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    Letting someone down gently

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    Been getting a lot of texts from this lovely girl who is a friend of a friend. She's the sweetest, most genuine person but she's a bit chunky and I'm just not interested.

    What's the best way to let her down without upsetting her? Or should I string her along for a while and see if she's willing to change?

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    give her a gym membership, she will get upset and leave you alone

    best to ignore ,no response and she will soon catch on m8

    singer

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    in 4 the lulz

    You're not interested only cos she is a bit chunky?

    spammed/reported for trolling

    Omg how shallow are you? You ain't worthy of her:(((

    vickywil5;7341368

    Omg how shallow are you? You ain't worthy of her:(((



    some lads don't like bigger lasses

    chunky????
    what like a kit kat.ok at 1st but sickly after a bit.........

    Or should I string her along for a while and see if she's willing to … Or should I string her along for a while and see if she's willing to change?



    change as in lose weight? ...lol

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    She deserves better

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    is this like a game.....spot the fatties

    I like my women with a bit of meat on em :thumbsup:

    Marina;7341353

    You're not interested only cos she is a bit chunky?



    vickywil5;7341368

    Omg how shallow are you? You ain't worthy of her:(((



    lol thin girls>>>

    scrumpypaul;7341380

    some lads don't like bigger lasses



    Yes but surely he could of took this in to consideration when he first started chatting to her, instead of stringing her along and then wanting to dump her cause she is big.:x

    singer;7341347

    best to ignore ,no response and she will soon catch on m8 singer



    Best advice, ignore and dont try to edge her along for sometime, things might get ugly along the way.

    black gerbil1;7341391

    lol thin girls>>>



    I am

    dont ignore her thts nasty!

    has she actually asked u out?? if not dont string her along txt her back saying exactly wot u mean dont leave it open 2 "c wot happens"

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    She's more likely stringing you alone. Or doesn't she realise that you're not straight?

    Go for the old chestnut - "I like you, but only as a friend".

    Or three magic words: "I am gay"

    What's the best way to let her down without upsetting her?



    FnF....give her my number :thumbsup:

    saayinla;7341402

    Best advice, ignore and dont try to edge her along for sometime, things … Best advice, ignore and dont try to edge her along for sometime, things might get ugly along the way.



    dont ignore thts just plain childish!

    vickywil5;7341400

    Yes but surely he could of took this in to consideration when he first … Yes but surely he could of took this in to consideration when he first started chatting to her, instead of stringing her along and then wanting to dump her cause she is big.:x



    perhaps he simply saw her as a friend? should he not have talked to her?

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    vickywil5;7341400

    Yes but surely he could of took this in to consideration when he first … Yes but surely he could of took this in to consideration when he first started chatting to her, instead of stringing her along and then wanting to dump her cause she is big.:x



    I've only met her a couple of times and I didn't use my moves on her - she just took a shine to me.

    I don't want to get her hopes up for anything more than us being friends at this stage.

    But she has mentioned that her new year's resolution would be to lose some weight so I don't want to discount it as an option totally.
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