Found 31st May 2008
I am really depressed, i hate talking to the people around me about it because i hate sympathy and pity, i just want help

i shared an amazing night with a girl yesterday and really think i have fallen for her, she has had really bad possessive relationships and doesnt want one at the moment. I think she feels same as i do but it's killing me knowing i am not going to get her how i want

thanks

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Original Poster Banned

she bases how it will be with on other guys, .. i have been down before but never like this

give her time hun and in this time try and show you are different from other people she has been with

Sounds like she wants to play the field, your better off keeping out of it.

If you had an amazing night, why are you down?

There are many women out there...

You have managed to have an amazing night with a woman who didn't want one...

So now you have proved to yourself that anything is possible...

Be happy and make sure you walk around with a smile...

Women love to see a man with a smile...

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Sorry to hear that you are down, we all go through it.

Hope you are feeling better soon, I know it is corny but the 1 will turn up soon.

You seem nice enough:friends:

get her number see if she txts you go from there dont push it make out your cool about it

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csamual;2213639

get her number see if she txts you go from there dont push it make out … get her number see if she txts you go from there dont push it make out your cool about it



I like a man with a bit of mystery, play a bit of catch the girl, kiss the girl:-D

Keep in touch with her, don't push and just give her time and be yourself.:friends:

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suze;2213650

Keep in touch with her, don't push and just give her time and be … Keep in touch with her, don't push and just give her time and be yourself.:friends:



You seem a lovely person suze, you make some lovely comments on here:thumbsup:

You are a breath of fresh air:friends:

Tell her how you feel about her - that gets your potential relationship get off to an honest start.

Take time to think carefully what you want out of the relationship and tell her that too. Then she'll choose to accept you or not.

Respect that choice.

If she is living in a world of comparison, you don't want to be involved and there are other fantastic women around.

If she lives in a world of possibility, however, she will recognise your different qualities and respect your honesty, a strong basis for a solid relationship.

Either way you win because you've been true to yourself and her.

Best of luck.

Original Poster Banned

Thanks guys ... i will try and keep my chin up, Thank you again

Not only girl trouble but Celtic also won the SPL! Feel bad for you...

Just go out with her as friends with no commitment and don't push it.
On the other hand, harsh as it is, she may have seen the cold light of day and realises she doesn't fancy you and is trying to gently let you down.
Only you can be the judge of that.

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warmapplepie;2213728

Just go out with her as firends with no commitment and don't push it.On … Just go out with her as firends with no commitment and don't push it.On the other hand, harsh as it is, she may have seen the cold light of day and realises she doesn't fancy you and is trying to gently let you down.Only you can be the judge of that.



I agree with you, if she has said to you herself that she is not ready for a relationship, she may just be letting you down gently. I have used that line many times. She may just enjoy your friendship.

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Prissymiss;2213759

I agree with you, if she has said to you herself that she is not ready … I agree with you, if she has said to you herself that she is not ready for a relationship, she may just be letting you down gently. I have used that line many times. She may just enjoy your friendship.



Friendship with a man, can you do that without s******g the a**e off them:oops:

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jellybaby22;2213772

lets not start up that debate this morning...thought you wanted no more … lets not start up that debate this morning...thought you wanted no more bitching :whistling:



Sorry, i must hold back:oops:

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jellybaby22;2213782

yes..hold yourself back woman.....you just cant resist temptation can you … yes..hold yourself back woman.....you just cant resist temptation can you ?:-D



No, i am such a bad girl:oops:

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warmapplepie;2213728

Just go out with her as firends with no commitment and don't push it.On … Just go out with her as firends with no commitment and don't push it.On the other hand, harsh as it is, she may have seen the cold light of day and realises she doesn't fancy you and is trying to gently let you down.Only you can be the judge of that.



Yeh , i know that isn't the case... i have been in shoodyrelationships before! I think shes been hurt many times before

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DLM;2213771

Friendship with a man, can you do that without s******g the a**e off … Friendship with a man, can you do that without s******g the a**e off them:oops:



If they are ugly and not rich then yes:w00t:

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addywin;2213793

Yeh , i know that isn't the case... i have been in shoodyrelationships … Yeh , i know that isn't the case... i have been in shoodyrelationships before! I think shes been hurt many times before



Haven't we all, I could tell you about all the kick's in the teeth, i have had but i would probably end up depressed:cry:

why are you feeling sad because you have fallen in love, this should be a wonderful feeling and you should embrace your feelings and you should be walking around all day with a coathanger in your mouth. as for this girl she must be something really special,:roll::-D so be friends for now put yourself in her shoes and understand how she must be feeling. be there for her as a friend give her a cuddle when she want one and soon she will see how wonderful you really are and she will fall for you

send her flowers - be romantic then wait............

Bluerinse;2213716

Not only girl trouble but Celtic also won the SPL! Feel bad for you...




............. :lol: :lol:

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early days mate, take each day as it comes:thumbsup:
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