Does running away ever make things easier or should you fight for what you believe?

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Found 17th May 2009
Just a question that I thought of after seeing it in another thread but wanted to know if it's worth fighting for what you believen and know you'll be happy or should you just run away if things seem to difficult for the build up of this happiness?

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Depends on the circumstances. I would always say that running away from a fight is a good idea, most martial arts teach that if you can defend against not being there, you dont get hurt. But otherwise it would depend what circumstances you are talking about

If it's all getting to much RFM then I'll take her off you hands!:p

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GAVINLEWISHUKD;5236442

If it's all getting to much RFM then I'll take her off you hands!:p



lol, nothing like that going on.

realfriendlyman;5236448

lol, nothing like that going on.



Up early on a sunday morning, strange questions.......................First thought is women problems!:roll:


So what is it about?:?

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GAVINLEWISHUKD;5236471

Up early on a sunday morning, strange … Up early on a sunday morning, strange questions.......................First thought is women problems!:roll:So what is it about?:?



Nah, just wondering after I saw something in another thread, that's all...I've been up for hours already and just wanted to know everyones opinion on the matter.

Keeping the thread on topic though, I do believen fighting for what you believen and running away from your problems only creates more issues and many more regrets in the future.

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GAVINLEWISHUKD;5236471

Up early on a sunday morning, strange … Up early on a sunday morning, strange questions.......................First thought is women problems!:roll:So what is it about?:?



Yeah that was my first thought, but I didn't want to say :oops:

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realfriendlyman;5236483

Nah, just wondering after I saw something in another thread, that's … Nah, just wondering after I saw something in another thread, that's all...I've been up for hours already and just wanted to know everyones opinion on the matter. :)Keeping the thread on topic though, I do believen fighting for what you believen and running away from your problems only creates more issues and many more regrets in the future.



Well give us an example

realfriendlyman;5236483

Nah, just wondering after I saw something in another thread, that's … Nah, just wondering after I saw something in another thread, that's all...I've been up for hours already and just wanted to know everyones opinion on the matter. :)Keeping the thread on topic though, I do believen fighting for what you believen and running away from your problems only creates more issues and many more regrets in the future.



Yes I'd go with that. But only if it's a two way thing. There's no point in me fighting for Elle Macpherson as I'm not going to get her so nobody else can get hurt so may as well run away.

But running away from love/family/work/money issues doesn't normally work as they get worse and catch you up normally.

Right I'll catch this thread later off out now! Have a good day RFM.:thumbsup:

Socrates chose to die for his beliefs!

Thing is - when you say fight for what YOU believe in - that is all well and good as long as you don't end up getting hurt - be it physically or mentally -walking away - although difficult can be a good idea but not one everybody naturally chooses....
Look at how many of your ladyfriends on here have been hurt (for want of a better word) by the things people write - they could have just ignored it - but it is really hard.

I guess - it really depends on what it is - for instance - there is nothing wrong in fighting for what you believe in if you were in Court on a technical matter or similar....

?? What you fink?

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windhoek;5236527

Socrates chose to die for his beliefs!



What a legend... great Brazilian footballer... i'm sure he's still alive tho?? :whistling:

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give em a kicking then do a runner:thumbsup:

you should always fight for happiness, life is too short to be unhappy when there is something you can do about it.

dog_cop;5236632

give em a kicking then do a runner:thumbsup:



Typical cop !!

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carly1234;5236661

you should always fight for happiness, life is too short to be unhappy … you should always fight for happiness, life is too short to be unhappy when there is something you can do about it.



That's exactly my sentiments too.

I think happiness is the most important thing in the world and it shouldn't be given up easily but there can be some adaptions for happiness too.

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realfriendlyman;5236700

That's exactly my sentiments too. :)I think happiness is the most … That's exactly my sentiments too. :)I think happiness is the most important thing in the world and it shouldn't be given up easily but there can be some adaptions for happiness too.



Oh I guess we are talking about 'Mrs RFM' here. Yeah you should fight for love if you feel its right. However she has to want to fight for it as well, if she is not willing then my past experiences have told me its best to leave it where it is. However your marriage is important and you should not give up on it

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sculpturatus;5236707

Oh I guess we are talking about 'Mrs RFM' here. Yeah you should fight … Oh I guess we are talking about 'Mrs RFM' here. Yeah you should fight for love if you feel its right. However she has to want to fight for it as well, if she is not willing then my past experiences have told me its best to leave it where it is. However your marriage is important and you should not give up on it



Nah, it's nothing to do with Mrs RFM, it's just what I believen.

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realfriendlyman;5236767

Nah, it's nothing to do with Mrs RFM, it's just what I believen.



Oh OK. Well I hope you can sort your marriage out soon. Just dont be too afraid of owning up to your mistakes. See you later

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sculpturatus;5236935

Oh OK. Well I hope you can sort your marriage out soon. Just dont be too … Oh OK. Well I hope you can sort your marriage out soon. Just dont be too afraid of owning up to your mistakes. See you later



I'm not married but hope I will be one day. :giggle:

I always own up to my mistakes...I'm only human and have made many mistakes in my time, as has everyone.

EDIT: if you're referring to my location, that's just a tune that I really love and have always wanted to sing to the future Mrs RFM personally.

realfriendlyman;5237026

EDIT: if you're referring to my location, that's just a tune that I … EDIT: if you're referring to my location, that's just a tune that I really love and have always wanted to sing to the future Mrs RFM personally.


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sometimes its healthier to run whilst we sort our crap out, other times its not to good an idea

sassie;5237684

sometimes its healthier to run whilst we sort our crap out,




Spot on :thumbsup:

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sassie;5237684

sometimes its healthier to run whilst we sort our crap out, other times … sometimes its healthier to run whilst we sort our crap out, other times its not to good an idea



True but it also depends on what kind of effect it'll have from the things you've run away from. I.E I ran away from a very lucrative career because it was too stressful.

It's always important to consider the aftermath and how it will effect the rest of your life, as the world won't standstill while the crap is being handled. :thumbsup:

I guess each situation is different but needs a lot of consideration with a clear head before taking the plunge. ;-)

It really does depend on the situation, sometimes you need to run away, other times you need to stand up and fight.

I fought for someone for a long time, but in hindesight I should have given up at the first hurdle.
Now I have a situation where I can fight or run, and my heart and head are torn. Thinking I am going to fight, the girl he is with has more issues than a season of Jermey Kyle and Jerry Springer put together, and it's nothing to do with him...... oh and she never makes time for him.... yeah think I am going to fight this one, lol

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Kitten13;5238034

It really does depend on the situation, sometimes you need to run away, … It really does depend on the situation, sometimes you need to run away, other times you need to stand up and fight. I fought for someone for a long time, but in hindesight I should have given up at the first hurdle. Now I have a situation where I can fight or run, and my heart and head are torn. Thinking I am going to fight, the girl he is with has more issues than a season of Jermey Kyle and Jerry Springer put together, and it's nothing to do with him...... oh and she never makes time for him.... yeah think I am going to fight this one, lol



Be careful how you handle it though, as you don't want to complicate matters even further...sounds like he has enough on his plate.

I know where you're coming from though, I had a lot of problems with one of my ex's when she was in her own world.

realfriendlyman;5238047

Be careful how you handle it though, as you don't want to complicate … Be careful how you handle it though, as you don't want to complicate matters even further...sounds like he has enough on his plate. :)I know where you're coming from though, I had a lot of problems with one of my ex's when she was in her own world.



I'm just going to keep on being a nice sweet uncomplicated girl, who gets on with his family and friends, lol... He will open his eyes in the end, lol
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