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    Can long distance relationships work?

    Hey everyone hoping for some wise words!

    Been talking alot to a lovely young lady who lives about and hour away and she seems very nice. But i was wondering if its worth taking things further. I know an hour isent that bad but it could make seeing her as much as i would like difficult. Has anybody had long distance relationships? (or atleast an hour away) and do they work?

    Thanks in advance!

    62 Comments

    Banned

    yes with the right people.
    Mate an hour is nothing!

    I don't mean to mock but i don't class an hour away as a long distance relationship.

    Banned

    the further away the better if you ask me

    yeah i do it, besides an hours nothing, i drive more than that to get to work

    if you both meet in the middle its only 30 mins, and thats nothing

    Original Poster

    nah didnt think it was that far away but never dated anyone that far.

    LOL Sassie! funny

    1 hour long distance? Depends how bonkable she is!?!

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    deb8z;4576400

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    my ideal man will work away on the oil rigs, and come home maybe once a month or something, trouble is finding him - lol

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    hey how far away from shrewsury are ya? if longer than an hour way maybe im a better option, im lovely too

    ILoveLamp;4576416

    nah didnt think it was that far away but never dated anyone that far.LOL … nah didnt think it was that far away but never dated anyone that far.LOL Sassie! funny



    Own up if you have to man...

    Have you met in person?

    I know what you mean sassie..hehe

    I once dated this bloke that kept turning up on my doorstep on spec all the time,i was like ,i'm not 16 stop knocking on for me..lol

    I've known people to try and have a relationship with someone on the other side of the world... lol

    An hour is nothing, my OH lives 90 mins away and we've been together for over 4 years.

    Original Poster

    robtallica;4576440

    Own up if you have to man...Have you met in person?



    yea been out on one date went really well.

    well im starting to think mite aswell give it a shot. Worse come to worse if she does become a bit annoying can only see her when i want :thumbsup:

    Original Poster

    I have realised long distance might of been the wrong wording! lol

    jellybaby22;4576446

    dont think an hour is that far away to be honest....try 4 hours...then … dont think an hour is that far away to be honest....try 4 hours...then you run into problems.....:thumbsup:




    wow , he moved 4 hours away from ya but you still stalked him :thinking:


    deb8z;4576447

    I know what you mean sassie..heheI once dated this bloke that kept … I know what you mean sassie..heheI once dated this bloke that kept turning up on my doorstep on spec all the time,i was like ,i'm not 16 stop knocking on for me..lol





    that was the postman :roll:

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    owlass;4576488

    that was the postman :roll:



    lmfao

    ILoveLamp;4576466

    yea been out on one date went really well. well im starting to think mite … yea been out on one date went really well. well im starting to think mite aswell give it a shot. Worse come to worse if she does become a bit annoying can only see her when i want :thumbsup:



    Yeah definately - why not?

    What's an hour here or there if she's the one you want/like?

    Get in your car...What are you waiting for? :thumbsup:

    owlass;4576488

    wow , he moved 4 hours away from ya but you still stalked him … wow , he moved 4 hours away from ya but you still stalked him :thinking:that was the postman :roll:




    His packages weren't very impressive !

    Original Poster

    deb8z;4576504

    His packages weren't very impressive !




    LMFAO!!! actually just burst out laughing!

    ILoveLamp;4576472

    I have realised long distance might of been the wrong wording! lol



    This bit here made me wonder aswell:

    Been talking alot to a lovely young lady who lives about and hour away … Been talking alot to a lovely young lady who lives about and hour away and she seems very nice



    I was suspicious is all lol.

    deb8z;4576504

    His packages weren't very impressive !





    they just seemed small , ya slot was too big :-D

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    robtallica;4576527

    This bit here made me wonder aswell:I was suspicious is all lol.



    nah im definitly not the most articulate of people

    My aperture is normal size:-D

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    deb8z;4576504

    His packages weren't very impressive !



    awwww not good

    met my fella on internet he was 2 hrs away.
    that was 5 yrs ago and we married last Aug.
    Very happy so yep they work

    ILoveLamp;4576535

    nah im definitly not the most articulate of people



    That makes no difference on this site. It depends often how much the other users have been drinking :-D
    Dont be put off

    Original Poster

    Lol well its good to see most people are helpful and amusing thanks!!!

    sassie;4576543

    awwww not good





    good things come in small packages :oops:

    an hour is about perfect. just do what i do and rattle her a few times then dingy her calls/texts after a week or so.

    advice from prince charming

    x

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    owlass;4576670

    good things come in small packages :oops:



    do they, never really do small, but may give it a try

    sassie;4576681

    do they, never really do small...





    how is ya ass

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    owlass;4576700

    how is ya ass



    how you know about that, jeeze you cant have no secrets on here, its better thanks :oops:

    sassie;4576708

    how you know about that, jeeze you cant have no secrets on here, its … how you know about that, jeeze you cant have no secrets on here, its better thanks :oops:





    llm posted pic's , it looked very red , like a big beef tomato :?

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    owlass;4576777

    llm posted pic's , it looked very red , like a big beef tomato :?



    what? think wires crossed here :oops:

    Anyway, good luck OP.

    Hope it works out for you both.

    sassie;4576798

    what? think wires crossed here :oops:





    why , what did you mean :-D

    Banned

    tried it 3 times didnt work

    personally no, but an hour is nothing, specially if you can drive, try it out mate

    Original Poster

    robtallica;4576841

    Anyway, good luck OP.Hope it works out for you both.



    Cheers mate!

    From experience 400 miles was a bit too much but 40 miles works just fine :thumbsup:
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