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    I need all womens opinions please!

    Ive no idea if this kind of thread is allowed on here so i apologise in advance if it isnt.
    Right, as some of you know i went out on a date on monday evening, it went ok, we are meeting up next monday to go cinema and pizza hut.
    Now should i text her in between times or let her text me?.
    I dont want her to think im not interested but at the same time dont want to come across too pushy.
    We work together however she now has a week or 2 off work.
    Im crap at this sort of stuff so i need some opinions off people on what they would expect after a first date etc.
    It is over 2 years since i had a 1st date(just come out of a serious relationship).

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    Just send her a text saying you enjoyed the date, and asking how she is, if she replies judge whether/how to to reply via the context of her text. Just dont go overboard on it, make it friendly in tone.

    i say text her or she may worry that u didnt really like her

    just say something along the lines of how u enjoyed it and lookin forward to monday and seeing her again

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    harlzter;3039771

    Just send her a text saying you enjoyed the date, and asking how she is, … Just send her a text saying you enjoyed the date, and asking how she is, if she replies judge whether/how to to reply via the context of her text. Just dont go overboard on it, make it friendly in tone.



    Agreed :thumbsup:

    yes id like a text if it were me, has been a while already.. its wednesday today right?

    so as above, just a simple friendly hi text really...

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    Go with your feelings...........do you want to text her? If so text her.

    This whole BS about should I or shouldn't I, if you feel its the right thing to do then do it.

    what they said ^^^

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    i agree with the above, text her and say hi, and say hope shes having a nice time off work, see what reaction you get back

    x

    Bless wat a sweetie, yes i would just send an casual text let her no your intrested and enjoyed the 1st date and looking forward to 2nd!

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    Foosball Chum;3039786

    Go with your feelings...........do you want to text her? If so text … Go with your feelings...........do you want to text her? If so text her.This whole BS about should I or shouldn't I, if you feel its the right thing to do then do it.


    Yeah i know where you are coming from.
    However its easy to be to pushy to soon imo.
    Ive been there and done that.
    But at the same time dont wanna not text her incase she thinks i dont like her.
    Its a tough choice and i really dont wanna mess the opportunity up!

    Text her

    just text that you had a good time on your date and are looking forward to the next one. Ask if they are well ect. If they get back to you with a text that wants a reply then text back and go from there. If not then don't text back. If you get a text that makes it seem like they don't want to getting to the texting thing just text back with 'works sucks see you soon' or something like that.

    yes.. text her

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    ADAMHODG;3039797

    Yeah i know where you are coming from.However its easy to be to pushy to … Yeah i know where you are coming from.However its easy to be to pushy to soon imo.Ive been there and done that.But at the same time dont wanna not text her incase she thinks i dont like her.Its a tough choice and i really dont wanna mess the opportunity up!



    Follow your heart :thumbsup:

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    MissRoo;3039783

    yes id like a text if it were me, has been a while already.. its … yes id like a text if it were me, has been a while already.. its wednesday today right?so as above, just a simple friendly hi text really...



    Yeah we texted each other after(monday evening), arranged another date etc. other than that havent text her since.

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    dontdothatagain;3039798

    Text her



    School?

    ADAMHODG;3039804

    Yeah we texted each other after(monday evening), arranged another date … Yeah we texted each other after(monday evening), arranged another date etc. other than that havent text her since.



    well i would..it keeps the interest going. she might be wondering what your doing etc.. so a friendly hi letting her know your thinking of her..is nice.

    Think a girl would like a little text, better that you show some interest rather than not,

    bless u sound adorable!

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    magicbeans;3039836

    bless u sound adorable!



    Just inexperienced lol.
    :oops:

    Thanks to everyone for the suggestions! :-D

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    ADAMHODG;3039859

    Just inexperienced lol.:oops:



    I would eat you alive :w00t:

    DLM;3039863

    I would eat you alive :w00t:



    :giggle:

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    DLM;3039863

    I would eat you alive :w00t:



    steady on lol
    Your scareing me now!

    DLM;3039863

    I would eat you alive :w00t:



    Why do I never get them kind of offers....:whistling:

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    ADAMHODG;3039880

    steady on lolYour scareing me now!



    Only messing, i'm a pussy cat really

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    Text message sent

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    ADAMHODG;3039919

    Text message sent



    Good for you, let us know, when the wedding is :thumbsup:

    ADAMHODG;3039919

    Text message sent



    That was the advice I was going to give - don't worry too much, if its meant to be it will be :thumbsup:

    DLM;3039933

    Good for you, let us know, when the wedding is :thumbsup:



    lol *shudder*

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    seriously...be careful on the level of texts...and if the replies are closed then dont send anymore, if they have questions or open ended then your ok, just dont do too much...if she doesnt find it pushy she could still find it annoying...

    Heres how I did it the other day:
    Pulled Sat
    left house sun...gave me a lift home...
    I text an hour later 'thanks for the lift'
    she replied..couple of texts exchanged...soon as nothing ended in a ? I left it....

    Mon night about 9 she text me, little banter again, arranged a time and place to meet...I left it again as soon as it felt right...

    saw her last night, she text me this morning I text back, she replied...I left it...


    not saying do the same, but maybe use it as a guide

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    ODB_69;3039964

    seriously...be careful on the level of texts...and if the replies are … seriously...be careful on the level of texts...and if the replies are closed then dont send anymore, if they have questions or open ended then your ok, just dont do too much...if she doesnt find it pushy she could still find it annoying...Heres how I did it the other day:Pulled Satleft house sun...gave me a lift home...I text an hour later 'thanks for the lift'she replied..couple of texts exchanged...soon as nothing ended in a ? I left it....Mon night about 9 she text me, little banter again, arranged a time and place to meet...I left it again as soon as it felt right...saw her last night, she text me this morning I text back, she replied...I left it...not saying do the same, but maybe use it as a guide



    You gig o loo!

    Go on tell us, did she text back???

    Cxxx

    ODB_69;3039964

    seriously...be careful on the level of texts...and if the replies are … seriously...be careful on the level of texts...and if the replies are closed then dont send anymore, if they have questions or open ended then your ok, just dont do too much...if she doesnt find it pushy she could still find it annoying...Heres how I did it the other day:Pulled Satleft house sun...gave me a lift home...I text an hour later 'thanks for the lift'she replied..couple of texts exchanged...soon as nothing ended in a ? I left it....Mon night about 9 she text me, little banter again, arranged a time and place to meet...I left it again as soon as it felt right...saw her last night, she text me this morning I text back, she replied...I left it...not saying do the same, but maybe use it as a guide




    Left what :thinking:

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    ADAMHODG;3039880

    steady on lolYour scareing me now!



    Be afraid.....be VERY afraid :w00t:

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    Marina;3040011

    Left what :thinking:



    IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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    ODB_69;3039964

    seriously...be careful on the level of texts...and if the replies are … seriously...be careful on the level of texts...and if the replies are closed then dont send anymore, if they have questions or open ended then your ok, just dont do too much...if she doesnt find it pushy she could still find it annoying...Heres how I did it the other day:Pulled Satleft house sun...gave me a lift home...I text an hour later 'thanks for the lift'she replied..couple of texts exchanged...soon as nothing ended in a ? I left it....Mon night about 9 she text me, little banter again, arranged a time and place to meet...I left it again as soon as it felt right...saw her last night, she text me this morning I text back, she replied...I left it...not saying do the same, but maybe use it as a guide



    Yeah that was my main concern if not pushy, annoying
    Ive always let her contact me 1st over the past couple weeks b4 i asked her out.
    But then i thought if i dont text her 1st at least once then i might be putting her off.
    oh well sent now, just have to see what the outcome is!
    Cheers for the advice!:)

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    DLM;3039890

    Only messing, i'm a pussy cat really



    Choaked on me coffee again :giggle:

    Foosball Chum;3040038

    IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!


    what is IT??? :thinking:

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    clairethomson786;3040001

    Go on tell us, did she text back???Cxxx



    Nope nothing yet, she could well be asleep tbh, she was at work last night but isnt at work tonight...

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    Marina;3040051

    what is IT??? :thinking:



    dunno, but he left it, no matter what 'it' was.

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    ADAMHODG;3040054

    Nope nothing yet, she could well be asleep tbh, she was at work last … Nope nothing yet, she could well be asleep tbh, she was at work last night but isnt at work tonight...



    Thought you said she was on holiday for 2 weeks.............? :thinking:
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