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    have i got the wrong day? its friday the 12th isnt it?

    I think it should be the 13th in my case,lost control of the car this morning down a country lane and ended up stuffing it into a barbed wire fence and bramble bushes,scared me so much that a guy who stopped to help me opened the car door and asked me if i was ok i went to speak but nothing came out,police turned up and made me call a friend to escort me home as i was shaking so much,seems ive buggered the steering by hitting the verge and going up the bank and into the fence as it feels like a tank to steer now

    friend bought me home and i find the kitchen floor is flooded,washing machine only a few weeks old and to top it all hubbys rung me and told me he will be working away all of next week too

    although the police and the driver who stopped wanted to call an ambulance i didnt want any fuss i just wanted to have a fag and get home but now my shoulder is killin and it hurts to move my arm so somethings not right there and i guess it would be best now to get it looked at but if its whiplash they dont really do anything do they?

    i just wanna go back to bed

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    tuff luck mate. Hope all goes well with you

    Oh dear! what can i say?

    Well they do say things come in 3's so looking at that all too important silver lining, nothing more should go wrong, surely....

    chin up hun

    Need to get yourself looked at just to make sure. Hope the day gets better for you soon x

    sorry to hear this! maybe you can go to your GP and get the arm checked out? or A&E walk in centre?

    These things always happen together. Have a hot drink, then get someone to take you to a drop in clinic or hospital to be checked over. Anyone around to call the insurance company about your new washer for you ? Make sure you tell them you plan on claiming for the damage to your kitchen as well!
    :friends:

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    kidcat;3739417

    These things always happen together. Have a hot drink, then get someone … These things always happen together. Have a hot drink, then get someone to take you to a drop in clinic or hospital to be checked over. Anyone around to call the insurance company about your new washer for you ? Make sure you tell them you plan on claiming for the damage to your kitchen as well!:friends:

    just gone down to start the other car up as its been sat all week and the immobiliser fob isnt working ffs:x anymore for me today? gotta laff cos im about to cry lol

    please rate ur life out of 1-10 for us.

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    and i wonder why my nickname is jinx

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    acecatcher3;3739460

    please rate ur life out of 1-10 for us.

    this year on a scale of 1-10 buddy zero its been the crappest year of my life

    When you go to the garage, ask them to check your car over for any signs of foul play. With all the problems you've been having i wouldn't rule out sabotage just yet.

    acecatcher3;3739460

    please rate ur life out of 1-10 for us.



    :lol:

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    acecatcher3;3739460

    please rate ur life out of 1-10 for us.



    Ace why do you alway's take the mickey out of people with problem's?

    mardy, id seriously consider leaving ur area, its got to a point where i see that uve created a thread and i think "omg whats happened now" all of ur troubles seem to b centered to where u live, maybe u and ur hubby shud have a discussion about ur options.

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    peodude;3739482

    When you go to the garage, ask them to check your car over for any signs … When you go to the garage, ask them to check your car over for any signs of foul play. With all the problems you've been having i wouldn't rule out sabotage just yet.

    i dont think its anything to do with the car,police said it was black ice and it was raining but it was turning to ice as it hit the windscreen,luckily i was only doing about 30 when it spun and someone was watching over me as no cars were coming so i should count my lucky stars really

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    acecatcher3;3739512

    mardy, id seriously consider leaving ur area, its got to a point where i … mardy, id seriously consider leaving ur area, its got to a point where i see that uve created a thread and i think "omg whats happened now" all of ur troubles seem to b centered to where u live, maybe u and ur hubby shud have a discussion about ur options.

    we have ace but financially we cant afford to move at the moment although we have looked at 2 other propertys recently,one far too small for our needs and the other way out of the way,if we take the plumge im pretty sure we would end up in serious debt we couldnt afford to pay off

    DLM;3739502

    Ace why do you alway's take the mickey out of people with problem's?



    im a mickey taker, ppl take the mick out of me ill return, ive joked with mardy before and ive given her my advice and offered to come to her area also...


    ....i gave u advice also dlm....to stop posting on here and go get a job...im sorry im not one of those ppl who say "aww dont worry dlm ive missed u...glad to see u posting on hukd" i think ur better off not posting and sorting out ur life, we both know that the best thing u cud do with urself right now is get stability and get a job....u dont have to listen to me....u can even send me pms whenever u want and swear at me if it makes u feel better, i wont report u....my time on here is now limited to lunchtime when i can get on so dont worry about it.

    anyway what do i know...im only 19.....teenagers these days think they know everything etc etc

    acecatcher3;3739573

    im a mickey taker, ppl take the mick out of me ill return, ive joked with … im a mickey taker, ppl take the mick out of me ill return, ive joked with mardy before and ive given her my advice and offered to come to her area also.......i gave u advice also dlm....to stop posting on here and go get a job...im sorry im not one of those ppl who say "aww dont worry dlm ive missed u...glad to see u posting on hukd" i think ur better off not posting and sorting out ur life, we both know that the best thing u cud do with urself right now is get stability and get a job....u dont have to listen to me....u can even send me pms whenever u want and swear at me if it makes u feel better, i wont report u....my time on here is now limited to lunchtime when i can get on so dont worry about it.anyway what do i know...im only 19.....teenagers these days think they know everything etc etc



    Dont sugar coat it will you ace? tell it how it is

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    acecatcher3;3739573

    im a mickey taker, ppl take the mick out of me ill return, ive joked with … im a mickey taker, ppl take the mick out of me ill return, ive joked with mardy before and ive given her my advice and offered to come to her area also.......i gave u advice also dlm....to stop posting on here and go get a job...im sorry im not one of those ppl who say "aww dont worry dlm ive missed u...glad to see u posting on hukd" i think ur better off not posting and sorting out ur life, we both know that the best thing u cud do with urself right now is get stability and get a job....u dont have to listen to me....u can even send me pms whenever u want and swear at me if it makes u feel better, i wont report u....my time on here is now limited to lunchtime when i can get on so dont worry about it.anyway what do i know...im only 19.....teenagers these days think they know everything etc etc



    It just feels like you are having a go sometimes.

    I am doing what I can to get back into work.

    I have been very ill and so are a lot of other people that come on here.

    People come on here for support mostly.

    Not everyone has it easy.

    DLM;3739609

    People come on here for support mostly..



    Actually they come on here to find the best place to waste their money:thumbsup:

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    Shengis;3739638

    Actually they come on here to find the best place to waste their … Actually they come on here to find the best place to waste their money:thumbsup:



    That too but I have none, so I come on to pass the time.

    DLM;3739609

    It just feels like you are having a go sometimes.I am doing what I can to … It just feels like you are having a go sometimes.I am doing what I can to get back into work.I have been very ill and so are a lot of other people that come on here.People come on here for support mostly.Not everyone has it easy.



    o right, didnt know this was a nhs forum, thought it was a deals site...my bad, as minstrel said, i wont sugar coat anything, i dont mean to offend anyone and i hope mardy wasnt offended, but yeah, as uve not had a job for like 9 months...maybe i feel the softly softly approach isnt warranted.

    Aww sorry to hear about your bad luck. Managed to mess my car up last night! Kind of moved into a lane when there was a car there, oops :-s

    Oh well, guess that's what insurance is for. Atleast it's the weekend.

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    acecatcher3;3739678

    o right, didnt know this was a nhs forum, thought it was a deals … o right, didnt know this was a nhs forum, thought it was a deals site...my bad, as minstrel said, i wont sugar coat anything, i dont mean to offend anyone and i hope mardy wasnt offended, but yeah, as uve not had a job for like 9 months...maybe i feel the softly softly approach isnt warranted.



    Whether I have worked or not is nobody's business but mine and my partner's.

    DLM;3739735

    Whether I have worked or not is nobody's business but mine and my … Whether I have worked or not is nobody's business but mine and my partner's.



    agreed, so stop posting everywhere u go with

    "omg i have no money...i have no job" etc etc

    practice what u preach and keep it to urself

    anyway im out of here bye, good luck job hunting.

    I miss him ^^^

    DLM;3739656

    That too but I have none, so I come on to pass the time.



    I generally just come on here to pass the time as well. Serious question though. Doesn't it make you feel worse coming on a site full of consumer items you know you can't have?

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    Shengis;3739862

    I generally just come on here to pass the time as well. Serious question … I generally just come on here to pass the time as well. Serious question though. Doesn't it make you feel worse coming on a site full of consumer items you know you can't have?



    Not really, I know a lot of people on here are good and supportive.

    I have had a lot of difficultie's over the last few year's caring for my grandmother etc...

    I have a great partner and have a home that is all that matter's.

    I just find sometime's that all that kicking you when you are down behaviour, hard to understand.

    Hasn't been your lucky year has it ? !!!!!
    Hope 2009 will be a lucky one for you :thumbsup:

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    snowtiger;3739906

    Hasn't been your lucky year has it ? !!!!! Hope 2009 will be a lucky one … Hasn't been your lucky year has it ? !!!!! Hope 2009 will be a lucky one for you :thumbsup:



    People like you ST make this site great.

    I know I am not perfect but it is hard for people sometime's dealing with life's obstacles.

    MinstrelMan;3739831

    I miss him ^^^



    I don't...he's a knob.

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    Rep to Modoc x x

    haha ive repped him too dlm, nice remove of comment, brb collecting my monthly payslip.....bye xx

    Sorry to hear about your day Mardyass, hope it gets better for you :hugs:

    at some time or other everyones life can turn to ****.......but take it from me the only person who can turn it around is yourself. Life is what you make it.........self pity and constant whingeing gets you nowhere in this life, and at the end of the day you only have the one crack at it..........make the ******* count

    edit: not aimed at anyone specific

    jellybaby22;3740199

    Thats the kind of advice my mum gives me...just what I need … Thats the kind of advice my mum gives me...just what I need occassionally.....:ptoo true..its easy to sit feeling sorry for yourself all day......



    gets you nowhere.....except further down x

    Sorry to hear of all your bad luck today.
    I think you should spend the rest of the day in bed with the door shut and the covers pulled up over you face

    Hope tomorrows better. It would be hard for it to be worse. ;-)
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