I'm sad... on every level... and no-one is talking....

Found 26th Feb 2009
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Well.......it's v early in the am........wassup?

What's wrong hun?

we are all ears

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I took my nana to hospital on Sat night... A&E, she couldn't breathe, on Tues night we were told she had hours to live, but then they decided to operate, now she might be paralyzed from the waist down, may have had a stroke... or worse. She is 76 BTW....

She was in surgery for 10 hours straight....

dmh77;4492175

I took my nana to hospital on Sat night... A&E, she couldn't breathe, on … I took my nana to hospital on Sat night... A&E, she couldn't breathe, on Tues night we were told she had hours to live, but then they decided to operate, now she might be paralyzed from the waist down, may have had a stroke... or worse. She is 76 BTW.... She was in surgery for 10 hours straight....


Firstly sorry i put the smiley face on - & also sorry to hear that. You must be devastated.

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sorry to hear it mate

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darren9030;4492178

Firstly sorry i put the smiley face on - & also sorry to hear that. You … Firstly sorry i put the smiley face on - & also sorry to hear that. You must be devastated.



Hey, don't be nice!!! :?

The smiley face was acceptable... just 'cos I aint happy!!! :?

I just need some distraction... I feel guilty, and confused, sort of..... but I only posted that ^^^ to get distracted!

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DangerGod;4492179

sorry to hear it mate



Thanks!

aouch... sorry to hear that.. i can relate that kind of situation because like my grandmother she cant move also coz of paralyzed.. then she was died last september,. its really hurt because im not there on her last day:(

Fair enough. Watch the video of Middlesboro v West Ham last night. That will certainly distract you, it was absolutely awful.

israel75;4492182

aouch... sorry to hear that.. i can relate that kind of situation because … aouch... sorry to hear that.. i can relate that kind of situation because like my grandmother she cant move also coz of paralyzed.. then she was died last september,. its really hurt because im not there on her last day:(


Hey israel - what have you been doing since December & not posting

Oh my :-(

That is a very long time for anyone to be in theatre,let alone at your nanna's age.There is nothing I can say that will make you feel any better but I hope and pray that she recovers.I am sure that the hospital are doing all they can for her to make her better and keep her as comfortable as possible.

Be strong hun,though it may be hard to do so,you are obviously very close to her.Be there for her when she wakes up and speak to your other family members too.....they will be just as concerned.Support each other in times of need,I am sure you will xxxxxxx

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israel75;4492182

aouch... sorry to hear that.. i can relate that kind of situation because … aouch... sorry to hear that.. i can relate that kind of situation because like my grandmother she cant move also coz of paralyzed.. then she was died last september,. its really hurt because im not there on her last day:(



I can relate, it is a BAD feeling. :-(

What has happened is just bizzare to me though.... it would take too long to explain ...

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muckypup;4492187

Oh my :-(That is a very long time for anyone to be in theatre,let alone … Oh my :-(That is a very long time for anyone to be in theatre,let alone at your nanna's age.There is nothing I can say that will make you feel any better but I hope and pray that she recovers.I am sure that the hospital are doing all they can for her to make her better and keep her as comfortable as possible.Be strong hun,though it may be hard to do so,you are obviously very close to her.Be there for her when she wakes up and speak to your other family members too.....they will be just as concerned.Support each other in times of need,I am sure you will xxxxxxx



But that is the wierd thing... less than 3 years ago, we were in the same situation ... but with my Dad..? :?

She had an anurism (sp) on her aorta... he had a ulcer on his.... it feels like groundhog day!!! ... http://i301.photobucket.com/albums/nn78/dmh77/jaw-dropping.gif

scary stuff hope it all works out:friends:

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dmissy13;4492195

scary stuff hope it all works out:friends:



Thank you! ( me too)

Sorry to hear about your dad too.

Here's a hug :friends:

Fingers crossed for a good outcome

It's awful when a loved one isn't well and I'm very sorry to hear your news. Keep close with your family so everyone has support. Keep positive and best wishes to all. X.

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muckypup;4492202

Sorry to hear about your dad too.Here's a hug :friends:Fingers crossed … Sorry to hear about your dad too.Here's a hug :friends:Fingers crossed for a good outcome



My Dad's surgery took 14 hours!

He is in bed right now... snoring.... all's well that ends well! ( he had an infection after the fact, it very nearly killed him) But he made it!!!!

Thanks for the good wishes... it is appreciated! X

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Banana79;4492203

It's awful when a loved one isn't well and I'm very sorry to hear your … It's awful when a loved one isn't well and I'm very sorry to hear your news. Keep close with your family so everyone has support. Keep positive and best wishes to all. X.



Thank you! X
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