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    So me and my GF have had a problem, she cheated on me when she was drunk Anyway she come to my house today to apolgoise. She goes to me "I never want to give you up, Never gonna tell a lie and hurt you" again and it was a mistake and wont happen again.

    All i told her was "I just wanna tell you how I'm feeling", because I was pissed, I told her "I gotta make you understand". Blah blah blah more crap was spoken....


    I told her to **** off and go home, she ended it with "Never gonna make you cry,Never gonna say goodbye", WTF (i think she was still hungover)

    WTF Should I do...

    101 Comments

    I'll be honest,get rid of her 4 cheating,thats what I would do.

    broom her

    tell her to stop lisning to rick astley songs

    Once a cheat always a cheat.. As they say. I've made too many mistakes taking back cheaters, and they've ended up doing it again. The old "I was drunk" line never works for me anymore

    Original Poster

    but Are you AWEAR?

    raptorcigs;1751603

    tell her to stop lisning to rick astley songs



    lol

    Banned

    I think if the singing was reasonably good, get her a record contract.

    leapords NEVER change their spots..been there done that. Wont ever let myself be in that situation again...ditch her in my oppinion.
    Anyway she wasnt the only one quoting lyrics...you were too...hmmm cant make up my mind if your serious or not.

    Get back together with her, then do the same to her! :whistling:

    Banned

    do what you feel is right for you, nobody can tell you, only you know the way to go with this one. I know personally i couldnt get over it, i may forgive but i know i would never let it go, so for me no matter how hard i would have to move on without them.

    How long was you in a relationship with this woman?

    NOOOOO, silly, pretend its all ok, then wat u do is u take rudey pics n vids of her, post them on the internet then dump her, ul have more fun like this trust me

    tell her you have just found out that you have galloping knob rot and watch her face

    Once the trust is gone, the relationship's over.

    raptorcigs;1751603

    tell her to stop lisning to rick astley songs



    Agreed :lol:

    From personal experience I can safely say actions speak louder than words. If she really cared she wouldnt of cheated, end of! Save your loving for someone who will cherish it. You'll never be able to trust her again anyways so save yourself worry.

    Original Poster

    So I should record her? I woudnt to that, shes too much of a good friend. Im just confused at the moment.

    Im no stranger to love, I just want to tell you how im felling (because im really angry)!

    Tell her "goodbye" or

    you know the rules and so do I. A full commitment's what I'm thinking of


    Only you know what's right for you.

    Banned

    raptorcigs;1751658

    tell her you have just found out that you have galloping knob rot and … tell her you have just found out that you have galloping knob rot and watch her face



    Do you get that by having sexual intercourse with horses? Should I be worried?

    if you want ill jump up and down on her car until it disapeares like this

    humyo.com/F/4…769

    just a roof rack left

    JDeal;1751692

    Do you get that by having sexual intercourse with horses? Should I be … Do you get that by having sexual intercourse with horses? Should I be worried?



    only if you love horses
    is foreplay with horses called horse play?

    or u say to her gud ahem last nite, n wen she goes it wasnt me, say it was u, she lukd well like u, say u got drunk, n then she thinks u cheated aswell, b funny, and then dump her

    Banned

    kamy187;1751703

    or u say to her gud ahem last nite, n wen she goes it wasnt me, say it … or u say to her gud ahem last nite, n wen she goes it wasnt me, say it was u, she lukd well like u, say u got drunk, n then she thinks u cheated aswell, b funny, and then dump her



    Should he say that as it's written, such as in a different language?

    JDeal

    mayb u shud get with the times old timer, its kalled text language

    lol @ Harvie -
    very good...

    once they cheat dont take them back, she will do it again, get rid. find someone new

    JDeal;1751704

    Should he say that as it's written, such as in a different language?



    this is a new language called text believe it or not (i dont work for ripleys neather)

    While on subject of cheating here's from an email I had other day,its called a Mastercard Wedding.

    You got to love this guy... This is a true story about a recent
    wedding that took place at Clemson University . It was in the local newspaper and even
    Jay Leno mentioned it.

    It was a huge wedding with about 300 guests.





    After the wedding, at the reception, the groom got up on stage with a microphone to talk to the crowd.
    He said he wanted to thank
    everyone for coming, many from
    long distances, to support them
    at their wedding.

    He especially wanted to thank the bride's and his family and to thank
    his new father-in-law for providing such a lavish reception.

    As a token of his deep appreciation
    he said he wanted to give everyone
    a special gift just from him.

    So taped to the bottom of
    everyone's chair, including the wedding party was an envelope.

    He said this was his gift to
    everyone, and asked them to
    open their envelope.

    Inside each manila envelope was an 8x10 glossy of his bride having sex with the best man.

    The groom had gotten suspicious
    of them weeks earlier and had
    hired a private detective to tail
    them.
    for a couple of minutes, he
    turned to the best man and
    said, 'F---you!' Then he turned
    to his bride and said, 'F--- you!'

    Then he turned to the
    dumbfounded crowd and said,
    'I'm outta here.'

    He had the marriage annulled
    first thing in the morning.
    While most people would have canceled the wedding
    immediately after finding out
    about the affair, this
    guy goes through with the
    charade, as if nothing were wrong.

    His revenge--making the bride's parents pay over $32,000 for a
    300-guest wedding and reception, and best of all, trashing the
    bride's and best man's reputations
    in front of 300 friends and family members.

    This guy has b.... the size of
    church bells. ( I edited that part out )

    Do you think we might get a MasterCard 'priceless'
    commercial out of this?

    Elegant wedding reception
    for 300 family members and
    friends: $32,000.

    Wedding photographs commemorating the
    Occasion: $3,000

    Deluxe two-week
    honeymoon accommodations
    in Maui : $8,500.

    The look on everyone's face
    when they see the 8x10 glossy
    of the bride humping the best
    man: Priceless.

    There are some things money
    can't buy, for everything else
    there's MASTERCARD

    What was the nature of the cheating?

    A drunken snog type 'cheat' or a 'going the whole way rumpy pumpy' cheat?

    The first type of 'cheat',whilst hurtful can ge gotten over,I'm sure,especially if you have enough feelings for one another.The latter will take a lot more work,it all boils down to whether you can forgive her indescretion and move on.Be honest with yourselves about your relationship,how serious are your feelings for one another,was there any reason as to why she cheated on you in the first place?

    Never discuss things when drunk,it never solves anything,have an honest discussion when sober and evaluate where you go from here on in,and indeed whether it is worth it to do so.

    Good luck whatever course you take.:)

    Original Poster

    "We've know each other for so long,heart's my been aching ever since, But I'm too shy to say it" to her.

    my life feels like its falling apart.

    harvie316;1751766

    "We've know each other for so long,heart's my been aching ever since, … "We've know each other for so long,heart's my been aching ever since, But I'm too shy to say it" to her.my life feels like its falling apart.



    No need to feel ashamed. Release the pain. Cry for help.:whistling:

    Well my OH has up and moved out tonight so you are in good company. Slight difference may be though that i have 3 kids and 2 of em are under 2

    how far did she go?

    how old is she? to make a coment like that makes her sound about 16

    Dump her & move on or
    Forgive her & give her another chance ......................... she's only human
    (make her suffer a bit first though)

    Mum2conor&cerys nice story

    Original Poster

    dmissy13;1751800

    how far did she go?how old is she? to make a coment like that makes her … how far did she go?how old is she? to make a coment like that makes her sound about 16



    were both in our early 20. I feel like ****, wow love for you i suppose

    pinkkitty2007;1751796

    Well my OH has up and moved out tonight so you are in good company. … Well my OH has up and moved out tonight so you are in good company. Slight difference may be though that i have 3 kids and 2 of em are under 2



    I've been there, it gets easier, and no relationship is 100 times better than a ***** one. PM me if you need someone anonymous to talk to xxx

    harvie316;1751766

    "We've know each other for so long,heart's my been aching ever since, … "We've know each other for so long,heart's my been aching ever since, But I'm too shy to say it" to her.my life feels like its falling apart.



    these are all pop lyrics ARNT THEY!

    It sounds like you really love her so i wouldn't blame you for giving it another go but not if he went all they way so to speek.

    Shengis;1751795

    No need to feel ashamed. Release the pain. Cry for help.:whistling:


    Ignore my previous advice(what a load of twaddle it was!)

    She needs to be told .........

    "I don't believe that you need me
    So don't say you do
    There ain't no reason for staying
    we both know we're through

    So don't try and stop me now
    'Cos all we had has gone "

    Cheers,Shengis!;-)
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