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    bg1: I have an issue with the OH....

    she wants to go out tonight, we have been going out for over a year and now moved in recently.

    I told her i wont let her, they are going to some bars then a club after. I Said no because she will get a bit drunk then might be dancing with other guys. Since were together I don't see why she would want to go out anyway.

    As for now I took her purse and cards so she has no money to go out.

    am i being rationale?

    would also link to point out at this point she is not speaking too me and left the house, she will be back soon though as she makes my dinner at 6pm.

    money grabbing, purse snatching, credit card hiding, dancing queen
    - richx45

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    overprotective friend is strong.

    HOORAY... the real bg1 is back at last.

    Original Poster

    I would also like to mention that I pay appox 65% of the bills and everything, while she only pays 35%.


    thanks for unspamming mods :), doing a fab job as always

    Quite ironic that your profile pic says "freedom"

    Does she have a River Island purse?

    Give the girl a break and let her go out !............or you go with her and lighten up and enjoy !

    good to see BG back with his fake real life issues to get a response on here

    Why not just join her?

    Original Poster

    andymwh1972

    Quite ironic that your profile pic says "freedom"


    what does that mean, I let her go out shopping with her mates and stuff like that. I Dont see why she would want to go to a club which is full of pervy men?

    this thread has potential

    Original Poster

    shopstilldrops

    Give the girl a break and let her go out !............or you go with her … Give the girl a break and let her go out !............or you go with her and lighten up and enjoy !


    She has already been out twice this week, friends bday dinner on tuesday and shopping on friday.
    Abvance

    Why not just join her?


    I don't like dancing, id rather just stay in today and before bed we get down to business. I dont want her talking to other guys while im not there. Who knows what can happen.

    you mean you wish lol

    black gerbil1

    what does that mean, I let her go out shopping with her mates and stuff … what does that mean, I let her go out shopping with her mates and stuff like that.



    Just leave her now, you are clearly not mature enough for an adult relationship.

    /thread.

    black gerbil1

    [quote=andymwh1972] Quite ironic that your profile pic says "freedom"


    what does that mean, I let her go out shopping with her mates and stuff like that. I Dont see why she would want to go to a club which is full of pervy men?[/quote]


    How about trusting her !?!

    if you dont trust her you shouldn't be together.

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    PhearFactor

    Just leave her now, you are clearly not mature enough for an adult … Just leave her now, you are clearly not mature enough for an adult relationship./thread.


    how am I not ready? she was the one who wanted to move in. I said okay as its easier for her to cook my food and clean then coming over every other day. I brought her a dress for her bday so its all give and take.

    shopstilldrops

    what does that mean, I let her go out shopping with her mates and stuff … what does that mean, I let her go out shopping with her mates and stuff like that. I Dont see why she would want to go to a club which is full of pervy men?[/quote]How about trusting her !?!


    I do trust her, but I dont want my women drinking and dancing when guys are like 20cm away from her. The women should be beside her man, not faluting it out on a sat night.

    your havin a laugh ,who are you to stop anyone going out even though she is your girlfriend, you wont be together long , as your probably ugly and without confidence and so insecure


    singer

    she is probs away getting banged by someone just now anyway if she has any sense
    Edited by: "singer" 18th Jun 2011

    black gerbil1

    how am I not ready? she was the one who wanted to move in. I said okay as … how am I not ready? she was the one who wanted to move in. I said okay as its easier for her to cook my food and clean



    ... gratz?

    Original Poster

    i think ill let her go too the pub then, they are meeting 8-11 then heading out into town, then ill pick her up??? ill just take her ID and give her £20 incase she trys anything funny?

    i think thats okay she has a meet with her friends, but doesn't end up in a terrible club with girtty men

    Do other guys here let there women go out alone on weekend nights?

    yes us men are all trying to bang girlfriends of other guys , when you grow up im sure you will understand we dont all go after ugly women

    op, as long as she cooks your dinner first before she goes out then let her be ....(_;)

    Is she alone or with friends?

    black gerbil1

    what does that mean, I let her go out shopping with her mates and stuff … what does that mean, I let her go out shopping with her mates and stuff like that. I Dont see why she would want to go to a club which is full of pervy men?



    you LET her go out??? wtf! she's not a dog you let outside for a piddle, jeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeez, I'd love to see someone take my purse off me, seriously yr a nob!

    black gerbil1

    i think ill let her go too the pub then, they are meeting 8-11 then … i think ill let her go too the pub then, they are meeting 8-11 then heading out into town, then ill pick her up??? ill just take her ID and give her £20 incase she trys anything funny?i think thats okay she has a meet with her friends, but doesn't end up in a terrible club with girtty menDo other guys here let there women go out alone on weekend nights?


    from what i have seen here the woman are not allowed off hukd let alone to a club

    Original Poster


    When im single thats all I do, go out looking for women, so do most men. Thats why I dont like her going out to these places

    she is with three friends and 1 cousin. I know them all, I like to know her networks.

    singer

    yes us men are all trying to bang girlfriends of other guys , when you … yes us men are all trying to bang girlfriends of other guys , when you grow up im sure you will understand we dont all go after ugly women

    PhearFactor

    Is she alone or with friends?

    andymwh1972

    Quite ironic that your profile pic says "freedom"


    Caring for someone makes me a nob? I might be a bit over protective but im not a bad guy

    you say "You let her go shopping" does she need your permission to do day to day things? I have been with my partner 7 years she goes out clubbing, i go out with my mates clubbing, there is a little thing called Trust, something you obviously lack, not a good basis for a 1 year relationship.

    Seems like she needs to be taught a lesson....cook your own dinner!

    secretwoman123

    from what i have seen here the woman are not allowed off hukd let alone … from what i have seen here the woman are not allowed off hukd let alone to a club



    wow! just wow

    yea ,u r insecure no confidence and not worthy of a decent woman with your approach and thinking like that towards women

    Give her stuff back and follow her all night, that should put your mind at rest.

    Mod & Ed

    woohoo the real BG1 ( well walter mitty BG1 ) is back

    you have been missed
    Edited by: "wishihadadonkey" 18th Jun 2011

    Original Poster

    Toasthduk

    you say "You let her go shopping" does she need your permission to do day … you say "You let her go shopping" does she need your permission to do day to day things? I have been with my partner 7 years she goes out clubbing, i go out with my mates clubbing, there is a little thing called Trust, something you obviously lack, not a good basis for a 1 year relationship.


    wow thats not for me, a women should not be doing things like that, call me old fashioned but thats just my view. Its all subjective in the end though

    greg_68

    Give her stuff back and follow her all night, that should put your mind … Give her stuff back and follow her all night, that should put your mind at rest.


    maybe I should go out with her then? I kind of feel like odd one out as its a girls night, but ill just go along to make sure she dont do anything she shouldnt?

    black gerbil1

    I might be a bit over protective but im not a bad guy



    A bit? You sound like a that kids mum at school who was the dinner lady lol - epic stalk.

    If she is with friends, she isn't alone, no need to worry. If she goes out and cheats on you, whether drunk or not, it is inevitable, locking her away will just make her resent you more and cheat any way.

    Better to come across as a care free, happy and loving bloke than a nob who she would be better off without. I hope that makes sense, think of it as reverse psychology.

    Class thread, cant think of anything clever to say sadly

    Perhaps put on a disguise and see if you can pick her up and take her to a hotel room.

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    PhearFactor

    A bit? You sound like a that kids mum at school who was the dinner lady … A bit? You sound like a that kids mum at school who was the dinner lady lol - epic stalk.If she is with friends, she isn't alone, no need to worry. If she goes out and cheats on you, whether drunk or not, it is inevitable, locking her away will just make her resent you more and cheat any way. Better to come across as a care free, happy and loving bloke than a nob who she would be better off without. I hope that makes sense, think of it as reverse psychology.


    i'm old fashioned, I like to know were my women is at all times, is that a bad thing? I care for her, 20 years ago women would not of gone out.

    I dont mind a compromise to make both of us happy, I think letting her off to the pub and ill pick her up at 11 is best for everyone and there is a middle ground. after all that is what being in a relationship is all about.

    Banned

    Yeah quite right brah....I mean I'm amazed you let her out at all


    And WTF? she goes out shopping? You let her have her own bank cards? You need to reign in that shiz brah! Get her back in that kitchen! Amirite?

    Caring for someone makes me a nob? I might be a bit over protective but im not a bad guy

    thats not caring, you sound like an overpowering, insecure, sexist nob. women are not pocessions, you wanna think yrself lucky you have one by the sounds of it, the finances may be 65/35 but as humans you are both equal, carry on as you are and you'll do an excellent job of pushing her away, the girl needs to get some pride putting up with yr shiz!

    Is this the same guy who claimed to be on "lost" the show last year?
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