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    How long before you ask someone to marry you?

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    Just curious lads if youve got a certain time period you wait before you ask ya gf to marry you...

    My ex asked me after 3 months, and someone before him after 6 months

    New feller no signs after a year, have i lost my touch lol

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    Three seconds after her dad pointed the shotgun at me! :whistling:

    ive been married twice and im only 19

    acecatcher3;4065530

    ive been married twice and im only 19



    Tying me up and forcing me to wear a wedding dress whilst you recite the Bible does not constitute a marriage.

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    tinkerbell28;4065534

    No, I don't think so maybe you have chosen more mature, less needy men! 3 … No, I don't think so maybe you have chosen more mature, less needy men! 3 to 6 months would of had me running for the hills!



    Yes i said no to both lol but now im just wondering why i havent been asked by the one person i actually love :x

    It depends on alot of thing the new fella, might not be ready or he might think your not ready, I think you should speak to him about and see how he feels. Also age has to be brought in to it aswell.

    caraluvskittens;4065552

    Yes i said no to both lol but now im just wondering why i havent been … Yes i said no to both lol but now im just wondering why i havent been asked by the one person i actually love :x



    why not ask him then?

    Been with my girlfriend for over three years now, but do plan to marry eventually. At 21 (both of us), she's not ready and although I would love to propose, it isn't feasible for either of us. Long story short, it's too soon (age wise and situation).

    Saying that, I'd love to tie the knot, although I want to live with her first to see how we'd cope - No point getting married if it ends in divorce a year later... Or less...

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    2 years min for me


    got engaged at 20 after 3 months but it was to shut her up tbh, never meant it and the ring was like £20 from Argos...wouldn't do it again but the sex was good...she was a bit mental though

    Married after a few months or even a year,omg,i lived with my ex b.friend for 6 years and he thought he had committed to me when he parked his car on the driveway,..lol

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    schaf;4065571

    why not ask him then?



    He might say no :oops:

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    caraluvskittens;4065552

    Yes i said no to both lol but now im just wondering why i havent been … Yes i said no to both lol but now im just wondering why i havent been asked by the one person i actually love :x



    Maybe he knows you said no to 2 marraige proposals already and doesn't want to get rejected

    ODB_69;4065578

    2 years min for megot engaged at 20 after 3 months but it was to shut her … 2 years min for megot engaged at 20 after 3 months but it was to shut her up tbh, never meant it and the ring was like £20 from Argos...wouldn't do it again but the sex was good...she was a bit mental though



    isn't that what getting engaged is all about?!?!?

    :whistling:

    but 1-2yrs for me.

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    Paddy Charlie;4065598

    Maybe he knows you said no to 2 marraige proposals already and doesn't … Maybe he knows you said no to 2 marraige proposals already and doesn't want to get rejected



    Yeh he does no that. I just think he doesnt love me lol! Well shouldnt laugh really........

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    jellybaby22;4065577

    have been engaged twice..first time he proposed after 2 days ..I … have been engaged twice..first time he proposed after 2 days ..I think....I was only 15 so cant remember...second time he proposed after 5 days....personally I would think you should wait a year or two...:thumbsup:



    I was married twice once when I was 7 and again when I was 11 bout messy divorces. I lost my bike and action men in the divorces

    You were right not to marry young

    When you're absolutely, utterly, totally and without question sure you want to spend the rest of your life with your partner, ask them to marry you. Anytime before that is too soon.

    10 days, but then took 18 year to get to the aisle

    tlck9;4065670

    10 days, but then took 18 year to get to the aisle



    Your joking right?

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    chrishill;4065658

    When you're absolutely, utterly, totally and without question sure you … When you're absolutely, utterly, totally and without question sure you want to spend the rest of your life with your partner, ask them to marry you. Anytime before that is too soon.



    Always said i would never get married, until i met him. But oh well maybe he will read this and it might kick him up the bum :whistling:

    caraluvskittens;4065680

    Always said i would never get married, until i met him. But oh well maybe … Always said i would never get married, until i met him. But oh well maybe he will read this and it might kick him up the bum :whistling:



    Just speak to him about it. That your best option, then you will know how he feels and where you stand.

    I've been with the mrs for 6 years, (both now 23). Not engaged yet.

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    caraluvskittens;4065680

    But oh well maybe he will read this and it might kick him up the bum … But oh well maybe he will read this and it might kick him up the bum :whistling:


    Unlikely...wouldn't you want him to ask you of his own free will though rather than feel he HAS to do it for you?

    Ive been with my GF 3 1/2 years and i don't plan on asking her anytime soon.

    I dont think you can know after 12 months that you wanna spend the rest of your life with someone.

    caraluvskittens;4065680

    Always said i would never get married, until i met him. But oh well maybe … Always said i would never get married, until i met him. But oh well maybe he will read this and it might kick him up the bum :whistling:



    don't place so much value on getting hitched. You're together, you're happy... why do you need a bit of paper, a ring and a big party to prove it?

    Living with sum1 for a while can put ya right off em..lol

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    chrishill;4065721

    don't place so much value on getting hitched. You're together, you're … don't place so much value on getting hitched. You're together, you're happy... why do you need a bit of paper, a ring and a big party to prove it?


    +1

    I've been with my OH for 5 years and im 20 and would never pressure him in to anything as im still young and its best for him to decide it the right time than me forcing it, then you truly know he wants to be with me.

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    To me marriage is like DIY jobs around the house - never really get around to it......but I
    suppose I don't want Gordon Brown nicking all me money if I drop dead so it's a good tax angle!!

    I waited until she had her divorce through. :whistling:
    Five and a half years !!

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    Everyones missing the point-i would never let onto him that i wanted to marry him, nor pressure him into it. Just wondering how long people usually wait before asking someone, when you really love them

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    caraluvskittens;4065851

    Everyones missing the point-i would never let onto him that i wanted to … Everyones missing the point-i would never let onto him that i wanted to marry him, nor pressure him into it. Just wondering how long people usually wait before asking someone, when you really love them



    Well you obvo want him to ask


    Its 2009....ask him!

    caraluvskittens;4065851

    Everyones missing the point-i would never let onto him that i wanted to … Everyones missing the point-i would never let onto him that i wanted to marry him, nor pressure him into it. Just wondering how long people usually wait before asking someone, when you really love them



    It varies depending on peoples situations he maybe feel like you don't need to get married as use are happy the way use are.

    caraluvskittens;4065851

    Everyones missing the point-i would never let onto him that i wanted to … Everyones missing the point-i would never let onto him that i wanted to marry him, nor pressure him into it. Just wondering how long people usually wait before asking someone, when you really love them



    Well I think you have answered your own question there. If your not close enough to talk about it then your not ready.

    chrishill;4065658

    When you're absolutely, utterly, totally and without question sure you … When you're absolutely, utterly, totally and without question sure you want to spend the rest of your life with your partner, ask them to marry you. Anytime before that is too soon.




    Absolutely spot on :thumbsup:

    fireheaven;4065991

    Absolutely spot on :thumbsup:



    will u marry me

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    Im only 20, been with the mrs nearly year and a half, we both talk about it, but need to get uni out of the way first

    acecatcher3;4066078

    will u marry me



    I keep telling, you its too soon x

    fireheaven;4066238

    I keep telling, you its too soon x



    lesbian

    chrishill;4065658

    When you're absolutely, utterly, totally and without question sure you … When you're absolutely, utterly, totally and without question sure you want to spend the rest of your life with your partner, ask them to marry you. Anytime before that is too soon.



    +1



    ...wish it lasted too...

    acecatcher3;4066253

    lesbian



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    fireheaven;4066294

    Immature



    pff ok ill wait
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