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HELP!!! Problems with a stalker

Found 19th Oct 2009
Been going on for a while now but has intensified over the last week or so.

They cannot accept I do not want a relationship with them and its getting worse.

Apart from going to the cops does anyone have any advice that may help me?

I will check back for replies later,I am just securing my property at the moment.

Thanks

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take 'em out

move house and hide your bunny

zeus9876;6620489

take 'em out



He's trying to avoid that. Shouldn't be taking them to dinner.:?

zeus9876;6620489

take 'em out



on a date or physically?

OP, are they male or female?

hukd'er or a normal person

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Apart from going to the cops does anyone have any advice that may help me?



Agree to meet, then beat the crap out of them. Seems fair. :thumbsup:

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you bloody wish

Watch the film obsessed, then call the police!

Can understand if its an EX, but you said "THEM" does that mean more than one person!!!!............... What have you been doing to THEM??...........:w00t:

I had a stalker for sometime, I had to call the police in the end when he started buying my son gifts and watching me through my windows at night. It was not his first time and an order was put in place to keep away from me. It did work.

Original Poster

I have never had a relationship with this person

ok boothy ill discontinue this...i was hoping something would materialize...you know we would work!


On a serious note...the police probably wont do much anyways, although having it filed before anything else might happen is always a good idea.
Personally, if 'them' dont get the idea after being told then maybe a little force ie straight talking maybe even a bit of aggression in the voice saying your never like them!
If still no luck then maybe get a female friend to 'appear' on the scene.

Hope you get it sorted mate.

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I think getting the police would be a great idea, and there are several departments that can help when people are trying to make your life a misery, one dept is the dog section :thumbsup:.. they have some nice friendly animals who can help catching this sort of vermin:-D

If you need any more advise always happy to help :-D

awoodhall2003;6620554

ok boothy ill discontinue this...i was hoping something would … ok boothy ill discontinue this...i was hoping something would materialize...you know we would work!On a serious note...the police probably wont do much anyways, although having it filed before anything else might happen is always a good idea.Personally, if 'them' dont get the idea after being told then maybe a little force ie straight talking maybe even a bit of aggression in the voice saying your never like them!If still no luck then maybe get a female friend to 'appear' on the scene.Hope you get it sorted mate.



I can't believe you trying it on with another person:oops:

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awoodhall2003;6620554

ok boothy ill discontinue this...i was hoping something would … ok boothy ill discontinue this...i was hoping something would materialize...you know we would work!On a serious note...the police probably wont do much anyways, although having it filed before anything else might happen is always a good idea.Personally, if 'them' dont get the idea after being told then maybe a little force ie straight talking maybe even a bit of aggression in the voice saying your never like them!If still no luck then maybe get a female friend to 'appear' on the scene.Hope you get it sorted mate.



Na if they are nutty will just make them worse, police deffo.

[quote=muckyangel;6620542] he started buying my son gifts and watching me through my windows at night. quote]
Anyone looking through my window is scary!!!! .......let alone a stalker!!!!......:w00t:

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The other issue as well if they are pm ing you that's harassment and I am sure the authorities would take a very dim view of some mad cow or mad bloke pm`ing you

Adam2050;6620564

I can't believe you trying it on with another person:oops:


sorry adam...but i told you it was over, you just are not the same person you were last year you think your all cool and hip now, i cant be dealing with that atm!
tinkerbell28;6620572

Na if they are nutty will just make them worse, police deffo.


might be the case, but if you've already filed it with the police then its worth a more subtle approach first surely? If they are nutty then fine another call to the police and theyve already got a record of it.

Tell them to get lost and that if they appear again you will call the police.
If they come back report them.

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make sure you keep all correspondence...

greg_68;6620496

on a date or physically?OP, are they male or female?hukd'er or a normal … on a date or physically?OP, are they male or female?hukd'er or a normal person



are you impyling that HUKD'ers arent normal? exception being jfk

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Thanks for the support guys.:thumbsup:

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boothy;6620652

Thanks for the support guys.:thumbsup:



when its a real issue that a respected poster has we all pull together, :thumbsup:....







unlike some of the dross that's posted

Do you work with this person? Most companies have policies against this kind of thing....

I recommend you ask BG1 or JFK, they seem to have their fair share of stalkers... the lengths some people go to to get a picture of BG1 on the set of lost is incredible...

Come on then...spill...wot's happened so far??? Is it someone on here or not??

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hannah19790;6620749

Come on then...spill...wot's happened so far??? Is it someone on here or … Come on then...spill...wot's happened so far??? Is it someone on here or not??



The Op is asking for advice and by him not discussing who or where they live is a sensible way to approach a very difficult issue.

Perhaps you may have some input as to how he might rid himself of the pest/stalker :thumbsup:

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dog_cop;6620813

The Op is asking for advice and by him not discussing who or where they … The Op is asking for advice and by him not discussing who or where they live is a sensible way to approach a very difficult issue. Perhaps you may have some input as to how he might rid himself of the pest/stalker :thumbsup:



Well I'm not asking for name, telephone number and address...just wanna know, roughly what's happened to make him think he's got a stalker and whether it's online or not! :thumbsup:

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hannah19790;6620862

Well I'm not asking for name, telephone number and address...just wanna … Well I'm not asking for name, telephone number and address...just wanna know, roughly what's happened to make him think he's got a stalker and whether it's online or not! :thumbsup:



The thing is Hannah as most people will be aware I am quite a shy sensitive type,I would not want to hurt this persons feelings too much.

It started online and I tried to ignore it.

Now I am pretty sure(but not 100%) that I saw them watching me from a farmyard when I was walking a mates dog the other day and am getting worried.

boothy;6620922

The thing is Hannah as most people will be aware I am quite a shy … The thing is Hannah as most people will be aware I am quite a shy sensitive type,I would not want to hurt this persons feelings too much.It started online and I tried to ignore it.Now I am pretty sure(but not 100%) that I saw them watching me from a farmyard when I was walking a mates dog the other day and am getting worried.



Hmm....I would definitely do something about it then hun....just make a statement... just so they police are aware of it. Have you spoken to this person yet?? Do they live local or have they had to travel to get to you?

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boothy;6620922

The thing is Hannah as most people will be aware I am quite a shy … The thing is Hannah as most people will be aware I am quite a shy sensitive type,I would not want to hurt this persons feelings too much.It started online and I tried to ignore it.Now I am pretty sure(but not 100%) that I saw them watching me from a farmyard when I was walking a mates dog the other day and am getting worried.



lmfao, what ya like :w00t:

Original Poster

Thanks for all the good advice everyone


Expiring thread now

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boothy;6620922

The thing is Hannah as most people will be aware I am quite a shy … The thing is Hannah as most people will be aware I am quite a shy sensitive type,I would not want to hurt this persons feelings too much.It started online and I tried to ignore it.Now I am pretty sure(but not 100%) that I saw them watching me from a farmyard when I was walking a mates dog the other day and am getting worried.



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