Found 19th May 2009
Just had our papers through to say that our marriage ended on the 12th of May.Don`t know if I should be happy or sad,30 years of marriage ,and now I have to find somewhere to live and start all over.I`m only 50 so perhaps there might be something left in the tank.

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Ah sorry to hear it, things will get better in time. just hold in there

New beginnings are never something to be scared of!

Aww hunni, im sorry to here this. Keep you chin up. xx

Congratulations...? commiserations....? Don't really know how to reply to this one!? :oops:

Ah, there's always something left in the tank. My mate's dad scored himself a new woman a few years ago, and he's something like 80. I don't think a spritely young 50 year old should have much to worry about there.

dxx;5254968

Ah, there's always something left in the tank. My mate's dad scored … Ah, there's always something left in the tank. My mate's dad scored himself a new woman a few years ago, and he's something like 80. I don't think a spritely young 50 year old should have much to worry about there.



my grandma has a bf and she is 70 odd.

I was married for 3 years and we split up.

I have been with my current wife for almost 5 years and have never looked back.

Life goes on, you will find someone, just enjoy your freedom for a bit and don't rush to try and find anyone.

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dxx;5254968

Ah, there's always something left in the tank. My mate's dad scored … Ah, there's always something left in the tank. My mate's dad scored himself a new woman a few years ago, and he's something like 80. I don't think a spritely young 50 year old should have much to worry about there.



my friends dad went to thialand and got himself a bit of thia stuff.... shes only 23 lol

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kjbenja;5254978

I was married for 3 years and we split up.I have been with my current … I was married for 3 years and we split up.I have been with my current wife for almost 5 years and have never looked back.[COLOR="Red"]Life goes on, you will find someone, just enjoy your freedom for a bit and don't rush to try and find anyone[/COLOR].



yeh this is true, when me and my ex of 4 years split i was gutted and tried finding someone immediently to replace her. love will find you dont go looking for it

hugs to you
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50 isn't old anyway.

I am 37 and my wife is 46 so don't give up eh?

Best of luck OP

maxmix

Sorry to here that hun, i was married for 4 months, but iv been with my new man for 9 years :roll:
Iv never been happier.
Theres a saying...All the shoulda, coulda, woulda's in the world wont change your past, but there's always something out there thats ment for you, your past is what made you the person you are now, and the future is something to look forward to, full of new experiences

I was diovorced at 51 (though had been separated for quite a while by then). Am now re-married to a wonderful man 12 years my junior, who assures me that he is happy to be with me. I didn't think that this could ever happen but it did! Stay optimistic as life can be wonderful, surprising and, really, 50 is no age at all. I'm happier now than I have ever been before, and I believe that this is possible for anyone. xx

My wife and I had 17 happy years....then we met each other :-)

ray magini;5255388

My wife and I had 17 happy years....then we met each other :-)



lol!!

hugs to op....must be quite scary but ull look back at this and be gakd that life took u in this direction

Well this thread has cheered me up no end. Positive thoughts for a change with a bit of fun. Breath of fresh air!!:)

So there is hope for me yet then..?? At the moment I feel I have lost everything I had in the last 21 years.! So sad.

Rockhound;5255552

Well this thread has cheered me up no end. Positive thoughts for a … Well this thread has cheered me up no end. Positive thoughts for a change with a bit of fun. Breath of fresh air!!:)So there is hope for me yet then..?? At the moment I feel I have lost everything I had in the last 21 years.! So sad.



chin up, think positive and live for today......thinking too far into the future or the past will eat you up. xxxxx

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Doesn't it damage the sanctity of marriage when you get divorced?

Best of luck mate for the future, Its a difficult period and being confused about your emotions sounds natural, It might not seem like a new start right now but look at it being like the begining of a new chapter.

Friends and family are really important right now and they prob really want to be there for you - so let them!

It does get better, trust me! just find a new interest or plan on doing a little travel etc, it all helps!

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Never quite understood why people get married anyway. Sure the wedding is a fun day, but you can buy wedding cake from most bakeries, the tax benefits aren't what they used to be and there's a 50% shot that it'll be nixed in a few years anyway.

On the other hand, I suppose if you've met the one...lucky for you that they were in the first couple of thousand people you've met on earth...

Time to wave goodbye to the past and look forward to the future.
I have just taken up classes in Argentine Tango, as well as being a fun activity, its great socially and at my class, there are more women than men.

DangerGod;5254979

my friends dad went to thialand and got himself a bit of thia stuff.... … my friends dad went to thialand and got himself a bit of thia stuff.... shes only 23 lol



Ooh, score.

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DangerGod;5254979

my friends dad went to thialand and got himself a bit of thia stuff.... … my friends dad went to thialand and got himself a bit of thia stuff.... shes only 23 lol




£23 grand you meant to say!

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50 is the new 30.............. :thumbsup:

jjcaho;5257067

50 is the new 30.............. :thumbsup:



Great - I have a few years left in me yet...
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