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    How would you feel if........

    You were the bride and your sister turned up on the day wearing the same shoes?????

    Obviously I am directing this tread to the female member (Pred!)

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    can you see the bride's shoes under her wedding dress? did the sister know the bride had these shoes before the wedding? :?
    if yes to both then i'd be angry :x

    that I'd have to question my gender

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    cheerleader;4640041

    can you see the bride's shoes under her wedding dress? did the sister … can you see the bride's shoes under her wedding dress? did the sister know the bride had these shoes before the wedding? :?if yes to both then i'd be angry :x



    Yes to both :oops:

    Predikuesi;4640046

    Question my gender


    :lol:

    frollickingfrill;4640049

    Yes to both :oops:


    oh dear - i take it you're the sister :whistling:
    is she really mad with you?

    It begs the question, do the silly bints talk to each other! :-D

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    Trickyjabs;4640064

    It begs the question, do the silly bints talk to each other! :-D



    They are obviously very close and like the same things :roll:

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    cheerleader;4640059

    oh dear - i take it you're the sister :whistling:is she really mad with … oh dear - i take it you're the sister :whistling:is she really mad with you?



    Well it goes like this.... The Bride to be was all excited and decided to show her sister the shoes today (5 weeks before wedding) and the sister's chin dropped to the floor when the bride opened the box ! The sister can not return the shoes as she bought them on fleabay

    Must be other issues if they fall out over a pair of shoes.

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    shanecr;4640082

    Must be other issues if they fall out over a pair of shoes.



    Who said anything about falling out ???

    frollickingfrill;4640081

    Well it goes like this.... The Bride to be was all excited and decided to … Well it goes like this.... The Bride to be was all excited and decided to show her sister the shoes today (5 weeks before wedding) and the sister's chin dropped to the floor when the bride opened the box ! The sister can not return the shoes as she bought them on fleabay


    have the sisters spoken about the shoes?:?

    frollickingfrill;4640081

    Well it goes like this.... The Bride to be was all excited and decided to … Well it goes like this.... The Bride to be was all excited and decided to show her sister the shoes today (5 weeks before wedding) and the sister's chin dropped to the floor when the bride opened the box ! The sister can not return the shoes as she bought them on fleabay



    If it happened like that I would find it hilarious! Though, I would hope that the sister would offer to buy a different pair!

    Mrs.Z;4640103

    If it happened like that I would find it hilarious! Though, I would hope … If it happened like that I would find it hilarious! Though, I would hope that the sister would offer to buy a different pair!


    i agree :thumbsup: wear them another time if you can't return

    Why on earth is it an issue, who cares? I can't even remember what my shoes looked like, let alone if anyone was wearing the same ones. Just be happy it's not the same dress!

    frollickingfrill;4640094

    Who said anything about falling out ???




    so what exactly is the problem?

    Could the sister get them dyed or altered slightly so its not obvious they the same ( ie a bow or something added /taken away)

    I accidently bought the same underwear as my sister for her wedding! Had to be a basque/corset style bra for the bridesmaids dress. She laughed and said she didn't mind but I didn't wear it. It wouldn't have felt right. Don't think it's too bad with shoes though. Not quite as personal.

    I wouldn't care but you think there been more communication what they planning to buy to make sure nowt clashed if they bothered either them about that kind of thing. She could sent an eBay auction link and said hey I'm going buy/bid on these.

    Shark Girl;4640115

    Why on earth is it an issue, who cares? I can't even remember what my … Why on earth is it an issue, who cares? I can't even remember what my shoes looked like, let alone if anyone was wearing the same ones. Just be happy it's not the same dress!


    seriously you can't remember?? i remember what my shoes were like & i got marries 8 1/2 years ago :whistling: i spent longer looking for shoes than i did my dress :lol:

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    frollickingfrill;4640081

    Well it goes like this.... The Bride to be was all excited and decided to … Well it goes like this.... The Bride to be was all excited and decided to show her sister the shoes today (5 weeks before wedding) and the sister's chin dropped to the floor when the bride opened the box ! The sister can not return the shoes as she bought them on fleabay



    cheerleader;4640102

    have the sisters spoken about the shoes?:?



    Mrs.Z;4640103

    If it happened like that I would find it hilarious! Though, I would hope … If it happened like that I would find it hilarious! Though, I would hope that the sister would offer to buy a different pair!



    cheerleader;4640112

    i agree :thumbsup: wear them another time if you can't return



    I have of course offered to get another pair of shoes but she says its ok but I really know that she would rather I did get another pair (and matching bag!) Just thought I would see waht other people thought

    My Sister is just worried that other people will think that we have bought them cheap as a job lot :?

    frollickingfrill;4640140

    I have of course offered to get another pair of shoes but she says its ok … I have of course offered to get another pair of shoes but she says its ok but I really know that she would rather I did get another pair (and matching bag!) Just thought I would see waht other people thought My Sister is just worried that other people will think that we have bought them cheap as a job lot :?


    :lol: aww bless her think you need to make a decision if you're gonna look for other shoes or not - you could always sell the shoes on ebay yourself if it's forking out for 2 pairs of shoes that's worrying you :thumbsup:

    cheerleader;4640138

    seriously you can't remember?? i remember what my shoes were like & i got … seriously you can't remember?? i remember what my shoes were like & i got marries 8 1/2 years ago :whistling: i spent longer looking for shoes than i did my dress :lol:



    Absolutely not! It was in 1980 though so I'm guessing they were pretty sad and probably not worth remembering, I do remember hitching up my dress, sitting on the floor and doing the boat song though (ooops upside yourself), but not the shoes, ha! :-D

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    cheerleader;4640158

    :lol: aww bless her think you need to make a decision if you're gonna … :lol: aww bless her think you need to make a decision if you're gonna look for other shoes or not - you could always sell the shoes on ebay yourself if it's forking out for 2 pairs of shoes that's worrying you :thumbsup:



    I think I will have to put them back on ebay..... told her what I paid for them to and it was quarter of the price of her and mine was including a hand bag AND we are the same size !!!! Told her she could take hers back but does not want to wear sencond hand shoes even if they ahve only been worn once before ;-)

    It wouldnt matter in the slightest to me !

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    kassy2005;4640206

    It wouldnt matter in the slightest to me !



    See everyone has different views... I dont think there is a "right" or "wrong" solution to this issue

    Shark Girl;4640170

    Absolutely not! It was in 1980 though so I'm guessing they were pretty … Absolutely not! It was in 1980 though so I'm guessing they were pretty sad and probably not worth remembering, I do remember hitching up my dress, sitting on the floor and doing the boat song though (ooops upside yourself), but not the shoes, ha! :-D


    :lol:

    frollickingfrill;4640189

    I think I will have to put them back on ebay..... told her what I paid … I think I will have to put them back on ebay..... told her what I paid for them to and it was quarter of the price of her and mine was including a hand bag AND we are the same size !!!! Told her she could take hers back but does not want to wear sencond hand shoes even if they ahve only been worn once before ;-)


    they could be her something old or borrowed :whistling:

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    cheerleader;4640266

    they could be her something old or borrowed :whistling:



    Nice thought I will run that one by her... either way I'm going to have to start looking for another pair :x

    just shows you both have damned good taste!

    frollickingfrill;4640335

    Nice thought I will run that one by her... either way I'm going to have … Nice thought I will run that one by her... either way I'm going to have to start looking for another pair :x


    i'm sure you won't have a problem finding another pair :friends:

    frollickingfrill;4640335

    Nice thought I will run that one by her... either way I'm going to have … Nice thought I will run that one by her... either way I'm going to have to start looking for another pair :x



    any particular colour........my sister has 2 pairs to sell, she wore one pair once for a wedding and the other pair hurt too much so they are new..........:)

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    bitseylango;4640505

    any particular colour........my sister has 2 pairs to sell, she wore one … any particular colour........my sister has 2 pairs to sell, she wore one pair once for a wedding and the other pair hurt too much so they are new..........:)



    this is my dress

    phase-eight.co.uk/fcp…rue

    so I'm looking for cream really in size 7

    sorry frilly wrong colour......hers are brown and wrong size......sz 5. Oh well........your gonna have to keep looking!

    frollickingfrill;4640887

    this is my … this is my dresshttp://www.phase-eight.co.uk/fcp/categorylook/occasion/chantilly-special-occasion?resetFilters=trueso I'm looking for cream really in size 7



    Sorry, can't help - but LOVING the dress

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    bitseylango;4640965

    sorry frilly wrong colour......hers are brown and wrong size......sz 5. … sorry frilly wrong colour......hers are brown and wrong size......sz 5. Oh well........your gonna have to keep looking!



    Oh well thanks anyway :thumbsup:

    Mrs.Z;4641805

    Sorry, can't help - but LOVING the dress

    ... It fit like a glove which is very rare for me with being shall we she an "odd" chape :whistling:

    Banned

    if my sister delibertaley went out and purchased the same shoes i would be a little peed at her, but otherwise no i wouldnt have a problem with it

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    I personally think that its the brides day its all about her and her husband to be and their day therefore personally id get another pair of shoes...just to keep her happy especially as its your sister!! You didnt mean to get the same but if you know shed like you to get another pair then i would...if the worst comes to worst just wear a black pair they will look lovely !!

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    shopaholic.lady;4662707

    I personally think that its the brides day its all about her and her … I personally think that its the brides day its all about her and her husband to be and their day therefore personally id get another pair of shoes...just to keep her happy especially as its your sister!! You didnt mean to get the same but if you know shed like you to get another pair then i would...if the worst comes to worst just wear a black pair they will look lovely !!



    Well I will be submitting a Thread in Forsale soon when I can get some Pic's sorted... just looking to get my money back... They are gorgeous too :x

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    frollickingfrill;4662795

    Well I will be submitting a Thread in Forsale soon when I can get some … Well I will be submitting a Thread in Forsale soon when I can get some Pic's sorted... just looking to get my money back... They are gorgeous too :x



    can you not keep them and wear them another time?? or if your planning on getting married?? what about wearing them in the day and then changing to black shoes in the evening!! then you have warn them and people are not going to be looking at your feet in the day as yourll be sat down for most of it!! its a shame especially when you love them !! new look are doing some gorgeous shoes at the moment well down here they are have you looked ?? ...

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    shopaholic.lady;4674259

    can you not keep them and wear them another time?? [SIZE="4"]or if your … can you not keep them and wear them another time?? [SIZE="4"]or if your planning on getting married[/SIZE]?? what about wearing them in the day and then changing to black shoes in the evening!! then you have warn them and people are not going to be looking at your feet in the day as yourll be sat down for most of it!! its a shame especially when you love them !! new look are doing some gorgeous shoes at the moment well down here they are have you looked ?? ...



    been married 20years and i aint doing it again !:? I cant wear them at all it will not be fair to my sister and I cant see me going to any other do where I will be wearing them:x
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