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    Is it abnormal to be jealous?

    Just got off the phone with a friend who's gf was just kissed by at senior colleague at work.
    the gf said although she has repeatedly turn down (in my opinion not strong enough) the advances of the work colleague but he just wouldnt stop.
    And at some other time she has confessed that she kind of like the persistency of the attention she get!
    The bf is all full of jealous even though the girl said it came as a shock and she didnt respond to the kiss and she tells tells him everysingle time someone makes an advance at her.
    Wierd.
    Do you think she really loves him?

    49 Comments

    Banned

    relationship from hell

    used and abused

    she a tease.....he needs to run lol

    I dont know about whether she loves him or not but from the story i'm thinking sexual harrasment claim!

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    muffin247;6317057

    used and abused



    which one, the gf or the bf?

    No need to tell him everytime, maybe she likes to make him jealous.

    When the girls come on to me i never tell the other half

    And that happens a lot :-(

    Banned

    eh?

    Jeremy Kyle is that way ---------------------------------------------------->

    I don't see why the girlfriend doesn't say get lost. He has every right to be if shes not willing to do as he asks. Hope you get what I mean.

    she is probably very insecure & 'love 'n' stuff' is just a game to her atm ... will improve as she grows up ... (hopefully!)

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    Starr;6317082

    No need to tell him everytime, maybe she likes to make him jealous.When … No need to tell him everytime, maybe she likes to make him jealous.When the girls come on to me i never tell the other halfAnd that happens a lot :-(



    She said that several time that likes to make him jealous......

    saayinla;6317118

    She said that several time that likes to make him jealous......



    why ? stupid female :roll:

    Well, I used to like this one girl and she liked me too... we never really went out but we were close friends. I would always feel jealous when she is hanging around other guys and she was always flirting with other guys.

    I was kinda jealous but I never showed it or spoke of it.... kinda like burning up inside.

    Banned

    point 1 - kissed by senior colleague. if it was against her will then thats harrassment and should be dealt with

    point 2 - she SAYS she rejected her colleagues advances - did she or is she just trying to dodge the heat from her BF for getting stuck into some other guy?

    point 3 - persistency of attention - psycho! get rid now of the attention seeker!

    point 4 - GROW UP! S*** happens!

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    Marina;6317141

    Is this your next epic thread after this - … Is this your next epic thread after this -> http://www.hotukdeals.com/item/451849/does-every-relationship-have-to-be-/



    u kidding me.?

    dimebars;6317175

    point 1 - kissed by senior colleague. if it was against her will then … point 1 - kissed by senior colleague. if it was against her will then thats harrassment and should be dealt withpoint 2 - she SAYS she rejected her colleagues advances - did she or is she just trying to dodge the heat from her BF for getting stuck into some other guy?point 3 - persistency of attention - psycho! get rid now of the attention seeker!point 4 - GROW UP! S*** happens!



    ^^This^^

    Original Poster

    dimebars;6317175

    point 1 - kissed by senior colleague. if it was against her will then … point 1 - kissed by senior colleague. if it was against her will then thats harrassment and should be dealt withpoint 2 - she SAYS she rejected her colleagues advances - did she or is she just trying to dodge the heat from her BF for getting stuck into some other guy?point 3 - persistency of attention - psycho! get rid now of the attention seeker!point 4 - GROW UP! S*** happens!




    left to me, I advised him in a subtle way to dump her, the girl is a headcase.

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    starsparkle2311;6317213

    lol, yeh she sounds it, btw where does she work? Stringfellows:w00t:



    Nope....Government Establishment.

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    jellybaby22;6317244

    department for work and pensions????.....all nut cases that work there



    seriously you dont want to know...lol

    saayinla;6317199

    left to me, I advised him in a subtle way to dump her, the girl is a … left to me, I advised him in a subtle way to dump her, the girl is a headcase.


    I'd do it without the sublety:thumbsup:

    Banned

    Rrrruuuuunnnnnnnnn!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    I Agree With Ppoints 1 Mb2 Defo 3 4 Well Thats Life

    Are you sure that girl doesn't post on here?

    sounds like a couple of nutters I could think of who are on here all the time:)

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    dimebars;6317175

    point 2 - she SAYS she rejected her colleagues advances - did she or is … point 2 - she SAYS she rejected her colleagues advances - did she or is she just trying to dodge the heat from her BF for getting stuck into some other guy?



    What baffles me is that, she shows all the text messages sent by the work colleague to the bf and even when the colleague calls her outside of work, she tells him and ask him to come and listen to him talk on the phone, she show the bf all the emails sent to her from him and she keeps saying there is nothing happening.
    But my thought was and is, if you re not truely interested in all this why bother replying to his text message, emails let alone talk to him on the phone?
    She is definately crazy.

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    boothy;6317529

    Are you sure that girl doesn't post on here?sounds like a couple of … Are you sure that girl doesn't post on here?sounds like a couple of nutters I could think of who are on here all the time:)



    dont think so, spend most of her time on FB....

    My bros ex fiance was in a similar situation last year, as her boss wouldn't leave her alone and even asked her to pretend she was his gf in public and once took her back to his bedroom to collect something with him. :?
    He used to always bad mouth my bro as well, as he was trying to break them up and said she should be with someone like himself, who would treat her as she deserves. :roll:

    It's F'd up when people let others dictate there relationship when they're happy but what can you do with weak fickle minds. :roll:

    she is a teasin skankho, ,my ex ws like tht, told her to **** off in the end :lol:

    She likes the persistency of the attention..

    Who wouldnt be flattered by the attention lavished on them by another? And she's told him about it honestly. I'd trust to that.

    As for did he kiss her didnt she kiss him..., what's it matter?

    Seems to be all about flogging a dead horse instead of enjoying their time together.

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    ClarityofMind;6317846

    She likes the persistency of the attention..Who wouldnt be flattered by … She likes the persistency of the attention..Who wouldnt be flattered by the attention lavished on them by another? And she's told him about it honestly. I'd trust to that. As for did he kiss her didnt she kiss him..., what's it matter?Seems to be all about flogging a dead horse instead of enjoying their time together.



    I personally dont think its right if you re with someone , why seek attension from others? eat your cake and have it? no way!

    saayinla;6317892

    I personally dont think its right if you re with someone , why seek … I personally dont think its right if you re with someone , why seek attension from others? eat your cake and have it? no way!



    Well, she should be seeking the attention from her partner, but if eyes roam or the heart roams then they aren't meant to be.

    saayinla;6317892

    I personally dont think its right if you re with someone , why seek … I personally dont think its right if you re with someone , why seek attension from others? eat your cake and have it? no way!



    Neither do I, it's always nice to know people are interested, as it gives you a confidence boost but nothing more should happen than that.

    im suprised this bloke isnt doin sumthin bout this bloke kissin his gf, and she can say she didnt kiss back all she wants fact is (frm wht ive read) she didnt pull out of the kiss, if i was the guy id be off to open a can of whoop ass on this colleague of hers :lol:

    micoo;6318061

    im suprised this bloke isnt doin sumthin bout this bloke kissin his gf, … im suprised this bloke isnt doin sumthin bout this bloke kissin his gf, and she can say she didnt kiss back all she wants fact is (frm wht ive read) she didnt pull out of the kiss, if i was the guy id be off to open a can of whoop ass on this colleague of hers :lol:



    lol @ lil micoo and his can of whoop ass

    ClarityofMind;6318070

    lol @ lil micoo and his can of whoop ass



    im gangsta :lol:

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    micoo;6318061

    im suprised this bloke isnt doin sumthin bout this bloke kissin his gf, … im suprised this bloke isnt doin sumthin bout this bloke kissin his gf, and she can say she didnt kiss back all she wants fact is (frm wht ive read) she didnt pull out of the kiss, if i was the guy id be off to open a can of whoop ass on this colleague of hers :lol:



    micoo i cant blame the guy, guys will always be guys, but the girl is the one that has a problem i believe, she probably didt tell off the guy that kissed her, she should reply his message etc. still can come to grip with this.:?

    micoo;6318080

    im gangsta :lol:



    bless you babes lol

    you're bout as G'd up as my 3 yr old ;-)

    Dont front wit me foo or I buss a cap up yo azz :w00t:;-)

    ClarityofMind;6318130

    bless you babes lol you're bout as G'd up as my 3 yr old ;-)Dont front … bless you babes lol you're bout as G'd up as my 3 yr old ;-)Dont front wit me foo or I buss a cap up yo azz :w00t:;-)



    i think you mean " don go bustin' no cap on my ass boi"

    if i wasnt gangsta why would i be listnin to this youtube.com/wat…d10 :thumbsup:

    micoo;6318171

    i think you mean " don go bustin' no cap on my ass boi"if i wasnt gangsta … i think you mean " don go bustin' no cap on my ass boi"if i wasnt gangsta why would i be listnin to this http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eT4yQvwtd10 :thumbsup:



    HEY!!! I asked for the link in the other thread...at least you past it on at some point.

    micoo;6318171

    i think you mean " don go bustin' no cap on my ass boi"if i wasnt gangsta … i think you mean " don go bustin' no cap on my ass boi"if i wasnt gangsta why would i be listnin to this http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eT4yQvwtd10 :thumbsup:



    you're so cute Micoo :roll:

    Remind me of my kiddies tryin to be tough :-D;-)

    ClarityofMind;6318211

    you're so cute Micoo :roll:Remind me of my kiddies tryin to be tough … you're so cute Micoo :roll:Remind me of my kiddies tryin to be tough :-D;-)



    http://i564.photobucket.com/albums/ss86/micoo91/gangsta.jpg

    micoo;6318251



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