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    dealing with compliments

    OK...so I accept some of you may not get them so often.....(jokes!!)

    but how do you react when someone compliments you? I think I'm weird as if its a stranger I'm fine with it....can say thank you and move on....however if its a family member, friend or OH (potential OH) I always cry......dont know why....just cry lol.

    So...just wondered if anyone else will admit to weird reactions to compliments lol....
    (also can double as tonights 'lets chat crap' thread)

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    I dont take compliments very well at all......I just usually blush and say shurrup!

    I like compliments I dont concentrate on em very long though... I spose I do hear quite a lot of em...

    I take em for real for that moment and forget em xxx

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    bitseylango;6444875

    I dont take compliments very well at all......I just usually blush and … I dont take compliments very well at all......I just usually blush and say shurrup!



    better than bursting into tears!!! Always think that if some fella is ever unlucky enough to marry me....then the speeches at the wedding would be a complete disaster! :oops:

    I dont get any

    dontdothatagain;6444891

    I dont get any



    I fink you're wuverlee xx:roll:

    lil_tiger;6444889

    better than bursting into tears!!! Always think that if some fella is … better than bursting into tears!!! Always think that if some fella is ever unlucky enough to marry me....then the speeches at the wedding would be a complete disaster! :oops:



    aw he would be lucky hun xxx

    dontdothatagain;6444891

    I dont get any



    Your cool maan

    Happy?

    ClarityofMind;6444901

    I fink you're wuverlee xx:roll:



    damn you

    http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v112/ColdPsyco/evilmonkey.png

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    ClarityofMind;6444882

    I like compliments I dont concentrate on em very long though... I … I like compliments I dont concentrate on em very long though... I spose I do hear quite a lot of em...I take em for real for that moment and forget em xxx



    rightly so too!!!!! I think I avoid them....cos I know my reaction...Ill give out compliments then immediately run off so they dont feel the need to give me one :whistling: lol


    It may have something to do with growin up wi fellas???? If someone is crude around me then Im fine....would rather a fella say 'id do ya' than 'you look nice tnite' :? lol

    dontdothatagain;6444891

    I dont get any



    check your rep.......I dont want to publicly embarrass you :thumbsup:

    I dont get compliments! except about my boobs, lol.

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    Angelstar;6444904

    aw he would be lucky hun xxx



    my eyes filled up at that!!! see!!! Im weird!!!!! lol perhaps I need counsilling lol


    thank you :oops:

    i like them lol

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    lprangle21;6444924

    I dont get compliments! except about my boobs, lol.



    yeah I get them too...but I dont mind them....cos theyre more crude than a real compliment....and I can laugh it off :whistling: plus theyre kinda hard to miss....so I guess its to be expected lol

    lil_tiger;6444934

    my eyes filled up at that!!! see!!! Im weird!!!!! lol perhaps I need … my eyes filled up at that!!! see!!! Im weird!!!!! lol perhaps I need counsilling lolthank you :oops:



    aw hun u so sweet :friends:

    ClarityofMind;6444901

    I fink you're wuverlee xx



    Met-Cast;6444906

    Your cool maanHappy?



    Finally. :-D Thank you.

    bitseylango;6444923

    check your rep.......I dont want to publicly embarrass you



    Will have a look in a min.

    EDIT: Read it :cry:

    I play it down and laugh.Having said that if im in an argument..I still laugh!!

    So you prob cant tell with me..if im angry or happy!!! lol

    Met-Cast;6444907

    damn you



    awwwwwwwwww poor meeeeeeeeee ;-)

    Im no better than youim afraid. I cried all the way through my wedding.
    I cry when DH says he loves me, i cry if he buys me things.
    Erm i cry a lot actually im ******* hopeless.
    But dont knock it hun i actually think its a nice attribute.
    I cried when i saw my first proper piggy too and i was 40 yrs then pmsl

    Oh hun, summin even more weird than crying at a compliment?



    I laugh if someone is mean to me :oops:

    dontdothatagain;6444954

    Will have a look in a min. :pEDIT: Read it :cry:



    wasnt meant to upset you.......dont cry! :oops:

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    snowflake;6444976

    I asked something similar a while back Lil Tig … I asked something similar a while back Lil Tig http://www.hotukdeals.com/item/461990/attractiveness/


    aww just read through it...seems were kinda the same hun! :friends:
    cherishu2;6444981

    Im no better than youim afraid. I cried all the way through my wedding.I … Im no better than youim afraid. I cried all the way through my wedding.I cry when DH says he loves me, i cry if he buys me things. Erm i cry a lot actually im ******* hopeless. But dont knock it hun i actually think its a nice attribute. I cried when i saw my first proper piggy too and i was 40 yrs then pmsl


    awww if i get married I would be just like that!!!! although I dont cry at presents lol.....i love presents!!!!! would cry if someone bought me a puppy tho cos i want one soooooo much!....and Im starting to think that in myself its kinda pathetic lol
    ClarityofMind;6444988

    Oh hun, summin even more weird than crying at a compliment?I laugh if … Oh hun, summin even more weird than crying at a compliment?I laugh if someone is mean to me :oops:


    lol thats the best way to take an insult tho!

    bitseylango;6444993

    wasnt meant to upset you.......dont cry! :oops:



    It didn't upset me, really.

    lil_tiger;6445062

    aww just read through it...seems were kinda the same hun! :friends:awww … aww just read through it...seems were kinda the same hun! :friends:awww if i get married I would be just like that!!!! although I dont cry at presents lol.....i love presents!!!!! would cry if someone bought me a puppy tho cos i want one soooooo much!....and Im starting to think that in myself its kinda pathetic lollol thats the best way to take an insult tho!



    Imagine... being in the middle of an argument with someone and they call you a name.. and you stand there laughing..

    They dont like it honestly :oops:

    I say

    'You better believe it' :w00t:

    But I am incredibily vain lol

    Banned

    i always thought you were a dude OP lol!

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    nikkib123;6445067

    I say "awwww thanks" and then sometimes say "your not that bad yourself" … I say "awwww thanks" and then sometimes say "your not that bad yourself" things like that ha ha


    I would....but generally Im in tears before theyve finished lol :oops: I bet Ill even cry at graduation!!!! My eyes water if my parents say theyre proud of me and everything!!! :thinking:
    choc1969;6445082

    I say'You better believe it' :w00t:But I am incredibily vain lol



    lol i think im like that when drunk.....but when sober I guess Im pretty insecure :?

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    kapows;6445096

    i always thought you were a dude OP lol!



    until yesterday my 'location' said I was female.....or did you think I was lying....lol:thinking:

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    lil_tiger;6445117

    until yesterday my 'location' said I was female.....or did you think I … until yesterday my 'location' said I was female.....or did you think I was lying....lol:thinking:



    i never ever noticed that and conversations youve had in previous threads...i always thought you were a boy...either that or ur a lesbian LOL :w00t:

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    nikkib123;6445123

    Ha ha ha you must be extra sensitive - which is cute ;-)



    ahhh cute to begin with I guess.....but as said above....I class it as pathetic :?


    I think I need to rep people who have complimented me.......(blatantly with the intention of having me in tears lol)

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    kapows;6445150

    i never ever noticed that and conversations youve had in previous … i never ever noticed that and conversations youve had in previous threads...i always thought you were a boy...either that or ur a lesbian LOL :w00t:



    ermmmmmmm Im neither! lol......but Im concerned as to what 'conversations' Iv been havin lol:whistling:

    lil_tiger;6445169

    ermmmmmmm Im neither! lol......but Im concerned as to what … ermmmmmmm Im neither! lol......but Im concerned as to what 'conversations' Iv been havin lol:whistling:



    Better be bein faithful to me woman ;-)

    dontdothatagain;6445080

    It didn't upset me, really.



    good xx

    lil_tiger;6445161

    ahhh cute to begin with I guess.....but as said above....I class it as … ahhh cute to begin with I guess.....but as said above....I class it as pathetic :?I think I need to rep people who have complimented me.......(blatantly with the intention of having me in tears lol)



    arrrrrgghh i can't rep back again xxx

    i tend to get all embarrassed and then mumble some crap lol

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    Banned

    i used to have a friend who would cry everytime the RAC advert came on with that song about friendship or something....

    girls = weird

    bitseylango;6445201

    good xx



    Was very nice of you tho. :thumbsup:

    kapows;6445236

    i used to have a friend who would cry everytime the RAC advert came on … i used to have a friend who would cry everytime the RAC advert came on with that song about friendship or something....girls = weird



    men are weird 2 lol xxx :thumbsup:

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    kapows;6445236

    i used to have a friend who would cry everytime the RAC advert came on … i used to have a friend who would cry everytime the RAC advert came on with that song about friendship or something....girls = weird



    SNAP!!!! the one where the fellas in a field singing a song?!?!?!?! I cant remember the song though....ermmmmm......ooooo I can!

    "Winter, Spring, Summer or Fall...all you gotta do is call....and Ill be there yes I will...you gotta friend" :-D

    lol
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