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    Lesbians.....

    Just read an article about Cynthia Nixon, the woman from SATC who is a lesbian.

    Now has anyone actually seen what her partner looks like?

    Now to my question, if you were a lesbian would you be with a really pretty girl or a butch girl?

    Surely if you say your a lesbian and your with a butch girl your more bi???

    I'm looking for serious comments here, and I'm not taking the piss, I'm truly trying to understand.

    Pics of her fiancee to follow...

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    Original Poster

    pic..http://www.insidesocal.com/outinhollywood/,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,nixon.jpg

    Oh dear. :-(

    Original Poster

    thesaint;5247354

    Oh dear. :-(



    what?

    If I were a lesbian I'd be with someone I love and respect and who feels the same about me. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.......

    http://ecx.images-amazon.com/images/I/51PHI8u8A1L._SL500_AA280_.jpghttp://s.bebo.com/app-image/7927891318/5411656627/PROFILE/i.quizzaz.com/img/q/u/08/05/31/austin-powers.jpg

    Interesting thread.....:roll:

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    i wouldn't do either of the pig ugly men.

    Original Poster

    Yeah I undestand that beauty isnt everything and thats not really what i'm trying to say.

    I just dont understand why a lesbian would want to be with someone who on the outside looked like a man.

    Maybe its because shes been married before?

    people from Lesbos are actually called Lesbians.

    sorry as im a guy i couldnt seriously answer your question.

    Original Poster

    manchesterjim;5247396

    people from Lesbos are actually called Lesbians.sorry as im a guy i … people from Lesbos are actually called Lesbians.sorry as im a guy i couldnt seriously answer your question.



    I have more questions but I dunno whats allowed lol.

    choc1969;5247367

    If I were a lesbian I'd be with someone I love and respect and who feels … If I were a lesbian I'd be with someone I love and respect and who feels the same about me. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.......



    +1.

    OP, are you a Lesbian?

    AshleyRFC;5247395

    Yeah I undestand that beauty isnt everything and thats not really what … Yeah I undestand that beauty isnt everything and thats not really what i'm trying to say.I just dont understand why a lesbian would want to be with someone who on the outside looked like a man.Maybe its because shes been married before?



    probably dont feel 100% comfortable being a lesbian and prefer their partner to look more masculine

    Nah - thats a bloke - surely?? If not a bloke locked in a womans body!? :?

    surreal :thinking:


    Doesnt really matter - as long as they are happy...

    Original Poster

    bazzaric;5247408

    +1.OP, are you a Lesbian?



    lol no, just curious as to how a lesbians mind works.

    Surely its a case of who you are atrracted to overall - not just looks but the whole package

    But I can see where you are coming from OP

    Stereotypes abound.

    So what about straight guys with overweight partners?

    How about straight women who go for the muscular male?

    Or gay men who don't look like whatever image it is you have in your ahead about what gay men look like who date similar looking men?

    Ok I dare you to phone them up and ask the questions and then post the answers:)
    llgs.org.uk/

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    Liddle ol' me;5247435

    Stereotypes abound. So what about straight guys with overweight … Stereotypes abound. So what about straight guys with overweight partners?How about straight women who go for the muscular male?Or gay men who don't look like whatever image it is you have in your ahead about what gay men look like who date similar looking men?



    I just figured if you were a lesbian its because you didnt want to be with a man, so why go out with someone who looks like one.

    I'm not trying to be rude, was just wondering what others thought.

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    AshleyRFC;5247395

    I just dont understand why a lesbian would want to be with someone who on … I just dont understand why a lesbian would want to be with someone who on the outside looked like a man.



    I wouldn't exactly say she looks like a man.

    If you mean the clothes, I've seen men wearing skirts.

    AshleyRFC;5247420

    lol no, just curious as to how a lesbians mind works.



    why....are they aliens :?

    AshleyRFC;5247456

    I just figured if you were a lesbian its because you didnt want to be … I just figured if you were a lesbian its because you didnt want to be with a man, so why go out with someone who looks like one.I'm not trying to be rude, was just wondering what others thought.



    they both look female to me.....

    I really don't see what you're getting at :thinking:

    The world isn't full of size 12, blond, blue eyed, tall people :roll:

    I mean......Ricky Gervais manages to get laid :whistling:

    Personally, I think i'd go more for a Carmen Electra type....

    I think that what ever want to do or be with is fine but the most important is to be true to youself!

    She doesn't really help herself to look feminine does she?

    http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_qsjlYtt8u4E/SFiqRTrZ2yI/AAAAAAAABEI/Sbwvbak1YXc/s400/ChristineMarinoni.jpg

    AshleyRFC;5247456

    I just figured if you were a lesbian its because you didnt want to be … I just figured if you were a lesbian its because you didnt want to be with a man, so why go out with someone who looks like one.I'm not trying to be rude, was just wondering what others thought.



    I realise you are asking a serious question, but if you just take sexual attraction for what it is, then there aren't really any questions left to ask. (well, kinda!).

    It's a complicated question to ask why Person A is sexually attracted to Person B and/or not sexually attracted by Person C.

    The question is the same whether you ask it about someone who is gay or someone who is straight. You shouldn't really have to distinguish them.

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    greg_68;5247517

    She doesn't really help herself to look feminine does she?



    I know - she's not even in the kitchen.:thumbsup:

    choc1969;5247488

    I really don't see what you're getting at :thinking:



    That makes 2 of us.

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    FilthAndFurry;5247542

    I know - she's not even in the kitchen.:thumbsup:


    Init funny how you can't disagree with someone on one thread, and get on famously in another rep left!

    I think the most important thing in any relationship is how happy they actually are together and if they get along, the appearance is irrelevant but obviously, you do have to be attracted to your partner. :thumbsup:

    When I was younger, I really did wanna have a 3some with a couple girls but they always used to say they want a second guy involved :roll:

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    I think the problem is the narrow definitions of sexuality some people have.

    Maybe it's the clothes, except women have been wearing suits in the city since the 80s. Maybe it's the hair, except short hair is fashionable.

    Maybe it's the fact she isn't classically beautiful yet she's with someone famous and tiny little brains fed a diet of Heat can't contemplate one of the holy gods of hollywood daring to date one of the 'normals'.

    shopaholic_blond;5247513

    Personally, I think i'd go more for a Carmen Electra type....



    I have a thing for Doris Day :oops:

    i dont like lesbians or gays

    FilthAndFurry;5247600

    tiny little brains fed a diet of Heat



    Lol :thumbsup:

    ;-) very nice..i wonder who is on top in that relationship...the stick insect or the fat rugby player...just go shopping and get 2 extra thick cucumbers!

    Interestingly I can't think of many mega rich people that go out with mingers of the opposite sex.

    Can you?

    o lawd she ugggggggllllllleeeeeeeeeeeeeee!

    if i was lesbian i cant see why id go for a bloke wanna be....chances are shes gotta male personality as well!

    thesaint;5247354

    Oh dear. :-(



    AshleyRFC;5247366

    what?



    This:

    vibeone;5247391

    i wouldn't do either of the pig ugly men.



    greg_68;5247517

    She doesn't really help herself to look feminine does she?



    thomasc123;5247618

    i dont like lesbians or gays



    Mr Weasle;5247652

    ;-) very nice..i wonder who is on top in that relationship...the stick … ;-) very nice..i wonder who is on top in that relationship...the stick insect or the fat rugby player...just go shopping and get 2 extra thick cucumbers!



    magicbeans;5247691

    o lawd she ugggggggllllllleeeeeeeeeeeeeee!if i was lesbian i cant see why … o lawd she ugggggggllllllleeeeeeeeeeeeeee!if i was lesbian i cant see why id go for a bloke wanna be....chances are shes gotta male personality as well!

    Banned

    thomasc123;5247618

    i dont like lesbians or gays



    You say that now but when the soreness dies down...

    well me and my Dh had this convo other day about gay men. Why are some feminine and some not. And most the time a feminine gay is with a butch one.
    It like a hetro relationship to me. One takes the male role and one the female? Maybe.

    i have total respect for those gay who are proud of it.

    A tad off topic... but I remember once where my friends and I were chatting and we were discussing how couples end up together...
    So we got chatting and we just didnt understand why one of our beautiful educated popular funny friends had ended up with such a loser of an unemployed waste of space guy... he really is a waste of space.. anyway...

    And one of them said that they didnt understand why there are so many good looking women out there with such mediocre men (and not just the way they look).

    I dont understand attraction, its like... are fat people attracted to fat people and are people who are not really beautiful attracted to other people similar to them? Because I once heard a woman say "just because im ugly, doesnt mean im attracted to ugly"... or maybe it was on a tv show, who knows...

    But yeah, im confused...
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