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    Does anyone else get peeved when..

    People pester then all the time but have nothing in particular to talk about? I have some friends and one friend in particular who thinks it is his god given right to pester me on msn all the time even if there is nothing new to chat about. I'll say Hi...he says Hi, then its like are you not talking to me or he nudges me...and if I don't reply on msn my mobile rings, and If i don't reply to that the house phone rings...and I get "are you not talking to me" then I'm like we chatted on msn at 5pm this afternoon...i've nothing to talk about aghhhh. he's just took a major huff on me cos I was sitting watching a DVD and had supposedly ignored him on here and on my mobile (which was in fact just silent) then he wanted me to talk about work at half ten on a Friday night MY work not his and I didn't so was just going yeah, right hmmm and I told him I didn't want to talk about it. so now he's spat out his dummy and canceled going out for a meal with me tomorrow evening. Do other people have these problems or is it just me?

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    Banned

    please dont tell me hes a hukd member

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    sassie;3341657

    please dont tell me hes a hukd member



    No not at all, i wouldnt post if he was!

    stalker??

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    bellabonkers;3341659

    No not at all, i wouldnt post if he was!



    oh its just said, because you ignored him on here :?

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    shanecr;3341663

    stalker??



    I've known him since I was 21 he's an old friend but it just seems that sometimes he can't leave me alone

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    sassie;3341667

    oh its just said, because you ignored him on here :?



    sorry, I meant on here as in on my pc - on msn

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    bellabonkers;3341676

    sorry, I meant on here as in on my pc - on msn



    oh thank the lordy for that, thought it was a little unfair of you to do this (thinking they where a member here)

    hi bella he's still giving you grief then? :-( put him on block :lol:

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    bellabonkers;3341673

    I've known him since I was 21 he's an old friend but it just seems that … I've known him since I was 21 he's an old friend but it just seems that sometimes he can't leave me alone



    maybe he is lonely, have you tried to talk to him about his behaviour, maybe that would help

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    I can think of one. Fortunately I had the good sense to tell him to slig his hook.

    sassie;3341691

    maybe he is lonely, have you tried to talk to him about his behaviour, … maybe he is lonely, have you tried to talk to him about his behaviour, maybe that would help



    lol that might open a can of worms :whistling:

    yeh, I would say he has a problem hun. Talk to him about it, it sounds like he wants more from u than u want to offer. :thumbsup:

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    cheerleader;3341688

    hi bella he's still giving you grief then? :-( put him on block :lol:



    you know what even when I am offline or marked as busy or away he is there!!! If I go offline I get I can see you...which of course he can't

    sassie;3341657

    please dont tell me hes a hukd member



    Yeah that was my first thought cos there are people like that here

    Bella, I have friends like that so you are not alone. My problem is I end up feeling bad and go out of my way to make it right which in reality makes it worse

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    shanecr;3341700

    lol that might open a can of worms :whistling:



    well aint that what we do in the real world if we have a problem

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    hannah19790;3341701

    yeh, I would say he has a problem hun. Talk to him about it, it sounds … yeh, I would say he has a problem hun. Talk to him about it, it sounds like he wants more from u than u want to offer. :thumbsup:



    Hannah he has a long term partner, and he is not of that persuasion anyway....I just don't get his sudden need to be in my life at every given moment. God knows I love him but he's just so...I dunno huffy.

    sassie;3341713

    well aint that what we do in the real world if we have a problem



    not me. bottle it all up baby :whistling:

    Glad you cleared that up with Sass i could have put money on which HUKD member it was if you hadnt :whistling:

    Dont mix virtuality with reality, thats my motto...keep them seperate xxx

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    shanecr;3341727

    not me. bottle it all up baby :whistling:



    nooooooooooooooooooooooooooo, not good

    sassie;3341733

    nooooooooooooooooooooooooooo, not good



    yah lol. i know, but it works for me. I hate bothering people. Mainly because i hate being bothered myself. Am i selfish?

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    fireheaven;3341705

    Yeah that was my first thought cos there are people like that hereBella, … Yeah that was my first thought cos there are people like that hereBella, I have friends like that so you are not alone. My problem is I end up feeling bad and go out of my way to make it right which in reality makes it worse



    Sorry, I just needed a little bit of a rant about it. even last night while I was out with another friend of mine my mobile went a few times..it was mega inconvenient for me to answer so I text when I had a chance...to be greeted with more missed calls and in the end a text..are you not answering!!

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    shanecr;3341737

    yah lol. i know, but it works for me. I hate bothering people. Mainly … yah lol. i know, but it works for me. I hate bothering people. Mainly because i hate being bothered myself. Am i selfish?



    trouble is how does the person thats botherig you know there bothering you if nothing is said, so its ok to blame them for being a pain in the butt, but a little unfair if they dont know they are being a pain in your butt

    sounds like he wants to do the nasty , why else would a man hover about a woman for so long :thumbsup:

    sassie;3341746

    trouble is how does the person thats botherig you know there bothering … trouble is how does the person thats botherig you know there bothering you if nothing is said, so its ok to blame them for being a pain in the butt, but a little unfair if they dont know they are being a pain in your butt



    Um not quite what i meant...........if someone has personal problems they should tackle them with the person thats causing it...not me.

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    shanecr;3341770

    Um not quite what i meant...........if someone has personal problems they … Um not quite what i meant...........if someone has personal problems they should tackle them with the person thats causing it...not me.



    oh right get ya ;-)

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    snowflake;3341730

    Glad you cleared that up with Sass i could have put money on which HUKD … Glad you cleared that up with Sass i could have put money on which HUKD member it was if you hadnt :whistling:Dont mix virtuality with reality, thats my motto...keep them seperate xxx



    Oh my - who were you thinking?

    bellabonkers;3341720

    Hannah he has a long term partner, and he is not of that persuasion … Hannah he has a long term partner, and he is not of that persuasion anyway....I just don't get his sudden need to be in my life at every given moment. God knows I love him but he's just so...I dunno huffy.



    sounds like he's just really needy, maybe he's feelin abit down at mo. Talk to him about it, maybe he just doesn't realise (although I can't see how to be honest):thumbsup:

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    starsparkle2311;3341743

    Having a LTP has nowt to do with it, sounds like a slimeball, keep away, … Having a LTP has nowt to do with it, sounds like a slimeball, keep away, don't be shy of hurting his feelings, tell him straight JOG ON!:thumbsup:



    whats a LTP..i have known him for 14yrs, he seems to have become needy. ive tried telling him...still spits out the dummy.

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    hannah19790;3341781

    sounds like he's just really needy, maybe he's feelin abit down at mo. … sounds like he's just really needy, maybe he's feelin abit down at mo. Talk to him about it, maybe he just doesn't realise (although I can't see how to be honest):thumbsup:



    He isnt working at the moment (through choice!) He's full of this good advice for me, but every time we chat has turned into a lecture. it's wearing me down.

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    starsparkle2311;3341801

    I thought you said he has a long term partner!:?



    he has but I dont know what LTP means?
    doh im being thick in my tiss - got it now!

    bellabonkers;3341805

    He isnt working at the moment (through choice!) He's full of this good … He isnt working at the moment (through choice!) He's full of this good advice for me, but every time we chat has turned into a lecture. it's wearing me down.


    awww :friends:

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    cheerleader;3341819

    awww :friends:



    lol you know how long this has been getting to me as well dont you cheer!

    bellabonkers;3341805

    He isnt working at the moment (through choice!) He's full of this good … He isnt working at the moment (through choice!) He's full of this good advice for me, but every time we chat has turned into a lecture. it's wearing me down.



    Ur gonna have to put ur foot down hun, even if it means he gets the hump and u fll out. If he's the friend u say then it may make him think and apologise:thumbsup:

    bellabonkers;3341829

    lol you know how long this has been getting to me as well dont you cheer!


    yep - too long!!! :-( :whistling:

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    hannah19790;3341833

    Ur gonna have to put ur foot down hun, even if it means he gets the hump … Ur gonna have to put ur foot down hun, even if it means he gets the hump and u fll out. If he's the friend u say then it may make him think and apologise:thumbsup:



    Once we went out for lunch together and he disagreed with something I said so he got up and left me...complete with two plates full of food. He just got up and flounced out the pub like a right drama queen. A couple of days later he was so appologetic. The games are getting a little thin now.

    bellabonkers;3341809

    he has but I dont know what LTP means?doh im being thick in my tiss - got … he has but I dont know what LTP means?doh im being thick in my tiss - got it now!



    Long term partner I believe:thumbsup:

    hannah19790;3341833

    Ur gonna have to put ur foot down hun, even if it means he gets the hump … Ur gonna have to put ur foot down hun, even if it means he gets the hump and u fll out. If he's the friend u say then it may make him think and apologise:thumbsup:


    i keep telling her that she needs to stick up for herself, so well said hannah :thumbsup: the more people that tell her then maybe she'll start doing it :-)

    bellabonkers;3341846

    Once we went out for lunch together and he disagreed with something I … Once we went out for lunch together and he disagreed with something I said so he got up and left me...complete with two plates full of food. He just got up and flounced out the pub like a right drama queen. A couple of days later he was so appologetic. The games are getting a little thin now.



    Bl00dy ell, I don't do stroppy, just not patient enough. U seem to have done ur fair share for him. I would have to tell him this time that it is the LAST time ur gonna take it:thumbsup:

    starsparkle2311;3341883

    For goodness sake Bella, you're worth more, sounds like he's taking the … For goodness sake Bella, you're worth more, sounds like he's taking the total lend!! You wanna know how I know? Been there done it, it hurts like hell, but tell him to do one, and move on, he ain't a friend!!!!


    :thumbsup:

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    I expect to go back into the living room to find a few text msgs of one sort or another. I know I shouldnt let something so minor stress me out
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