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    dont know why...

    i am doing this but i lost my friend as everyone knows a couple of weeks back and it was hard and then her mum went also i am sooo hurt...

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    Original Poster

    she went on the monday and her mum went on the friday th 19th march!

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    wulshaz;8329795

    she went on the monday and her mum went on the friday th 19th march!



    is that meant to be the tag line to your joke, because i don't get it.

    wulshaz;8329795

    she went on the monday and her mum went on the friday th 19th march!



    :? Where'd they go? :?

    Original Poster

    lumoruk;8329801

    is that meant to be a joke, because i don't get it.



    and your 1st joke was sick? did you think i never seen it!!!
    she died on the 15th and the mum on the 19th and ps thanks for the support!!!

    starsparkle2311;8329814

    I don't know why you're doing it either, you must know some of the … I don't know why you're doing it either, you must know some of the idiotic replies you will get (see above).Sorry to hear of your loss btw



    ^^this

    hope they RIP

    Original Poster

    maybe i just want a release i give lots of support on her and would like some back!

    Original Poster

    bossyboots;8329818

    ^^this



    please do not reply in my thread unless it is geuine i do hurt you know!

    wulshaz;8329835

    please do not reply in my thread unless it is geuine i do hurt you know!



    alcohol & emotion are not a good mix.

    Original Poster

    ilovelilac;8329823

    hope they RIP



    thank you it does hurt she was only young.

    starsparkle2311;8329814

    I don't know why you're doing it either, you must know some of the … I don't know why you're doing it either, you must know some of the idiotic replies you will get (see above).Sorry to hear of your loss btw



    bossyboots;8329818

    ^^this



    Are you two takin the Michael Fish?......its not as if you pair are the pillars of sincerity on here!!!

    Dealing with the loss of loved ones and liked ones is hard... brings the total realisation of the futility of unimportant worries... and how quickly crap happens, and how much crap there really is.

    Hope you are ok Wulshaz, and if not hope you come to terms as soon as possible.

    We are all strangers on here and maybe not the place for "support"... but certainly understanding.

    bossyboots;8329840

    alcohol & emotion are not a good mix.


    alcohol and fun are though (there I go again oops inappropriate):oops:

    uh oh

    StevenA2000_uk;8329842

    Are you two takin the Michael Fish?......its not as if you pair are the … Are you two takin the Michael Fish?......its not as if you pair are the pillars of sincerity on here!!!



    Original Poster

    bossyboots;8329840

    alcohol & emotion are not a good mix.


    why do you always come up with that? i did not reply in your thread the other week with lulu,s mammy and your drunken thread? thank you but it does not always come down to alcohol!

    wulshaz;8329829

    maybe i just want a release i give lots of support on her and would like … maybe i just want a release i give lots of support on her and would like some back!



    have you got mutual friends with the friend that passed... maybe talk to them as they know what you're going through

    just take it easy, its hard losing someone you love but hey that life you have to get over it sometime even though you might remember them and have a cry every now and then but you cant let it hold you back, this is coming from someone that has experienced many losses in her lifetime :thumbsup:

    Lots of insensitive people around, what happened btw, whats the story? 2 deaths so close to each other, sad stuff

    if ppl have nothing good or encouraging to say prob best not to say anything? gosh! :roll:

    Original Poster

    starsparkle2311;8329854

    Yeh like you're one to talk, sorry Wulshaz, I'll leave now

    #thank you anyway

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    wulshaz;8329808

    and your 1st joke was sick? did you think i never seen it!!!she died on … and your 1st joke was sick? did you think i never seen it!!!she died on the 15th and the mum on the 19th and ps thanks for the support!!!



    soz but I thought you were doing a **** take on that thread from earlier with the woman whos husband was walking out on her, while she was sat on her computer talking to us.

    starsparkle2311;8329854

    Yeh like you're one to talk, sorry Wulshaz, I'll leave now



    LOL wot? the OP never mentioned anything about them passing away ffs!!!

    for all we know they could have fallen out and left her ...or went on holiday or summit fcs!!!

    some people :roll:

    Original Poster

    lumoruk;8329879

    soz but I thought you were doing a **** take on that thread from earlier … soz but I thought you were doing a **** take on that thread from earlier with the woman whos husband was walking out on her, while she was sat on her computer talking to us.


    sorry a dont know anything about that :oops:

    starsparkle2311;8329896

    sad reflection on your life, yes many peeps probably do leave you, … sad reflection on your life, yes many peeps probably do leave you, without giving a reason, maybe you should take time out and think why? lolThink it's pretty obvious what the OP is getting at, once again I shall leave this thread.Soz wulshaz, but I had to reply to the insensitive wenker, yes, I just HAD to:whistling:



    Wow..personal attack and hate. Lowest form. :roll:

    Edit : and nothing is obvious on here.

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    really sorry to hear this wulshaz, i know nobodys words or comfort will help and its something you neer really get over, you just learn to handle it better with time, its ok to feel like crap, although alot of hukd members no longer seems able to show compassion there are still some who can still see someones misery, take care x

    StevenA2000_uk;8329899

    Wow..personal attack and hate. Lowest form. :roll:Edit : and nothing is … Wow..personal attack and hate. Lowest form. :roll:Edit : and nothing is obvious on here.



    Especially if you have got the personality of a Psychopath and the brains of a piece of string. This was pretty obvious and you should have left well alone.... DH

    jonb2412;8329910

    Especially if you have got the personality of a Psychopath and the brains … Especially if you have got the personality of a Psychopath and the brains of a piece of string. This was pretty obvious and you should have left well alone.... DH



    and people shouldnt post in misc if they know fine well the types of responses they will get. DH

    Original Poster

    sassie;8329905

    really sorry to hear this wulshaz, i know nobodys words or comfort will … really sorry to hear this wulshaz, i know nobodys words or comfort will help and its something you neer really get over, you just learn to handle it better with time, its ok to feel like crap, although alot of hukd members no longer seems able to show compassion there are still some who can still see someones misery, take care x


    thank you sassie and i do appreciate it and it does hurt with no doubt what else can i say? nothing unless you have been there you will understand!

    StevenA2000_uk;8329915

    and people shouldnt post in misc if they know fine well the types of … and people shouldnt post in misc if they know fine well the types of responses they will get. DH



    There's always hope that some people will eventually grow up and realise there voice is not always needed or required. KH

    jonb2412;8329922

    There's always hope that some people will eventually grow up and realise … There's always hope that some people will eventually grow up and realise there voice is not always needed or required. KH



    pathetic, get a life. KH

    Original Poster

    yes thank you as some people have no idea of the hurt i/we have went through the last few weeks it has been terrible but we are trying to cope!

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    wulshaz;8329921

    thank you sassie and i do appreciate it and it does hurt with no doubt … thank you sassie and i do appreciate it and it does hurt with no doubt what else can i say? nothing unless you have been there you will understand!



    you dont have to say anything else really, and people shouldn't have to have been where you are to feel for you

    starsparkle2311;8329936

    I was under the impression that only people possessing such qualities … I was under the impression that only people possessing such qualities could sign up to to this forum, brb checking the registration rules...............................


    Nah its anybody...Im here:-D

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    sassie;8329931

    you dont have to say anything else really, and people shouldn't have to … you dont have to say anything else really, and people shouldn't have to have been where you are to feel for you


    thank you honestly anyway goodnight sassie :thumbsup:

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    wulshaz;8329951

    thank you honestly anyway goodnight sassie :thumbsup:



    take care, and give yourself time to feel however you do, night x

    StevenA2000_uk;8329927

    pathetic, get a life. KH



    You are so right.... sorry

    My apologies Wulshaz... I guess experiencing a death unfortunately is a requirement in realising the reality of it.... having lost parents, uncles, aunties and a brother I know how it made and still makes me feel, and sometimes the surreal nature of it all hits hard. The pain is harsh, but as the saying goes.. life goes on. Again... hope you become ok... Sorry

    starsparkle2311;8329943

    lol, you make me laugh:-D


    Thanks thats a first:thinking:

    Why do people refer to the dead as "lost"? We know exactly where they are (sometimes in life we don't even know that much), yes they are gone but not forgotten, the only thing I would change about the British culture is the morbid view of death, don't mourn the life that no longer is but celebrate the life they had, why do we have to be so gloomy?

    Get together with shared friends & family and remember the good times.

    harlzter;8329995

    Why do people refer to the dead as "lost"? We know exactly where they are … Why do people refer to the dead as "lost"? We know exactly where they are (sometimes in life we don't even know that much), yes they are gone but not forgotten, the only thing I would change about the British culture is the morbid view of death, don't mourn the life that no longer is but celebrate the life they had, why do we have to be so gloomy? Get together with shared friends & family and remember the good times.



    I agree.... but the mourning process cannot be just this, its an important part, but so is the sadness of the loss.... Its not a morbid view of death, it's a personal experience.

    harlzter;8329995

    Why do people refer to the dead as "lost"? We know exactly where they are … Why do people refer to the dead as "lost"? We know exactly where they are (sometimes in life we don't even know that much), yes they are gone but not forgotten, the only thing I would change about the British culture is the morbid view of death, don't mourn the life that no longer is but celebrate the life they had, why do we have to be so gloomy? Get together with shared friends & family and remember the good times.



    its easier to celebrate life if a person died old, like my grandma when she died we celebrated her life cos she achieved a lot and stuff lots of party and food etc obviously some sadness but if a person dies young some untimely death or murdered its not as easy to celebrate their life trust me cos you feel cheated but like i said before you'll have to get over it sometime and move on with it and try to keep remember the time you had with them good memories etc

    i've experienced so much death in my life that if i hear someone i know died today i prob wont cry im not scared of death :thumbsup:
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