Is it ok for a man to cry? or is it a big no no?

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Found 5th Sep 2010
whats your reaction if you saw a man crying!
crying because of the pain that he feel inside of him!

is it ok for a man to cry or does it make him a less man?

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Banned

It's ok.

Let it all out (_;)

Banned

Its ok for a man to cry. dosent mean their a big softy or that. if something hurts me ill cry
Edited by: "YokoBanito" 5th Sep 2010

Banned

Young guys will generally say it's not ok. The older you get that attitude seems to change...

Gay as **** (no homo)

i havent cried since the last time i got my ass kicked (13) im 19 now

micoo

Gay as **** (no homo)i havent cried since the last time i got my ass … Gay as **** (no homo)i havent cried since the last time i got my ass kicked (13) im 19 now



come on admit, you cried buckets after the cake competition results were announced

It shows they are human and have emotions.
They are still a man in my eyes.

I agree with Tanya (and I'm female btw)

Banned

Is it physical pain we're talking about or mental? Physical pain is obviously a no no to cry to.

micoo

Gay as **** (no homo)i havent cried since the last time i got my ass … Gay as **** (no homo)i havent cried since the last time i got my ass kicked (13) im 19 now

Tanya

It shows they are human and have emotions.They are still a man in my eyes.



i contemplated suicide, but no crying was done



So men who dont cry arent human and have no emotions?

It's ok........but not the kind of man I would date (_;)

Banned

I love my dad more because he got upset about his dad's death.

It shows that he is compassionate, loving and caring.

That is why I love him.

DLM

I love my dad more because he got upset about his dad's death.It shows … I love my dad more because he got upset about his dad's death.It shows that he is compassionate, loving and caring.That is why I love him.



Im sorry but are you actually suggesting that you would love your dad less if he had shown less emotion about his father dying?

Of course it's OK

Banned

Yes it's okay. It's a physical reaction to emotion. Why would that not be okay?

Ignore people like Micoo - people like him have their sexuality hanging by the thinnest of threads and something as innocuous as crying could tear the whole facade down.

FilthAndFurry

Yes it's okay. It's a physical reaction to emotion. Why would that not be … Yes it's okay. It's a physical reaction to emotion. Why would that not be okay?Ignore people like Micoo - people like him have their sexuality hanging by the thinnest of threads and something as innocuous as crying could tear the whole facade down.



lulz, my sexuality is rock solid brah

try to refrain from off topic nonsense in future

depends on what he's crying about if its something silly like his fingers got trapped in the door and it hurt or he fell down the stairs and broke some bones (nothing permanent) or cos of sports.... its not ok to cry. If its something deep like someone close to him died (no pets) then i dont mind him crying

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micoo

lulz, my sexuality is rock solid brahtry to refrain from off topic … lulz, my sexuality is rock solid brahtry to refrain from off topic nonsense in future


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i cry sometimes during movies, i cried recently at marley and me and 7 pounds....i also found myself waking up after a bad dream and i had tears coming out of my eyes which was odd haha

FilthAndFurry



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brb brah, got some stuff to do, will be back later if you want to continue draggin the thread off topic
Edited by: "micoo" 5th Sep 2010

Banned

i cry alot of white tears

micoo

try to refrain from off topic nonsense in future



Try to refrain from homophobia in future...

I cried at marley and me too, most people who have owned a dog must have at least welled up

Banned

Too many homogays in this thread.

Banned

acecatcher3

i cry sometimes during movies, i cried recently at marley and me and 7 … i cry sometimes during movies, i cried recently at marley and me and 7 pounds....i also found myself waking up after a bad dream and i had tears coming out of my eyes which was odd haha



I cried at 7 pounds also.... after realising that was 90 minutes I'd never get back from watching a film you'd recommended. (Marley and Me was a sad one though... mostly I guess from having a Goldy!)

Hmmm.... Is it Ok to cry? Well I have to admit Ive seen an awful lot of fake (and probably some real) tears recently on this forum. Mostly from one member as it happens! X)

dcx_badass

Haha, my friend told me not to watch Marley and Me because it's too … Haha, my friend told me not to watch Marley and Me because it's too emotional lol.



ha well i wasnt crying out loud, but tears were coming down my face whilst i was thinking "o no what a poor dog" tis a good film watch it.

sancho1983

I cried at marley and me too, most people who have owned a dog must have … I cried at marley and me too, most people who have owned a dog must have at least welled up



agreed, unless you enjoy thowing a few puppies in the river occasionally.
guv

I cried at 7 pounds also.... after realising that was 90 minutes I'd … I cried at 7 pounds also.... after realising that was 90 minutes I'd never get back from watching a film you'd recommended. (Marley and Me was a sad one though... mostly I guess from having a Goldy!)



your wife isnt that old guvvy, bit harsh calling her a dog also (boom boom)...still stand by my 7pounds reccomendation, avoid dear john like the plague though, waste of time and extremely boring.

Better to cry than keep it in I'd say

Banned

I'm too scared to watch Marley and me in case I cry and it turns me into a homogay.

watch Will Smith's 'in the pursuit of Happiness' and I'm sure a grown man will shed a tear both in happiness and sadness. What a film and a story, just finished watching it on TV. Saying that also watching I am legend when Will Smith has to kill his dog is an emotional spot, especially for those with dogs.

A man crying proves he has feelings, empathy and is human.
Edited by: "simplyjimbo" 5th Sep 2010

simplyjimbo

watch Will Smith's 'in the pursuit of Happiness' and I'm sure a grown man … watch Will Smith's 'in the pursuit of Happiness' and I'm sure a grown man will shed a tear both in happiness and sadness. What a film and a story, just finished watching it on TV


Just finished watching it also, it's a great film & also sad

simplyjimbo

watch Will Smith's 'in the pursuit of Happiness' and I'm sure a grown man … watch Will Smith's 'in the pursuit of Happiness' and I'm sure a grown man will shed a tear both in happiness and sadness. What a film and a story, just finished watching it on TV. Saying that also watching I am legend when Will Smith has to kill his dog is an emotional spot, especially for those with dogs.A man crying proves he has feelings, empathy and is human.



That film did not make me cry lol, was a cracking movie though. Pearl harbour was the only film that ever made me cry, im not even sure why since its not even a sad movie X)

It does not take crying to prove a man has feelings etc
Edited by: "micoo" 5th Sep 2010

micoo

That film did not make me cry lol, was a cracking movie though. Pearl … That film did not make me cry lol, was a cracking movie though. Pearl harbour was the only film that ever made me cry, im not even sure why since its not even a sad movie X)It does not take crying to prove a man has feelings etc



so u did cry post 13?
u're well gay

Banned

I don't cry at any films really, but one exception was the 2006 classic "Shes the man"

magicbeans

so u did cry post 13? u're well gay



na, pearl harbour came out when i was 10/11 (cant remember which), saw it when i was 12
Edited by: "micoo" 5th Sep 2010

vibeone

I don't cry at any films really, but one exception was the 2006 classic … I don't cry at any films really, but one exception was the 2006 classic "Shes the man"



X)

haha....oh crap thought i had u there micoo!!

oh and should blokes cry...... hubby cried when i had my first kid....i dont rmbr it..was too doped up. if i saw him crying i would have smacked him one and told him to man up!













i kid!

tinkerbell28

HAHAHAHA! That happened last time and in my doped up state I promised him … HAHAHAHA! That happened last time and in my doped up state I promised him another, this time I swear no amount of tears will make me promise him that again, ever.


X)

Dumbest question ever.
External genitalia and social stigma has nothing to do with emotional state and working tear ducts.

master_chief

Is it physical pain we're talking about or mental? Physical pain is … Is it physical pain we're talking about or mental? Physical pain is obviously a no no to cry to.



The obvious exception being a kick in the pills. oO

vibeone

I'm too scared to watch Marley and me in case I cry and it turns me into … I'm too scared to watch Marley and me in case I cry and it turns me into a homogay.



"Turns" you?? Surely you mean "outs" you??
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