Found 29th May 2010
i used to go out with this guy, we never really split up he moved away and it kind of sort of just went dead the realtionship as we couldnt see much of each other, but i was supposed to be moving up there and so on. a couple of year later we contact each other and he has a new gf. only thing is he being all nice to me ect wanting to come round ect ect n could go on and on about all the things he wants. but he still with his gf!!!! so i says are you happy with her and he said yeah, but can they be as happy as he making out if he saying all this stuff to me about maybe you never know what the future brings about us getting back together ect.

so what sort of txt can i send as he assured me she dont read his messages as he has a pin!!!
the txt i want him to get back with me but what can i write thats soooooooo soppy ect

156 Comments

dont text - dont get involved - will all end in tears

The answer is this, he wants to pump you and thats it. Hes never gonna dump her.

makershaker;8722114

The answer is this, he wants to pump you and thats it. Hes never gonna … The answer is this, he wants to pump you and thats it. Hes never gonna dump her.



blunt yeah - but spot on

/thread

The term 'have his cake and eat it' comes to mind. Don't do it as if you do get back with him, what's to say he won't text others behind your back. The fact he is being sneaky with his pin says it all. The man is just after fun and he's just playing you...I've been there and it ends in heartache :cry:

Original Poster

no but seriously hes not like that, honestly

sarahjane1988;8722131

no but seriously hes not like that, honestly



lol, we all are

does his actions not speak for themselves?? He's texting behind her back!!!

bossyboots;8722108

dont text - dont get involved - will all end in tears



I agree with BB, its going to end up in one big mess & by the sounds of it only after one thing !!!

sarahjane1988;8722131

no but seriously hes not like that, honestly



of course not.

Best term for him is a player, been there done that

makershaker;8722114

The answer is this, he wants to pump you and thats it. Hes never gonna … The answer is this, he wants to pump you and thats it. Hes never gonna dump her.



sarahjane1988;8722131

no but seriously hes not like that, honestly



makershaker;8722137

lol, we all are



lol, you cant be more honest then that.

wind up thread.

he assured me she dont read his messages as he has a pin

I think he has now shown his true colours - untrustworthy. Gives us a bad name to us nice guys

oh dear
if he really wanted to get back with you he would finish with his gf.
maybe u r hanging on to who he used to be, or what yous used to have together.
you both will have changed in some way.
think how you would feel if you were the gf.
and to me if he has a pin on his phone, it says to me he needs to hide something......and hes admiting to u that hes gonna see you and hide it from her.
i cant say not to.......but i say be prepared cos he will hurt u.

Banned

Just do him.

Your a woman, its your duty to do as your man asks.

sarahjane1988;8722131

no but seriously hes not like that, honestly



every guy will do that :lol: im a very relationshippy type of guy, but i times i will ******** an ex for a ****, its all hes doing

he just wants a **** buddy cos he probably isnt getting enough sex from gf, i think its your feelings that'll get hurt at the end of it, not worth it IMO....

Och one night in bed with the guy wont do you any harm. It'll be good to catch up

Does anything we say make any difference anyway? You're gonna text him cos you have rose tinted glasses on! Otherwise you wouldn't have asked and are just looking for someone to say yes so that will justify it! Next thread will be that you met him, ended up in bed with him then he hasn't called for a few days....were you used? I'll answer that now for you....YES!!

fern37;8722270

Does anything we say make any difference anyway? You're gonna text him … Does anything we say make any difference anyway? You're gonna text him cos you have rose tinted glasses on! Otherwise you wouldn't have asked and are just looking for someone to say yes so that will justify it! Next thread will be that you met him, ended up in bed with him then he hasn't called for a few days....were you used? I'll answer that now for you....YES!!



lol true, plus he hasnt said he's gonna leave the gf to get with you so whats the point being the bit on the side :? except you just want sex :whistling:

ilovelilac;8722296

lol true, plus he hasnt said he's gonna leave the gf to get with you so … lol true, plus he hasnt said he's gonna leave the gf to get with you so whats the point being the bit on the side :? except you just want sex :whistling:



ahh...but does she want the sex or does she think that will be the way to get him back PLUS he's said things are fine with him and gf!! He's not saying he is going to leave her so why text him? You'd hate it done to you if you thought your relationship was fine.

If he just wants to catch up invite him and his girlfriend around for dinner. if hes not trying to boff you he's got nothing to hide.

fern37;8722304

ahh...but does she want the sex .




You better believe it. Its biting the leg off her now

Op has gone quiet....maybe she had already sent the text and he is there now! :whistling:

Original Poster

hes in germany and shes in northampton!!!!!!!! ans he has a blackberry wich to my understanding as i i dont have one all blackberrys have a pin on

Original Poster

hes away on work

If you meant that much to him, and he was a decent bloke, he'd finish it with the other girl before trying to hide the sausage with you. Seems he wants to stuff you behind his GF's back. that makes you a *****. Grow up. Smell the coffee etc, etc.

sarahjane1988;8722352

hes in germany and shes in northampton!!!!!!!! ans he has a blackberry … hes in germany and shes in northampton!!!!!!!! ans he has a blackberry wich to my understanding as i i dont have one all blackberrys have a pin on



so what have you decided after reading the replies?

sarahjane1988;8722352

hes in germany and shes in northampton!!!!!!!! ans he has a blackberry … hes in germany and shes in northampton!!!!!!!! ans he has a blackberry wich to my understanding as i i dont have one all blackberrys have a pin on



my blackberry storm didn't have one for the 3 days I used it!

Original Poster

oh i dunno, refuse to sleep with him behind her back. I would email her anyway if anything happened does that make me harsh!!! or i dunno but thanks for opening eyes a little still dazed with him !!!

sarahjane1988;8722402

oh i dunno, refuse to sleep with him behind her back. I would email her … oh i dunno, refuse to sleep with him behind her back. I would email her anyway if anything happened does that make me harsh!!! or i dunno but thanks for opening eyes a little still dazed with him !!!



Just walk away hunny. It's one of those things you will regret in later life if you do contact him. He's shown his true colours and better you find out now whilst he is with someone else and not with you. If anything does happen....don't email her...that's plain nasty and he'll wiggle out of it and blame you! Your his ex for a reason...and i think you've had a lucky escape cos he does sound like a player! he may have contacted other women saying the same in the hope one might give in :x

Banned

just be honest to yourself.....are you likely to be with him in 5 years time if it didnt last before?

go with the flow, you know him unlike the people in this thread........

maybe its worth a go but whats the point in daft messages be honestabout the situation and see what he suggests.....maybe he is with her through convenience.....it happens. doesnt mean he is a cheater.....

casparwhite;8722426

just be honest to yourself.....are you likely to be with him in 5 years … just be honest to yourself.....are you likely to be with him in 5 years time if it didnt last before?go with the flow, you know him unlike the people in this thread........maybe its worth a go but whats the point in daft messages be honestabout the situation and see what he suggests.....maybe he is with her through convenience.....it happens. doesnt mean he is a cheater.....



if he's with her for convenience sake then that's not really fair on her. He should end it and move on not try and find his next partner before he finishes with his last one. That's cowardly.

[COLOR="Red"]I'll sort him out

ps :pm me his number lol[/COLOR]

Put yourself in the gf's shoes :thumbsup:

dcx_badass;8722489

Stop been a bitch and trying to ruin someone elses relationship?


+1

i think even if you got him back he would then be texting her like its been said b4 he wants his cake and eat it he wants a girlfrend and someone he can play with lol dont be the play thing your worth more x

Banned

sarahjane1988;8722131

so i says



i stopped reading at ^

Banned

My wife knew i had gf when she invited me round. She got me drunk then got her boobs out and took me to bed where she gyrated on me butt naked. Then stopped before going any further. I dumped that other girl the next morning :shock:

Moral of the story, a girl has gotta do what a girls gotta do to get her man.

vibeone;8722222

Just do him.Your a woman, its your duty to do as your man asks.



I burst out laughing while walking outside.
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