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    Do you ever forget your first love?

    I was reading a post on here about what CDs remind you of school and I instantly remembered my first love from many years ago!! 20 odd years on and I still think about my her, how mad is that!!

    I've tried (and failed) looking for her over the years (through Friends Reunited, Facebook, etc), not because I want to get back with her or anything (I'm very happily married now!!), but I just want to know what shes been doing/how many kids she has etc...

    Do you ever forget your first love?

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    no, of course you dont, i found mine on friends reunited, but never contacted him, best left in the past

    i dont think you will, i still think about my first love, and a few weeks ago i seen him in a shop and he still gave me butterflies lol weve not spoken for years and hes married now and im settled down but i always wonder what things would be like if i were still with him even though i wouldnt change my life now for anything.

    sassie;7577749

    no, of course you dont, i found mine on friends reunited, but never … no, of course you dont, i found mine on friends reunited, but never contacted him, best left in the past



    yep best in the past tho secretly hope to see her and shes the size of a house :-D

    if i was still with her i wouldnt have my wonderful son so its all good

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    sassie;7577749

    no, of course you dont, i found mine on friends reunited, but never … no, of course you dont, i found mine on friends reunited, but never contacted him, best left in the past



    You think? She was like my best mate. Sigh.

    I still see mine, we are really good friends & see each other most days

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    ei8hty5ive;7577766

    You think? She was like my best mate. Sigh.



    i think so, but not sure if others do, just my thoughts

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    Aw, did my school girl snogs remind you of your 1st love.

    I have seen my 1st bf about 5 years ago.

    He was taking drugs and his life was a bit messy.

    I tried to help him sort his life out but I realised he was more messed up than I 1st thought.

    He has tried to contact me through facebook but I can't be bothered I have a good man now :-D

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    sassie;7577780

    i think so, but not sure if others do, just my thoughts



    I think you'd be spot on if I was looking for her for a relationship but I'm just curious how her life has turned out i guess...

    OP, reading what you have said leads me to believe you have the traits of a stalker.

    No offence :thumbsup:

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    DLM;7577797

    Aw, did my school girl snogs remind you of your 1st love.I have seen my … Aw, did my school girl snogs remind you of your 1st love.I have seen my 1st bf about 5 years ago.He was taking drugs and his life was a bit messy.I tried to help him sort his life out but I realised he was more messed up than I 1st thought.He has tried to contact me through facebook but I can't be bothered I have a good man now :-D



    Good 4 u!! I met up with an old school buddy not long ago and he was tellin me about some of our old mates and apparently ones in the slammer for drug dealing! Scary! Its strange how lives change...

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    transit;7577805

    OP, reading what you have said leads me to believe you have the traits of … OP, reading what you have said leads me to believe you have the traits of a stalker.No offence :thumbsup:



    No offence taken! I've only been cautioned once...that doesn't count...:thumbsup:

    ei8hty5ive;7577826

    No offence taken! I've only been cautioned once...that doesn't … No offence taken! I've only been cautioned once...that doesn't count...:thumbsup:



    As long as they didnt swab you for dna you should be fine :thumbsup::)

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    ei8hty5ive;7577821

    Good 4 u!! I met up with an old school buddy not long ago and he was … Good 4 u!! I met up with an old school buddy not long ago and he was tellin me about some of our old mates and apparently ones in the slammer for drug dealing! Scary! Its strange how lives change...



    Sometimes I wish I had stayed with him at the beginning.

    He joined the army when he was 18 and we drifted apart.

    I got into clubbing, working and spending time with my friends.

    I got bored of letter writing and seeing him every so often.

    My life would be totally different now if I had stayed with him.

    I probably would have some sqiggles :-D

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    transit;7577833

    As long as they didnt swab you for dna you should be fine :thumbsup::)



    You sound experienced...

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    DLM;7577834

    Sometimes I wish I had stayed with him at the beginning.He joined the … Sometimes I wish I had stayed with him at the beginning.He joined the army when he was 18 and we drifted apart.I got into clubbing, working and spend time with my friends.I got bored of letter writing and seeing him every so often.My life would be totally different now if I had stayed with him.I probably would have some sqiggles :-D



    or you could be a full time junky, we cant look back and believe we would have made things better, best to look back with fond memories and leave it at that

    ei8hty5ive;7577840

    You sound experienced...



    Well i once had a pet bunny boiled if that counts :x

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    sassie;7577857

    or you could be a full time junky, we cant look back and believe we would … or you could be a full time junky, we cant look back and believe we would have made things better, best to look back with fond memories and leave it at that



    No, I haven't ever enjoyed drugs.

    I don't even like taking paracetomols.

    I am a bit sad that things didn't work out.

    I was too busy enjoying myself now I am childless and skint :roll:

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    sassie;7577857

    or you could be a full time junky, we cant look back and believe we would … or you could be a full time junky, we cant look back and believe we would have made things better, best to look back with fond memories and leave it at that



    Well put! What Sassie said!

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    DLM;7577867

    No, I haven't ever enjoyed drugs.I don't even like taking paracetomols.I … No, I haven't ever enjoyed drugs.I don't even like taking paracetomols.I am a bit sad that things didn't work out.I was too busy enjoying myself now I am childless and skint :roll:



    i know which ide prefer :thumbsup:

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    sassie;7577871

    i know which ide prefer :thumbsup:



    I suppose.

    My life was totally different when I was 16.

    My mum had just moved away, I had an ace job and me and my dad loved a good row.

    I felt too young to be married and settled.

    Now I feel past it :roll:

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    DLM;7577878

    I suppose.My life was totally different when I was 16.My mum had just … I suppose.My life was totally different when I was 16.My mum had just moved away, I had an ace job and me and my dad loved a good row.I felt too young to be married and settled.Now I feel past it :roll:



    I always try to cherish what i do have, not what i had or what i havent, although most days easier said than done :oops:

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    sassie;7577898

    I always try to cherish what i do have, not what i had or what i havent, … I always try to cherish what i do have, not what i had or what i havent, although most days easier said than done :oops:



    I know, I am off to bed now.

    Jolly job centre in the morning :roll:

    I will never forget my first love cos I am married to him.

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    LoozR;7577907

    I will never forget my first love cos I am married to him.



    Aw, that is great :thumbsup:

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    LoozR;7577907

    I will never forget my first love cos I am married to him.



    Aww, sweet! Does he happen to be beside you and is reading what you typing when you wrote this?!!! :thumbsup:

    Still waiting for the 1st love..

    I met and married my first love....but stupidly gave him an ultimatum years ago....backfired on me and I lost him. Still hurts to this day....and I realised that I do compare new boyfriends with him. He wasn't perfect but nor was I. The fact that we can't even be friends now hurts just as much :cry:

    I also married my first love. We met 34 years ago this week and are as happy now if not more, as we were all those years ago.

    I'm still in contact with mine we started talking through fb again and now send the odd txt just to see how each other is doing.

    Yes you can especially when it cost 200K to get shut of the bunny boiling wench.

    In hindsight would have been much cheaper to pay a hitman to bump her off in a cruel, and imaginative way.

    i remember her, wasnt that long ago lol, bitch broke my heart :lol:

    You never forget, mine is on my facebook, although we have never actually spoken on there, think we both wanted to be nosey and see what the other is doing :lol:

    LoozR;7577907

    I will never forget my first love cos I am married to him.



    retep;7578342

    I also married my first love. We met 34 years ago this week and are as … I also married my first love. We met 34 years ago this week and are as happy now if not more, as we were all those years ago.



    I wont forget as im engaged to mine :thumbsup:

    Smaybelline;7578741

    I wont forget as im engaged to mine :thumbsup:



    me too!!!

    i am with mine as well, i got with him when i was 16 its been 11 years now.

    There's no future in the past.

    I'd say be careful getting in touch with past loves etc,you never know where it might lead:w00t:

    greyparrot;7578864

    i am with mine as well, i got with him when i was 16 its been 11 years … i am with mine as well, i got with him when i was 16 its been 11 years now.



    Aww i was 14 when i met mine. doesnt seem very long tho.

    yeah i still think about mine would like to see him again as friends,not seen him on facebook though
    there is one ex that i think about alot,i was young when i met him and immature so i ballsed it up,would love to see him again but wouldnt do incase all them feelings came back

    Banned

    no, of course you dont

    in fact, do you ever forget anyone you loved. No! Although, rose tinted spectacles come out to play big time when looking back.
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