Fancy a row!! DO I??

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Found 7th Apr 2008
The miserable old bat opposite has now complained that my daughter and her friends are making too much noise on their rollerskates outside her house and told them (very rudely) to go away. My little girl is very upset. Do I go over for a row or not???

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go and beat her up
lol

Be diplomatic and kind - it always baffles people and you're more likely to get your way. Ask if you can come to a comprimise, after all your daughter has every right to be there.

buy her some ear plugs and tell her its her problem not yours

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bigbob909;1850708

go and beat her uplol



ARGRH!!!!! I am so angry. She is always complaining and does nothing about her 15year old who is outside with her phone music at all hours. OLD BAT!!!!!:)

foxylady*;1850713

Be diplomatic and kind - it always baffles people and you're more likely … Be diplomatic and kind - it always baffles people and you're more likely to get your way. Ask if you can come to a comprimise, after all your daughter has every right to be there.




lol best way I would end up losing my temper though :whistling: how can people not just leave the wains alone their only playing :thumbsup:

she cant shout if shes dead....jus sayin

I'd certainly go and talk to her.

i'd go and use big words to confuse the old bat......................
.................
then beat her up

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bertv6;1850731

If it was me I would be straight over there...we've got a neighbour who … If it was me I would be straight over there...we've got a neighbour who complains (very loudly) everytime my daughter ventures outside...really gets my blood boiling. Everyone always talks of childhood obesity levels etc...but children cant go outside because of people like this......:x



Her and I have had a row before. She has just called the other neighbour over and told her that she wants peace and quiet as she works hard all week and this is her day off. Also she has said that if this is what she is to expect all over the better weather months she will complain to the police. She wont tackle me as she knows I will argue back. I HATE HER!!!!! OLD BAG!!!!!

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surfer90;1850753

i'd go and use big words to confuse the old … i'd go and use big words to confuse the old bat.......................................then beat her up



LOL!!! The woman is beyond thick!!! Probably would send her into over drive!!!!Good advice. Might just do that!!!!!

Why not tell your kids not to make a noise outside her house, or better yet, why dont you take them to the local park to play. Problem solved.

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okaydokey;1850736

lol best way I would end up losing my temper though :whistling: how can … lol best way I would end up losing my temper though :whistling: how can people not just leave the wains alone their only playing :thumbsup:



Miserable miserly old bag!!! (not you!!! The cow opposite):-D

emmaelise;1850763

She wont tackle me as she knows I will argue back. I HATE HER!!!!! OLD … She wont tackle me as she knows I will argue back. I HATE HER!!!!! OLD BAG!!!!!



I'm not surprised. Unless you get that anger under control, you're gonna scare more than her! :w00t:

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Shengis;1850771

Why not tell your kids not to make a noise outside her house, or better … Why not tell your kids not to make a noise outside her house, or better yet, why dont you take them to the local park to play. Problem solved.



I have moved my daughter away and told her not to play there. She really scared her though and the language was disgusting. That is what I am cross about. I understand that the rollerblades get a bit much, I dont appreciate her being sworn at. She told me that the neighbour used th "F" word...

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bertv6;1850792

tell her to complain to the police all she likes wat they going to do, … tell her to complain to the police all she likes wat they going to do, arrest your daughter for playing outside:-DSome people obviously have nothing better to do with their time. I agree though its better to appear polite and nice, it baffles people like that. BUT its impossible for me....I just lose my temper.........:x



Me too! That why I dont trust myself!!!;-)

go over and tell her to GET A LIFE all kids need to play its not as if its 10 at night and your lass is hanging outside her house drinking and using drugs. let her ring the police they wont do anything about it theyll probably tell her to get a life too !!

I would talk to her otherwise it will only wind you up in the long run. Ask her if there is a problem (give her a chance to have her say and makes you appear concerned). Explain that your daughter is very upset (make her feel guilty). Ask her to come and see you in future should there be a problem - NOT your daughter (as it is upsetting her and this way she is less likely to bark at them at every given chance). Explain that they enjoy playing outside (make her feel guilty) unlike most of the other children nowadays (tap into her ages general ethos). At no point must you get angry or raise your voice. This will only give her ammunition to say nasty things about you and your daughter, and she will feel completely right and justified in giving your daughter a row.

I personally would want to throttle her - but you have to live there after today and your daughter might get the brunt of it. She could also be one of those lonely old bats that need to be loved - keep your enemies closer etc lol!

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Liddle ol' me;1850789

I'm not surprised. Unless you get that anger under control, you're gonna … I'm not surprised. Unless you get that anger under control, you're gonna scare more than her! :w00t:



Sorry liddle ol me!!! :thumbsup:

she shouldn't have used the F word thats for sure, but i know from personal experience that kids playing outside can drive you mad. shengis had the right idea. take her to the park.

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foxylady*;1850819

I would talk to her otherwise it will only wind you up in the long run. … I would talk to her otherwise it will only wind you up in the long run. Ask her if there is a problem (give her a chance to have her say and makes you appear concerned). Explain that your daughter is very upset (make her feel guilty). Ask her to come and see you in future should there be a problem - NOT your daughter (as it is upsetting her and this way she is less likely to bark at them at every given chance). Explain that they enjoy playing outside (make her feel guilty) unlike most of the other children nowadays (tap into her ages general ethos). At no point must you get angry or raise your voice. This will only give her ammunition to say nasty things about you and your daughter, and she will feel completely right and justified in giving your daughter a row. I personally would want to throttle her - but you have to live there after today and your daughter might get the brunt of it. She could also be one of those lonely old bats that need to be loved - keep your enemies closer etc lol!



Great advice. As I am calmer now I'm going over there!!! Wish me luck! Will report back!

Shengis;1850771

Why not tell your kids not to make a noise outside her house, or better … Why not tell your kids not to make a noise outside her house, or better yet, why dont you take them to the local park to play. Problem solved.




Agree, fed up of other peoples brats outside my house!
Feel sorry for the old girl :roll:

emmaelise;1850802

I have moved my daughter away and told her not to play there. She really … I have moved my daughter away and told her not to play there. She really scared her though and the language was disgusting. That is what I am cross about. I understand that the rollerblades get a bit much, I dont appreciate her being sworn at. She told me that the neighbour used th "F" word...



Well in that case i'd go knock on the door and tell her nicely that you don't appreciate that sort of language in front of your child. Going over with guns blazing will solve nothing and is more likely to escalate the problem. I remember about 8 years ago one of my neighbours had a problem with me parking outside his house (if that was the only place to park, what am I going to do :?). He asked me a couple of times if I wouldn't mind moving so I did. Then one day he came over 'this is getting beyond a joke blah blah', so I went for him, his wife started and she got a mouthful as well :lol:

v2drinkers;1850808

As a night worker I tend to agree with this.



Aye, most people just don't even think about such things:roll:

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owlass;1850847

Agree, fed up of other peoples brats outside my house!Feel sorry for the … Agree, fed up of other peoples brats outside my house!Feel sorry for the old girl :roll:



Shes not that old.Unless 41 is old?????

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RIGHT!! I have been over there and she was quite shocked I think. I was very calm and said that I did not use that kind of language infornt of my daughter AND I did not appreciate anyone elss doing it. I also told her that she had frightened my little girl and made her cry. (She was quite upset at this) I then politely asked if she would please speak to me if my daughter was getting on her nerves.
She them apologised not only to me, but to my little girl ( who she called over) and said she had had a rotten day and just taken it out on the children.

HOORAH!!!!!!

emmaelise;1850904

Shes not that old.Unless 41 is old?????




You're the one who said she was old, OLD BAT and OLD BAG :thinking:

emmaelise;1850940

RIGHT!! I have been over there and she was quite shocked I think. I was … RIGHT!! I have been over there and she was quite shocked I think. I was very calm and said that I did not use that kind of language infornt of my daughter AND I did not appreciate anyone elss doing it. I also told her that she had frightened my little girl and made her cry. (She was quite upset at this) I then politely asked if she would please speak to me if my daughter was getting on her nerves.She them apologised not only to me, but to my little girl ( who she called over) and said she had had a rotten day and just taken it out on the children.HOORAH!!!!!!



Sorted then. Respect begets respect (mostly):thumbsup:

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v2drinkers;1850808

As a night worker I tend to agree with this.



I do try to keep her out and about most of the time. There is another fella here that works nights and the chidren all try to keep away from disturbing him as he went the right way about it and told the kids what he does for a living and requested that they play away from the house. That is what they do, as much as possible.
Personally I couldnt do a might job, beacuse of the noise!! Fair play to you! And on behalf of all the disturbances. SORRY!!!!!!:thumbsup:

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owlass;1850943

You're the one who said she was old, OLD BAT and OLD BAG :thinking:


Sorry bout that !!! Angry emmaelise! :oops:This site is great for sorting stuff!!!:thumbsup:

emmaelise;1850940

RIGHT!! I have been over there and she was quite shocked I think. I was … RIGHT!! I have been over there and she was quite shocked I think. I was very calm and said that I did not use that kind of language infornt of my daughter AND I did not appreciate anyone elss doing it. I also told her that she had frightened my little girl and made her cry. (She was quite upset at this) I then politely asked if she would please speak to me if my daughter was getting on her nerves.She them apologised not only to me, but to my little girl ( who she called over) and said she had had a rotten day and just taken it out on the children.HOORAH!!!!!!



I'm glad it worked for you :thumbsup:

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bertv6;1850947

good for you.......if i speak to my neighbou or rather when i spoke to my … good for you.......if i speak to my neighbou or rather when i spoke to my neighbour (she darent make eye contact anymore) it didnt go quite as well:oops:Well done for standing your ground and managing to keep your cool:thumbsup:


Thanks for your advice. Feel better now!! Rep given to all!!!!!:thumbsup:

emmaelise;1850940

RIGHT!! I have been over there




mmm, that was quick :roll:

wait until her kid has her music on and then say the same to her, and to the other local people. making sure you say you want quite over the summer and her kids need to stop making noise all hours!!!

So glad you got it sorted out without things escalating, which they could have quite easily!

Well done! :thumbsup:

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owlass;1850974

mmm, that was quick :roll:



What do you mean????

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flippin eck, in 34 minutes you have told the story, repsonded to the replys, been over and sorted it, jeeze can you slow down a little and give us slow ones a chance

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suze;1850999

So glad you got it sorted out without things escalating, which they could … So glad you got it sorted out without things escalating, which they could have quite easily!Well done! :thumbsup:


Thankyou!!!
All without me swearing!!! I feel quite proud of myself !!!

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sassie;1851010

flippin eck, in 34 minutes you have told the story, repsonded to the … flippin eck, in 34 minutes you have told the story, repsonded to the replys, been over and sorted it, jeeze can you slow down a little and give us slow ones a chance



Sorry sassie. I have been steaming on this for about on hour since she started!!!!!

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Play your cards right and you could be on the next series of 'Neighbours from Hell'.

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JDeal;1851027

Play your cards right and you could be on the next series of 'Neighbours … Play your cards right and you could be on the next series of 'Neighbours from Hell'.



If you only knew the half of it.!!!!!!! There is an eviction going on at the moment as we have an alcoholic heroin addict neighbour who has taken to having "relations" up againist the bannister in the hallway with the front door open and the lights on. That is when she is not being carted off in a police car!!!!! OH "everybody needs good neighbours....":whistling:

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I had relations with my bannister once, never again! I should have sanded it first.
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