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    can you forgive and forget?

    i find i cant hold a grudge against someone i know, i always forgive them but never forget. but i can quite easily hold a grudge against someone i dont know.

    what about you guys?

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    Ah FFS not another baffledsalmon thread

    OMG let it go woman,,,,,,,

    I never hold a grudge-- life is too short.

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    has your cousin been banging her way round town again whilst making you listen from the spare room?

    more details please

    modoc;6979764

    Ah FFS not another baffledsalmon thread



    hahahaha poor BF

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    modoc;6979764

    Ah FFS not another baffledsalmon thread



    no not at all. whats this got to do with her? im simply asking if anyone else is like me on this topic

    ClarityofMind;6979774

    I never hold a grudge-- life is too short.


    +1 totally agree life is for living :thumbsup:

    A grudge is for life, not just for Christmas.

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    dimebars;6979776

    has your cousin been banging her way round town again whilst making you … has your cousin been banging her way round town again whilst making you listen from the spare room?



    nope we dont talk now. although she did text the other night to say she had found something out about my mam, trying to stir stuff. but she failed cos i already knew hahahaha

    wulshaz;6979796

    +1 totally agree life is for living :thumbsup:



    :friends:

    if you can never forget then you havent truly forgiven then have you?

    there is enough hatred in the world over things that actually MATTER than falling out over a load of nonsense as so many people tend to do.

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    magicbeans;6979784

    more details please



    no details to spill mb, just something we were talking about at work and wondered what everyone does on here

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    barky;6979809

    if you can never forget then you havent truly forgiven then have … if you can never forget then you havent truly forgiven then have you?there is enough hatred in the world over things that actually MATTER than falling out over a load of nonsense as so many people tend to do.



    i think you can and i have done

    I forgive, then bring it up in every argument

    Lulu'sMammy;6979851

    I forgive, then bring it up in every argument




    did you go to the same school as mrs barky by any chance?

    I noticed earlier in the single parent thread, a person who had moved into their Dads after falling out with their Mum in April, and they haven't spoken since. Life's too short to hold a grudge, especially with your own family.

    Most grudges are over petty little things as well, when, in the grand sceme of things, it just doesn't matter.

    Yeah barky, sisters united....does she fart in bed too :? x

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    peodude;6979874

    I noticed earlier in the single parent thread, a person who had moved … I noticed earlier in the single parent thread, a person who had moved into their Dads after falling out with their Mum in April, and they haven't spoken since. Life's too short to hold a grudge, especially with your own family.Most grudges are over petty little things as well, when, in the grand sceme of things, it just doesn't matter.



    well this was my cousins choice. after accusing me of saying stuff to someone about her (which i hadnt) she decides to send texts threatening me with violence and cutting me out her life completely. i tell her to stop being paranoid and either phone me to sort it out or do as she says and cut me out her life. she chose the latter. i gave her chance to sort it out and she declined

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    donnaraine;6979926

    well this was my cousins choice. after accusing me of saying stuff to … well this was my cousins choice. after accusing me of saying stuff to someone about her (which i hadnt) she decides to send texts threatening me with violence and cutting me out her life completely. i tell her to stop being paranoid and either phone me to sort it out or do as she says and cut me out her life. she chose the latter. i gave her chance to sort it out and she declined



    is her name [SIZE="7"]baffledsalmon?????????????????[/SIZE]

    Lulu'sMammy;6979851

    I forgive, then bring it up in every argument



    god hun we are so simular xx

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    bykergrove;6979971

    is her name [SIZE="7"]baffledsalmon?????????????????[/SIZE]



    no i am in no way related to her

    i fire and forget

    donnaraine;6980000

    no i am in no way related to her


    Someone told me she had a womens face, but a fellas manhood....surely thats just wrong!! I hope they were lying (no names mentioned!)

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    Lulu'sMammy;6980024

    Someone told me she had a womens face, but a fellas manhood....surely … Someone told me she had a womens face, but a fellas manhood....surely thats just wrong!! I hope they were lying (no names mentioned!)



    why do the ladies hate baffledsalmon for?

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    Lulu'sMammy;6980024

    Someone told me she had a womens face, but a fellas manhood....surely … Someone told me she had a womens face, but a fellas manhood....surely thats just wrong!! I hope they were lying (no names mentioned!)



    dunno, who knows? lol

    bykergrove;6980036

    why do the ladies hate baffledsalmon for?


    Don't tar me with that brush...i've never spoke to her. Just bitchness rumours i suspect.

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    bykergrove;6980036

    why do the ladies hate baffledsalmon for?



    i could tell you my reasons, but i dont want to turn this into a bitching thread, and before you say no it has nothing to do with her looks

    Lulu'sMammy;6980024

    Someone told me she had a womens face, but a fellas manhood....surely … Someone told me she had a womens face, but a fellas manhood....surely thats just wrong!! I hope they were lying (no names mentioned!)



    another lady gaga thread?:whistling:

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    donnaraine;6980057

    i could tell you my reasons, but i dont want to turn this into a bitching … i could tell you my reasons, but i dont want to turn this into a bitching thread, and before you say no it has nothing to do with her looks



    pm plz

    barky;6980115

    another lady gaga thread?:whistling:


    I think thats what brought the comments on....after talking about sausage gaga!

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    bykergrove;6980128

    pm plz



    no.

    donnaraine;6979926

    well this was my cousins choice. after accusing me of saying stuff to … well this was my cousins choice. after accusing me of saying stuff to someone about her (which i hadnt) she decides to send texts threatening me with violence and cutting me out her life completely. i tell her to stop being paranoid and either phone me to sort it out or do as she says and cut me out her life. she chose the latter. i gave her chance to sort it out and she declined



    The way i look at it is, if they died tomorrow, would you regret not making it up to them. Slightly different in your case, as you are the grudgee, not the grudger. If you feel you have done all you can to repair the relationship, then that is all you can do, until the other person comes round.

    i hold grudges yes

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    peodude;6980225

    The way i look at it is, if they died tomorrow, would you regret not … The way i look at it is, if they died tomorrow, would you regret not making it up to them. Slightly different in your case, as you are the grudgee, not the grudger. If you feel you have done all you can to repair the relationship, then that is all you can do, until the other person comes round.



    i think if i died tomorrow she would regret it as she said herself i was the only person she could talk to. the rest of the family dont bother with her due to her trouble causing and manipulative ways. however she made the choice not me.

    personally she did my head in too, but being family i had to put up with it lol. also felt a bit sorry for her as she had no one apart from me

    donnaraine;6979806

    nope we dont talk now. although she did text the other night to say she … nope we dont talk now. although she did text the other night to say she had found something out about my mam, trying to stir stuff. but she failed cos i already knew hahahaha



    Share the details. I won't tell anyone - promise:whistling:

    donnaraine;6980155

    no.



    lol

    but i can quite easily hold a grudge against someone i dont know.




    is this another I am jealous of Baffled Salmon thread?



    I like both of you,no fighting please:)

    I'm going for a wee.

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    boothy;6980911

    is this another I am jealous of Baffled Salmon thread?I like both of … is this another I am jealous of Baffled Salmon thread?I like both of you,no fighting please:)



    ok this is not about her, and i am not jealous of her.
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