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    my friend,wonderful husband,father of two amazing girls is in hospital. he has two brain anyurysms, ( bleeds) prognosis is very poor.if he lives, well the doctors havent said.Why????

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    Very Sorry to hear this
    i wish you all the best and your husband a speedy recovery.

    I don't know what to say.... sorry. :-(

    am really sorry to hear this.

    few years back my dad had cancer and at one point we were all told to expect the worse and was the most horrendeous tiime of my life ...and my families, but thankfully he pulled through.................... but I always remember a lady I met in the relatives room and she simply said to me that where there's life there is hope.

    I hope that soon u will post better news about your friend

    Original Poster

    Johns my dear friend, as is his wife Claire. He spends all his time helping others, raising money for Spirit Aid. Being an amazing human. Please pray for him

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    bossyboots;6806155

    am really sorry to hear this. few years back my dad had cancer and at … am really sorry to hear this. few years back my dad had cancer and at one point we were all told to expect the worse and was the most horrendeous tiime of my life ...and my families, but thankfully he pulled through.................... but I always remember a lady I met in the relatives room and she simply said to me that where there's life there is hope.I hope that soon u will post better news about your friend



    thanks so much, crying now, need him so much to be well. so glad your dads ok

    Banned

    all the good people are being raised above - the world is only for the dregs of the universe. dont fear - it is better for him elsewhere but here.

    craig guy;6806156

    Johns my dear friend, as is his wife Claire. He spends all hi time … Johns my dear friend, as is his wife Claire. He spends all hi time helping others, raising money for Spirit Aid. Being an amazing human. Please pray for him



    will do - so sad, be strong for your friend and his wife X

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    kapows;6806164

    all the good people are being raised above - the world is only for the … all the good people are being raised above - the world is only for the dregs of the universe. dont fear - it is better for him elsewhere but here.



    hes so young, cant think it will be better without him.

    Banned

    it will be better for him where he is going - meaning a better place than earth and its peoples

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    octobergirl;6806168

    will do - so sad, be strong for your friend and his wife X



    thanks to you and for your kindness. john spent his summer in Malawi building a creche.

    craig guy;6806161

    thanks so much, crying now, need him so much to be well. so glad your … thanks so much, crying now, need him so much to be well. so glad your dads ok



    Go get some sleep. Be strong for your friends, And I sincerely hope he pulls through. Thoughts are with you and them.

    craig guy;6806170

    hes so young, cant think it will be better without him.



    craig, if there is no one at home just now that you can just let it all out too then maybe think about calling someone................even the samaritans (oh I hope your not offended at this suggestion,but I used them myself when my dad was sick as was good to cry and it was a stranger.............)

    There is no shame at all in crying xxx

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    bossyboots;6806176

    craig, if there is no one at home just now that you can just let it all … craig, if there is no one at home just now that you can just let it all out too then maybe think about calling someone................even the samaritans (oh I hope your not offended at this suggestion,but I used them myself when my dad was sick as was good to cry and it was a stranger.............)There is no shame at all in crying xxx



    your so kind, i have my husband upstairs ( his name im using on this site). John is OUR friend. I am able to talk to him. Good night, god bless

    craig guy;6806174

    thanks to you and for your kindness. john spent his summer in Malawi … thanks to you and for your kindness. john spent his summer in Malawi building a creche.



    my aunt passed away about 6 weeks ago she had 2 'giant' annurisms and lived for 8 months with the fear of them bursting, it was dreadful to see her go to skin and bones, she was so ill perhaps it is a blessing it is so quick, still, as said above I will pray for John and Claire tonight - they are both fortunate to have a friend like you.

    bossyboots;6806176

    craig, if there is no one at home just now that you can just let it all … craig, if there is no one at home just now that you can just let it all out too then maybe think about calling someone................even the samaritans (oh I hope your not offended at this suggestion,but I used them myself when my dad was sick as was good to cry and it was a stranger.............)There is no shame at all in crying xxx



    +1... or pm someone on here ( me if you like) don't just sit there and drown!

    dmh77;6806187

    +1... or pm someone on here ( me if you like) don't just sit there and … +1... or pm someone on here ( me if you like) don't just sit there and drown!



    yes dmh is right......ur not alone and honestly sometimes u get better help from a complete stranger. I am a very strong person ...............always................but when my dad was ill I went to pieces but to the outside world was still as hard as nails...............till I went home.

    You need to talk to someone and I think u have been very brave and strong in posting this here tonight. People will help you ..................we will all help you.

    Take care and PLEASE keep us updated.

    All the very best to you x

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    bossyboots;6806199

    yes dmh is right......ur not alone and honestly sometimes u get better … yes dmh is right......ur not alone and honestly sometimes u get better help from a complete stranger. I am a very strong person ...............always................but when my dad was ill I went to pieces but to the outside world was still as hard as nails...............till I went home. You need to talk to someone and I think u have been very brave and strong in posting this here tonight. People will help you ..................we will all help you.Take care and PLEASE keep us updated.All the very best to you x



    have sent u pm

    Banned

    guy at work had a brain anyurysms, made a full recovery as long as you catch it in its early stages the chances are good.

    craig guy;6806201

    have sent u pm



    have replied xx

    take care and keep us updated.


    all the best to you and your friend xx

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    lumoruk;6806208

    guy at work had a brain anyurysms, made a full recovery as long as you … guy at work had a brain anyurysms, made a full recovery as long as you catch it in its early stages the chances are good.



    am so gratful for your reply, i have hope

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    Guys, am going to try to sleep. Thanks so very much for all your support. I will keep everyone posted. God Bless. Please pray for Johns speedy recovery

    i pray every night before i go to bed, i will pray for him

    So sad.

    This puts everyone else's problems into perspective.

    Positive thoughts and prayers his, his families, and your way. Keep strong. X

    i don't know you-but love & prayers are sent-thinking of you

    Thinking of you x

    Dreadful situation. There will be so many unanswered questions for a while. You feel helpless but believe you me, just being there and caring is a huge task. You cannot take away their pain, just help them through. I hope he recovers but it will be a very long road to recovery ahead. You will be needed then more than ever. They are fortunate to have someone like you.

    Kapows, the man is not dead.

    craig guy;6806156

    Johns my dear friend, as is his wife Claire. He spends all his time … Johns my dear friend, as is his wife Claire. He spends all his time helping others, raising money for Spirit Aid. Being an amazing human. Please pray for him



    Wishing John and Claire all the strength in the world xx

    They certainly have a wonderful friend. Will share a place for you all in my prayers xx
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