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    All a child needs is to have his/her needs met and all the love and attention in the world.

    Why can't a lesbian couple do that?

    Oooo this thread is wronggggggggggg,OP has gone maddddddddddd

    This is an agrument I dont think you/we can win, I agree it really cant be right for the kids tho, on any level

    same as allowing a gay couple to adopt, it is fundamentally wrong, uk has been weakened to allow anything out of the norm!

    dcx_badass;6843580

    Yeah, but the child will get bullied, I don't care what people say, and … Yeah, but the child will get bullied, I don't care what people say, and it's still not natural.



    Kids get bullied for reasons within the BULLY not for reasons within their own selves or their families.

    JayIce;6843596

    same as allowing a gay couple to adopt, it is fundamentally wrong, uk has … same as allowing a gay couple to adopt, it is fundamentally wrong, uk has been weakened to allow anything out of the norm!



    :w00t:

    Of course it isnt wrong for gay men to adopt!!!

    I won't get into this. But I believe the real family unit should be only be the true unit.

    But I would rather see someone adopt these poor children then no one, even if they are gay/lesbian.

    Adam2050;6843622

    I won't get into this. But I believe the real family unit should be only … I won't get into this. But I believe the real family unit should be only be the true unit.But I would rather see someone adopt these poor children then no one, even if they are gay/lesbian.



    Ya see i gotta kind of agree with that also, any loving family has got to be better than none

    dcx_badass;6843580

    Yeah, but the child will get bullied, I don't care what people say, and … Yeah, but the child will get bullied, I don't care what people say, and it's still not natural.



    Because kids of 'normal' parents don't get bullied ever. :roll:

    If the two people are in a committed relationship and they will love and support the child then the excuse that the child may get bullied at some undetermined point in the future is just plain daft.

    JayIce;6843639

    Ya see i gotta kind of agree with that also, any loving family has got to … Ya see i gotta kind of agree with that also, any loving family has got to be better than none



    Best parents for a child..... their true parents........

    UNLESS they can't ( or refuse to ) meet the needs of the child.

    Then adoption by loving maternal/paternal "parents" who WANT/long/need/desire to fulfil that child's needs for the rest of their lives has to be the best second.

    The sexual predilections of the adoptive parents should be unimportant to the parent/child relationship barring only paedophilia for obvious reasons.

    Banned

    dcx_badass;6843580

    Yeah, but the child will get bullied, I don't care what people say, and … Yeah, but the child will get bullied, I don't care what people say, and it's still not natural.


    I think they'd get bullied (or worse) a lot more in a care home!

    whats wrong with same sex parents :lol:

    as long as they look after that child and give a warm loving home with plenty of love what is wrong with that,

    i admire people who adopt it is a long and painful process with no garantees, for people who will give anything to have children

    must be better than a childrens home

    ClarityofMind;6843612

    :w00t:Of course it isnt wrong for gay men to adopt!!!



    You can't be serious, it's no enviroment for a child and should NEVER be allowed.Thank feck I was adopted by a married man and his wife.It's bad enough feeling you was dumped at birth without having to cope with that too. I think I would of gone crazy if it had happened to me and at times would no doubt think of suicide. I kid you not.

    Is it not better for child to be brought up in a loving home rather than getting move home to home and living in a foster home(though most foster parents do a brillant job) or a children home? I believe so.

    scunny;6843882

    You can't be serious, it's no enviroment for a child and should NEVER be … You can't be serious, it's no enviroment for a child and should NEVER be allowed.Thank feck I was adopted by a married man and his wife.It's bad enough feeling you was dumped at birth without having to cope with that too. I think I would of gone crazy if it had happened to me and at times would no doubt think of suicide. I kid you not.



    Why is it not a good environment for a child to be in may I ask?

    I no a lesbian couple and they would make the best parents ever!!
    Its normal in this day and life to have bullies in school however sad that may be regardless of the issue there being bullied for, garenteed if the child was the best looking in school etc he/she would be applauded for it!! Theres alot more to why a child is bullied as unfair as it is.
    I think if it prevents a child being alone witn no parents in a care home for god knows how long or going to awful parents (like baby peters) we should recommend it.

    The media is full of Ufit and Pathetic "Straight" couples that cant even look after them self’s let alone a child. Just cos you are straight, dont mean you are going to do a better job!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    There is NO reason in the world why gay couples can not adopt, and on the same point single people.

    dananana;6843896

    Is it not better for child to be brought up in a loving home rather than … Is it not better for child to be brought up in a loving home rather than getting move home to home and living in a foster home(though most foster parents do a brillant job) or a children home? I believe so.



    With 2 men NO.I was bullied and teased about my mother dumping me and being brought up by a couple within a nornal family enviroment. How could anyone think this is right?

    It's wrong in so many ways, Kids don't have the choice.

    Psychological torture and can influence a child's sexuality, Do we really want our kid's to be gay?

    It's Adam and Eve not Adam and Steve

    Gay people shouldn't flaunt it.

    It's upto them what they do sexually, Whatever floats their boat.

    This thread is making me so MAD!!!!!!!!

    Small minded pettyness!

    Banned

    scunny;6843950

    With 2 men NO.I was bullied and teased about my mother dumping me and … With 2 men NO.I was bullied and teased about my mother dumping me and being brought up by a couple within a nornal family enviroment. How could anyone think this is right?


    so are you saying with 2 women is ok then?

    Banned

    shauneco;6843964

    It's wrong in so many ways, Kids don't have the choice.Psychological … It's wrong in so many ways, Kids don't have the choice.Psychological torture and can influence a child's sexuality, Do we really want our kid's to be gay?It's Adam and Eve not Adam and SteveGay people shouldn't flaunt it.It's upto them what they do sexually, Whatever floats their boat.


    DFTT!

    Or you come across as the most bigoted person I have come across on this site - and thats saying something! :w00t:

    Banned

    dcx_badass;6843580

    Yeah, but the child will get bullied, I don't care what people say, and … Yeah, but the child will get bullied, I don't care what people say, and it's still not natural.



    So do fat kids, ginger kids, smelly kids, kids with poor parents....

    Do you want to stop them adopting, maybe even reproducing?

    Banned

    shauneco;6843964

    It's wrong in so many ways, Kids don't have the choice.Psychological … It's wrong in so many ways, Kids don't have the choice.Psychological torture and can influence a child's sexuality, Do we really want our kid's to be gay?It's Adam and Eve not Adam and SteveGay people shouldn't flaunt it.It's upto them what they do sexually, Whatever floats their boat.



    Are you serious?

    I think stupidity and ignorance is a much worse example than sexuality.

    dananana;6843928

    Why is it not a good environment for a child to be in may I ask?



    A loving family home with the conventional parents is what a child needs in it's formative years. I have no problem with gay men or women, they can marry each other and live thier lives as they want. But not forcing a child into such a situation. Would you like to have been brought up by a gay couple, especially 2 men?

    Banned

    scunny;6844037

    A loving family home with the conventional parents is what a child needs … A loving family home with the conventional parents is what a child needs in it's formative years. I have no problem with gay men or women, they can marry each other and live thier lives as they want. But not forcing a child into such a situation. Would you like to have been brought up by a gay couple, especially 2 men?



    Would one of them have been you?

    If so, I think I'll pass thanks.:thumbsup:

    There will always be bullying (unfortunately) that is just the way of the world (and how socially inadequate people raise their children)

    So that can not be used in any rational argument!

    scunny;6844037

    A loving family home with the conventional parents is what a child needs … A loving family home with the conventional parents is what a child needs in it's formative years. I have no problem with gay men or women, they can marry each other and live thier lives as they want. But not forcing a child into such a situation. Would you like to have been brought up by a gay couple, especially 2 men?



    Hang on, they would know no difference, and IF the child did turn out to be gay, what is the issue.

    How about the scum of the world that keeps on breading more scum, surtley that is doin more harm to the world! :x

    Banned

    scunny;6844037

    A loving family home with the conventional parents is what a child needs … A loving family home with the conventional parents is what a child needs in it's formative years. I have no problem with gay men or women, they can marry each other and live thier lives as they want. But not forcing a child into such a situation. Would you like to have been brought up by a gay couple, especially 2 men?


    you seem to have this anti gay men emphasis over 2 women.

    Are you currently in a closet? :-D

    dcx_badass;6843580

    Yeah, but the child will get bullied, I don't care what people say, and … Yeah, but the child will get bullied, I don't care what people say, and it's still not natural.



    What do you mean when you say it's not natural?

    shauneco;6843964

    It's wrong in so many ways, Kids don't have the choice.Psychological … It's wrong in so many ways, Kids don't have the choice.Psychological torture and can influence a child's sexuality, Do we really want our kid's to be gay?It's Adam and Eve not Adam and SteveGay people shouldn't flaunt it.It's upto them what they do sexually, Whatever floats their boat.



    What ?????:w00t:

    Banned

    windhoek;6844096

    What do you mean when you say it's not natural?



    Compared to fancying Hayden Panettiere apparentlyhttp://images.allmoviephoto.com/2000_Remember_the_Titans/hayden_panettiere_remember_the_titans_001.jpg

    FatRocker;6844081

    Hang on, they would know no difference, and IF the child did turn out to … Hang on, they would know no difference, and IF the child did turn out to be gay, what is the issue.How about the scum of the world that keeps on breading more scum, surtley that is doin more harm to the world! :x



    "They would know no difference" What a load of ****. Would they not see thier friends being brought up in a normal family. What about thier neighbours, would they not see them?

    csiman;6844085

    you seem to have this anti gay men emphasis over 2 women.Are you … you seem to have this anti gay men emphasis over 2 women.Are you currently in a closet? :-D



    No.The dining room :-D I have gay friends both male and female but would not want them to bring children up. IT IS NOT RIGHT OR NORMAL for a child to have same sex parents FORCED upon them.

    Is this one of those antagonistic threads,OP posts,watches the fallout and runs !!

    scunny;6844148

    "They would know no difference" What a load of ****. Would they not see … "They would know no difference" What a load of ****. Would they not see thier friends being brought up in a normal family. What about thier neighbours, would they not see them?



    And! we live an age where age, race and sexuallity shouldnt make any difference!

    Is it not better that a child is raised in a loving "gay" home than an home with abuse / drugs thrown in their face every day!

    Banned

    scunny;6844148

    "They would know no difference" What a load of ****. Would they not see … "They would know no difference" What a load of ****. Would they not see thier friends being brought up in a normal family. What about thier neighbours, would they not see them?



    So good people who might be good parents can't bring up kids because of the bad parents who teach their kids prejudice?

    Banned

    scunny;6844176

    No.The dining room :-D I have gay friends both male and female but would … No.The dining room :-D I have gay friends both male and female but would not want them to bring children up. IT IS NOT RIGHT OR NORMAL for a child to have same sex parents FORCED upon them.



    What about stupid parents? You're happy with that?

    Because they might bring up kids who talk rubbish. Like you seem to be (no hate).

    [QUOTE=windhoek;6844096]What do you mean when you say it's not natural?[/QUO

    pretty straight forward really, it is not natural.
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