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    For the Ladies: How do you feel when a guy says "I am sexually attracted to you"!

    I personally find it rude and offensive!

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    When it happens i'll let you know how i feel !

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    your right its rude of him to tell you ,he should just take himself off to the toilet and be done with it!:-D

    Would you prefer it if he said "I find you repulsive"?

    I think its down to the individual but in some ways do you not want to be thought off as sexy :?

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    RFC;6787078

    your right its rude of him to tell you ,he should just take himself off … your right its rude of him to tell you ,he should just take himself off to the toilet and be done with it!:-D



    for the record am not a she!
    martinwallis;6787081

    Would you prefer it if he said "I find you repulsive"?



    Any body can find anybody replusive without actually saying it to their face, but for a guy to find a lady sexually attractive is something else, especially when its coming from a married guy.

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    Why rude and offensive?

    It's honest, if he's being sincere.

    I'll let you in on a little secret though - we're sexually attracted to most people (of the right age and sex).

    Just take it as read in future:thumbsup:

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    mikebike;6787094

    I think its down to the individual but in some ways do you not want to be … I think its down to the individual but in some ways do you not want to be thought off as sexy :?



    Thats what I think too..

    Perhaps if you elaborate more,as to the reason why you asked the question in the first place:?

    i'm sure it would be better just to say i find you attractive or i fancy you!
    I would probably feel a bit embarrassed if someone said that to me

    deb8z;6787075

    When it happens i'll let you know how i feel !



    +1 debz.... +1..... :cry:

    gemmar26;6787276

    i'm sure it would be better just to say i find you attractive or i fancy … i'm sure it would be better just to say i find you attractive or i fancy you!I would probably feel a bit embarrassed if someone said that to me



    yeah i prefer.....

    phwar u iz well fits like innit!:p

    I would be very flattered.

    well if the guy who actually said it was kinda cute, id be well chuffed !!

    Ah really fancy you, so, eh, howz about it???

    FilthAndFurry;6787119

    Why rude and offensive?It's honest, if he's being sincere. I'll let you … Why rude and offensive?It's honest, if he's being sincere. I'll let you in on a little secret though - we're sexually attracted to most people (of the right age and sex).Just take it as read in future:thumbsup:



    Thanks professor. :thinking:

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    Thanks professor. :thinking:



    Intelligence/intuition is not something to denigrate or fear:thumbsup:

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    saayinla;6787113

    for the record am not a she!Any body can find anybody replusive without … for the record am not a she!Any body can find anybody replusive without actually saying it to their face, but for a guy to find a lady sexually attractive is something else, especially when its coming from a married guy.


    lol,just thought your name sounded kind of effeminate!
    anyhows next time one of mowbrays minions approaches
    , you just tell him you are a rangers fan and he will leave you in peace!!!:w00t:

    what sort of creeper actually says " I am sexually attracted to you"

    very very wierd

    FilthAndFurry;6787821

    Intelligence/intuition is not something to denigrate or fear:thumbsup:



    Well, that said, there's definitely nothing to fear when you comment then.
    :thumbsup:

    Original Poster

    deb8z;6787164

    Perhaps if you elaborate more,as to the reason why you asked the question … Perhaps if you elaborate more,as to the reason why you asked the question in the first place:?



    I have a work colleague (lady) who was told by another colleague that he is sexually attracted to her!

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    boothy;6787867

    what sort of creeper actually says " I am sexually attracted to you"very … what sort of creeper actually says " I am sexually attracted to you"very very wierd



    when you think about it you are right,only one way to solve it is with a severe kick to the b£$$s.
    wont look so creepy then.:-D

    It seems i might of made a mistake saying "hun" a few times - ]http//ww…e=2 but i don't think i'd ever say that to a girl.
    I'd have to know her pretty well before i said anything like that and as has been said it'd probably be something like, you are gorgeous/fit/pretty (and i'd probably have to be drunk) although not sure if thats any better lol :oops:

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    RFC;6787842

    lol,just thought your name sounded kind of effeminate!anyhows next time … lol,just thought your name sounded kind of effeminate!anyhows next time one of mowbrays minions approaches, you just tell him you are a rangers fan and he will leave you in peace!!!:w00t:



    lol, I know people have always called me a she due to my username!:-D

    saayinla;6787882

    I have a work colleague (lady) who was told by another colleague that he … I have a work colleague (lady) who was told by another colleague that he is sexually attracted to her!



    inappropriate imo and weird/sad could he just have not just asked her out on a date like normal people would

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    saayinla;6787882

    I have a work colleague (lady) who was told by another colleague that he … I have a work colleague (lady) who was told by another colleague that he is sexually attracted to her!


    you keep ommiting the other persons sex,was she a lady too?

    if so iam working in the wrong place!:-D

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    saayinla;6787882

    I have a work colleague (lady) who was told by another colleague that he … I have a work colleague (lady) who was told by another colleague that he is sexually attracted to her!



    You have to appreciate the honesty.:thumbsup:

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    Well, that said, there's definitely nothing to fear when you comment … Well, that said, there's definitely nothing to fear when you comment then.:thumbsup:



    That's exactly what I was saying. Glad to see you're over it:thumbsup:

    saayinla;6787882

    I have a work colleague (lady) who was told by another colleague that he … I have a work colleague (lady) who was told by another colleague that he is sexually attracted to her!



    Guess what he wants from her.............lol

    Personally I'd say it was totally inappropriate from a work colleague, ruins all that " fun at the pub after work" thang

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    My mum came home drunk one time from a teachers meeting and told me my tutor/french teacher had the hots for me. I was 15 .

    Banned

    lumoruk;6788966

    My mum came home drunk one time from a teachers meeting and told me my … My mum came home drunk one time from a teachers meeting and told me my tutor/french teacher had the hots for me. I was 15 .



    is this another 1 of them fantasy threads

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    casparwhite;6789000

    is this another 1 of them fantasy threads



    no? It was at the end of term party when I moved up into 6th form and she was leaving that term.

    I just said "erm okay, night mum"

    i hope youre not going to get advice and then say it to every lady you meet

    If it was a guy that's 30 Stone, bading hair, geeky glasses, face full of spots and a porn magazine sticking out the top of his bag, then you should knee to the nuts

    I think it depends who says it to you... if it's you current other half, then that's ok at least you know they still fancy you... but if it's some random off the street and they look like John mccririck then yeah that's offensive lol

    Original Poster

    jasonrat;6789032

    i hope youre not going to get advice and then say it to every lady you … i hope youre not going to get advice and then say it to every lady you meet



    Who you refering to?
    DarkKnight;6789050

    If it was a guy that's 30 Stone, bading hair, geeky glasses, face full of … If it was a guy that's 30 Stone, bading hair, geeky glasses, face full of spots and a porn magazine sticking out the top of his bag, then you should knee to the nuts



    Actually the guy's in early 40s lady about 30ish.. and he's well know for ....... anything in Skirts!

    boothy;6787867

    what sort of creeper actually says " I am sexually attracted to you"very … what sort of creeper actually says " I am sexually attracted to you"very very wierd


    sort that uses hun? :?:p

    lumoruk;6788966

    My mum came home drunk one time from a teachers meeting and told me my … My mum came home drunk one time from a teachers meeting and told me my tutor/french teacher had the hots for me. I was 15 .



    was she fit?

    boothy;6787867

    what sort of creeper actually says " I am sexually attracted to you"very … what sort of creeper actually says " I am sexually attracted to you"very very wierd



    Spot on :thumbsup:

    I think I would laugh or say " Oh what a coincidence, I am repulsed by you"

    magicbeans;6789727

    was she fit?



    His mum or the teacher?? :w00t:

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    deb8z;6787164

    Perhaps if you elaborate more,as to the reason why you asked the question … Perhaps if you elaborate more,as to the reason why you asked the question in the first place:?



    no no no no no!

    please dont

    boothy;6787914

    inappropriate imo and weird/sad could he just have not just asked her … inappropriate imo and weird/sad could he just have not just asked her out on a date like normal people would



    but he didnt want a 'date' - he wanted sex, probably married ;-)
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