can you really love to much

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Found 9th Apr 2010
OH wants to lleave me coz i love to much. after two years i still love him with all my heart, is that really to much. going to be a hard weekend.

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he? should be grateful IMHO......

i always gauge a ralationship on trust. if you trust each other then you have a solid base. whats brought this on? arguing?

He doesn't deserve all your love then ...let him walk.

is it getting hot in there or are you just suffocating him with possesiveness?

either your too needy and clingy or hes bull sh*tting you

Banned

Hang on, I'm just mobilising the troops to get you some good advice like a few nights ago.

I dont think you can love too much, more you can be over affectionate or possessive. Im not saying its your fault, but maybe he isn't one for affection

Hey baby, are you being followed? Because I've been seeing people behind your back.

Banned

Nothing was learnt from the other night :whistling:

I remember this thread hotukdeals.com/ite…ily from you

This guy and his family are probably better put into your past.

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micoo;8328886

either your too needy and clingy or hes bull sh*tting you



never been needy brought my son up for 17yrs alone.

micoo;8328886

either your too needy and clingy or hes bull sh*tting you


+1 WTF??????:x

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cbryanp;8328892

I dont think you can love too much, more you can be over affectionate or … I dont think you can love too much, more you can be over affectionate or possessive. Im not saying its your fault, but maybe he isn't one for affection



he has no feelings as hes told me if he wants to go he willl go and there was nothing there

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how can you be with someone who treats you like your worthless? if it was my other half he wouldnt be around to be wanting to leave

He sounds AWESOME.

are you married? recently suggested it? maybe hes got cold feet and doesnt want commitment yet?

bossyboots;8328911

I remember this thread … I remember this thread http://www.hotukdeals.com/item/625382/how-do-u-get-on-with-your-oh-family from youThis guy and his family are probably better put into your past.



+1
Let him go, you'll probably be happier without him.

bossyboots;8328911

I remember this thread … I remember this thread http://www.hotukdeals.com/item/625382/how-do-u-get-on-with-your-oh-family from youThis guy and his family are probably better put into your past.


After reading this I so agree with Bossy. You need to get rid it will bevery hard but after a while you will notice that weight gone you have been carrying around and not noticing. It wont happen overnight but it will happen! Have respect for you girlfriend!

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bossyboots;8328911

I remember this thread … I remember this thread http://www.hotukdeals.com/item/625382/how-do-u-get-on-with-your-oh-family from youThis guy and his family are probably better put into your past.



ok so his family hate me but i do love him. ok forget it i just wanted sommeone to talk to. sorryy

vibeone;8328888

Hang on, I'm just mobilising the troops to get you some good advice like … Hang on, I'm just mobilising the troops to get you some good advice like a few nights ago.


Yeah VB we have seen your caring side hgkjhgg:w00t:

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bossyboots;8328930

and then there was this VERY strange thread from … and then there was this VERY strange thread from youhttp://www.hotukdeals.com/item/557267/im-spending-xamas-on-there-owne-any?page=2



why strange mum hates me and would rather him back at hers his kids dnt want to no me, im in a new area with no friends. tbh im siting in the bedroom alone just letting him get ready to leave.

Your OH is BS'ing you

He just wants out and is putting the relationship breakdown on you. Let him go and you'll find someone YOU truly love and aren't being a charity carer for

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muckyangel;8329010

why strange mum hates me and would rather him back at hers his kids dnt … why strange mum hates me and would rather him back at hers his kids dnt want to no me, im in a new area with no friends. tbh im siting in the bedroom alone just letting him get ready to leave.



ide be helping him

trego37;8328920

+1 WTF??????:x



i dont understand wht the WTF is for :lol:

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ok iv been through things that none of you would want to go through, but i'v pulled through and now after 17yrs alone i ine someone i want to be with and at first i did find it hard letting the walls down but now there down he wants to go.

choc1969;8329020

Your OH is BS'ing youHe just wants out and is putting the relationship … Your OH is BS'ing youHe just wants out and is putting the relationship breakdown on you. Let him go and you'll find someone YOU truly love and aren't being a charity carer for



:thumbsup:


sassie;8329023

ide be helping him



this ^^^^^^^

micoo;8329030

i dont understand wht the WTF is for :lol:



For your face.

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muckyangel;8329031

ok iv been through things that none of you would want to go through, but … ok iv been through things that none of you would want to go through, but i'v pulled through and now after 17yrs alone i ine someone i want to be with and at first i did find it hard letting the walls down but now there down he wants to go.



im sure most of us have been through things you wouldn't want as well, it doesnt mean you have to be a door mat, kick the ass out, playing with someone emotions isnt being a friend let alone a loving partner

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sassie;8329023

ide be helping him



why

muckyangel;8329031

ok iv been through things that none of you would want to go through, but … ok iv been through things that none of you would want to go through, but i'v pulled through and now after 17yrs alone i ine someone i want to be with and at first i did find it hard letting the walls down but now there down he wants to go.



MA - u dont know what we have and have not been through - so dont be too quick to judge please.

This shopping forum aint the place to be getting advice about ur relationship breakdown - as someone found out last night.

Banned

I;m getting bored of this nonsense now.

He's leaving. Get over it.

angelfairee;8329039

For your face.



You love this face.

bossyboots;8328930

and then there was this VERY strange thread from … and then there was this VERY strange thread from youhttp://www.hotukdeals.com/item/557267/im-spending-xamas-on-there-owne-any?page=2


attention seeker!

No offence but he obviously wants out and is just saying whatever to make it seem right
Best to just let him go pick up the pieces and move on
Know it is not going to be easy but at the end of the day you ll cope

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Banned

delete that picture before I puke all over my keyboard.

micoo;8329050

You love this face.



It still gives me nightmares

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bossyboots;8329046

MA - u dont know what we have and have not been through - so dont be too … MA - u dont know what we have and have not been through - so dont be too quick to judge please.This shopping forum aint the place to be getting advice about ur relationship breakdown - as someone found out last night.



i no other ppl have been through stuff but im just saying cant i have a bit of happines, thats all i want, iv never had it befoe.

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vibeone;8329064

delete that picture before I puke all over my keyboard.



My eyes :x

I think the worlds about to implode 'cos i just agreed with vibeone.
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