if your husband was having an affair..............

Found 18th Dec 2009
wud u ever forgive him?
forgive her if you knew her(i.e.family friend)

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No messing about - global knife to the temple

forgive, yes, but forget, no!

i would need forgive myself for being a sinner


*sarc

forgive in time but never forget

tigerallstars;7271927

No messing about - global knife to the temple



+1 ;-)

I wouldn't forgive and i would never forget.
I would bring it up in every argument, i'd drop snide comments and it would go on for years....that would all be happening from my cell after being convicted for knifing open his ball sack, and cutting her nipples off with a blunt stanley knife

Forgive, maybe. Forget, never!

Forgive her.. Depends on whether she knew he was taken, whether he lied and said he was single etc. If it were me and she knew he was my fiance and father to my/our son, then no I wouldn't forgive her.. and then Id proceed to gauge her eyes out

Lulu'sMammy;7271971

I wouldn't forgive and i would never forget.I would bring it up in every … I wouldn't forgive and i would never forget.I would bring it up in every argument, i'd drop snide comments and it would go on for years....that would all be happening from my cell after being convicted for knifing open his ball sack, and cutting her nipples off with a blunt stanley knife



:giggle:

If I had a husband, i'd need to have a word with myself.

I could probably forgive but would not be able to forget and would have doubts for the rest of my relationship.

No chance I could last in that relationship.

Nikki999;7271975

Forgive, maybe. Forget, never!Forgive her.. Depends on whether she knew … Forgive, maybe. Forget, never!Forgive her.. Depends on whether she knew he was taken, whether he lied and said he was single etc. If it were me and she knew he was my fiance and father to my/our son, then no I wouldn't forgive her.. and then Id proceed to gauge her eyes out



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Lulu'sMammy;7271971

I wouldn't forgive and i would never forget.I would bring it up in every … I wouldn't forgive and i would never forget.I would bring it up in every argument, i'd drop snide comments and it would go on for years....that would all be happening from my cell after being convicted for knifing open his ball sack, and cutting her nipples off with a blunt stanley knife



what would you do if she came to you and explained herself that it was love from both sides

I would never ever forgive him. It's a 'no way back from that' situation for me. As for her, if she was a friend and knew who he was - I wouldn't forgive her either. If I didn't know her and she didn't know his situation I wouldn't apportion any blame to her but certainly wouldn't ever want to speak to her/know who she was.

Lulu'sMammy;7271971

I wouldn't forgive and i would never forget.I would bring it up in every … I wouldn't forgive and i would never forget.I would bring it up in every argument, i'd drop snide comments and it would go on for years....that would all be happening from my cell after being convicted for knifing open his ball sack, and cutting her nipples off with a blunt stanley knife



Bloody hell, thats a physco right there. But you know what, I guess it shows marriage material :roll:

khel;7272042

what would you do if she came to you and explained herself that it was … what would you do if she came to you and explained herself that it was love from both sides


I'd want to kill her. Probably wouldn't because I wouldn't wanrt to spend my life in prison. But, I'd certainly want to. As for him - he can get out of my life. I can do better than someone who cheats.

khel;7272042

what would you do if she came to you and explained herself that it was … what would you do if she came to you and explained herself that it was love from both sides



u mean the slut who was sleeping with ur hubby said he and her loved each other. thats justification?!

defo hed be out the door and id screw him for every penny he had and make his life a misery. end of

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Susannah;7272061

I would never ever forgive him. It's a 'no way back from that' … I would never ever forgive him. It's a 'no way back from that' situation for me. As for her, if she was a friend and knew who he was - I wouldn't forgive her either. If I didn't know her and she didn't know his situation I wouldn't apportion any blame to her but certainly wouldn't ever want to speak to her/know who she was.



wud that be the end of your marriage?

khel;7272100

wud that be the end of your marriage?



anyways where oes this thread stem from?!

khel;7272042

what would you do if she came to you and explained herself that it was … what would you do if she came to you and explained herself that it was love from both sides


I wouldn't have anything to do with it. I come across on here as a flirt, man eater whatever else, but i do not condone lies and disrespect for my other half and expect the same back in return. If you have the need to lie to your partner, there is basic problems already which develop into massive scale marital problems, such as affairs etc. Your husband and your friend have both been disloyal to you, and i truely believe you should be treated how you treat others. I would never be unfaithful to my partner and expect the same back. Your obviously having a massive relationship meltdown at the moment and if you ever anna chat, i will listen chin up and hope all works out. kiss kiss

khel;7272100

wud that be the end of your marriage?



Yes, no question.

magicbeans;7272116

anyways where oes this thread stem from?!



you need to ask?



op - sounds like you would forgive? every situtation is different i guess,no one truely knows how they would react unless it happens imo

magicbeans;7272096

u mean the slut who was sleeping with ur hubby said he and her loved … u mean the slut who was sleeping with ur hubby said he and her loved each other. thats justification?!defo hed be out the door and id screw him for every penny he had and make his life a misery. end of



I agree absolutely.

Carley;7272063

So it's over then?


Don't act the hardman, you know where your breads buttered, soft lad!

Carley;7272153



Oh god, that made me sick. Disgusting!

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PraxxtorCruel;7272161

Oh god, that made me sick. Disgusting!



me too!

if a man or woman plays away from home, chances are theyre not getting enough luvin' at home, so really its both their fault. And if one wants it more often than the other, theyre not suited to each other. nymphomaniacs eed to with other nymphomaniacs, and vice versa.

magicbeans;7272096

u mean the slut who was sleeping with ur hubby said he and her loved … u mean the slut who was sleeping with ur hubby said he and her loved each other. thats justification?!defo hed be out the door and id screw him for every penny he had and make his life a misery. end of



So you wouldn't give him a divorce?

Carley;7272153


God i PURE laffed my crack off! Cheers ears

well it happened to me, my husband had an affair and i ended our relationship the minute he told me. times a great healer, i'll never forget what he did but i've forgiven him now (it was 4 years ago) and we actually get on really well as friends now

thesaint;7272200

So you wouldn't give him a divorce?



haha just thinking about it makes me CROSS! so i guess im saying stuff without thinking how id make it a misery with a divorce...but yeah....i would want a divorce...but id sturggle to be nice for sake of kids...he'd disgust me every time i looked at him.

Women can be just as bad as men....men shouldn't be singled out you know.

missp27;7272218

well it happened to me, my husband had an affair and i ended our … well it happened to me, my husband had an affair and i ended our relationship the minute he told me. times a great healer, i'll never forget what he did but i've forgiven him now (it was 4 years ago) and we actually get on really well as friends now



good for u time is a healer but must have been awful when u found out.

BungeeUK;7272182

if a man or woman plays away from home, chances are theyre not getting … if a man or woman plays away from home, chances are theyre not getting enough luvin' at home, so really its both their fault. And if one wants it more often than the other, theyre not suited to each other. nymphomaniacs eed to with other nymphomaniacs, and vice versa.



Sounds like an excuse to cheat to me. My marriage is certainly based on a lot more than a shared sex drive and I wouldn't risk my marriage just because I didn't get enough at home. Neither would my husband.

QUOTE=Lulu'sMammy;7272212]God i PURE laffed my crack off! Cheers ears [/QUOTE]

hang on................. that looks like my cat sat at that computer, lol :shock:

Do any of you have children, if you do does it sway your decision at all? Thats the only reason Id try and forgive. If I weren't a Mum he'd be out the door asap.

realfriendlyman;7272224

Women can be just as bad as men....men shouldn't be singled out you know. … Women can be just as bad as men....men shouldn't be singled out you know.



:thumbsup:

Susannah;7272230

Sounds like an excuse to cheat to me. My marriage is certainly based on … Sounds like an excuse to cheat to me. My marriage is certainly based on a lot more than a shared sex drive and I wouldn't risk my marriage just because I didn't get enough at home. Neither would my husband.



agreed.

I have a child which makes my decision stronger.....like i said i would mention it all the time, there would be a massive taste of bitterness in the air and my child don't need to witness that. Bye bye and hope ya get willy rot would be my final words

I'd just walk away, never to be seen again.

Nikki999;7272233

Do any of you have children, if you do does it sway your decision at all? … Do any of you have children, if you do does it sway your decision at all? Thats the only reason Id try and forgive. If I weren't a Mum he'd be out the door asap.



i have kiddies. 2 little boys and a girl on the way....but really could i trust him again. we'd always be rowing as i couldnt ignore it...and also i would think hes a crap role model!
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