been listening to too much Pink?

    [SIZE="3"]I guess i just lost my husband
    I don't know where he went
    So i'm gonna drink my money
    I'm not gonna pay his rent (Nope)
    I got a brand new attitude
    And i'm gonna wear it tonight
    I wanna get in trouble
    I wanna start a fight

    Na Na Na Na Na Na Na
    I wanna start a fight
    Na Na Na Na Na Na Na
    I wanna start a fight[/SIZE]

    Cluffy321;3011431

    i dont get what he said, wasnt tht a compliment?


    Me either, thought it ment bury yourself in those lovely eyes, :?

    For next time, Your eyes are like pools, cesse pools :whistling:
    Your teeth are like stars, they come out at night :-D
    your ears are like flowers, cauliflowers ;-)

    Better still laugh along, it makes the jibe go wrong

    happy donkey;3011473

    Me either, thought it ment bury yourself in those lovely eyes, :?For next … Me either, thought it ment bury yourself in those lovely eyes, :?For next time, Your eyes are like pools, cesse pools :whistling:Your teeth are like stars, they come out at night :-Dyour ears are like flowers, cauliflowers ;-)Better still laugh along, it makes the jibe go wrong



    Your eyes are like spanners.....when i look into them my nuts tighten (sorry)

    castortroy;3011537

    Your eyes are like spanners.....when i look into them my nuts tighten … Your eyes are like spanners.....when i look into them my nuts tighten (sorry)


    :giggle: cant remember the rest we used to have :roll:

    Your lips are like petals, bycle pedles

    [quote=dcx_badass;3011548]I don't get what he said either.

    Maybe it was an attempted compliment :? oops !!

    think its better to be witty as ive learnt working in a bar, i used to get men saying nice ****, to i replied well **** comes out of it like everyone elses

    Well over reacted @ op

    babyxxxxx;3011576

    think its better to be witty as ive learnt working in a bar, i used to … think its better to be witty as ive learnt working in a bar, i used to get men saying nice ****, to i replied well **** comes out of it like everyone elses



    wit, or vulgarity??

    cookjackie;3011381

    good for u its about time somebody stood up to these kind of blokes



    :w00t: your joking right

    should of ignored it, well ott :roll:

    can you explain to us what your friends said it meant? cos we don't get it?? :?

    I bit extreme ain't it, especially since he bought the drink!

    kungfu;3011745

    Well over reacted @ opwit, or vulgarity??




    lol well mine was a local pub full of dirty old men so you have to be stern with them, telling me to get a bottle at the bottom of the fridge then saying they dont want it so i have to put it back

    Banned

    babyxxxxx;3012396

    lol well mine was a local pub full of dirty old men so you have to be … lol well mine was a local pub full of dirty old men so you have to be stern with them, telling me to get a bottle at the bottom of the fridge then saying they dont want it so i have to put it back



    The life of a barmaid, been there, done that.

    Not likely to do it again, too many aggressive people.

    DLM;3012405

    The life of a barmaid, been there, done that.Not likely to do it again, … The life of a barmaid, been there, done that.Not likely to do it again, too many aggressive people.



    I love bar work and if you know how to handle aggresive people its fine.

    To the OP, I would have banned you short term tbh - he apologised by buying you a drink.

    lol he got served. Tho i dont understand why

    If a guy had done that to a girl? pour a drink over her? every female in the country would be up in arms
    no different if we do it, you deserved to get chucked out, barred I dont know but definately chucked out.
    Your lucky actually he could have had you arrested for assault

    Should just walk away, although i'm sure he meant it as a compliment.
    Doesn't sound very offensive to me.
    Would hate to see your reaction if it had been really nasty comment lol.

    lol wheres the op at, suspecting she didnt get the biggups she was hoping from this thread

    Supermod

    How was it "spare/spur" of the moment.
    Applying law...would need to prove provocation and loss of self control almost imminently. You gathered your thoughts and then did that. So...yes, it was the right decision to ban you. Also, bar staff shouldnt have to put up with clearing up your mess.
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