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    My mother in law is okay, it's just my Mum is a bit of a ****

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    It's true she never EVER calls me to see if I'm alright. At my wedding she hugged me crying saying I'm her favourite son, and she's ever so proud of me. Can be months before I speak to her and it's me calling her!

    Anyone else got okay mother in laws?

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    Women's brains melt once they've had kids!

    my mother in law is an interfering old bag-all the other son in laws take her nagging and say nowt back to her because they want to keep the peace.

    she never comes here tho because I have no interest in kow towing to her and she knows it-the gossiping,know it all old trout can go and poison someone elses household with her nonsense.

    last conversation I had with her was 15 years ago when I told her to stfu!

    suits me fine tho!

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    I am not that close to my mum.

    She sends me emails and I call on her occasionally but she doesn't live near me.

    I always send her cards and she sends them me.

    She moved away when I was 16 and I feel like I lost my mum then.

    We stayed in touch by letter but she seems to not like the phone.

    She won't answer it and just checks to see who has rung.

    I would never ask her for anything because I have stood on my own 2 feet for a long time.

    Trickyjabs;7901044

    Women's brains melt once they've had kids!


    Screw you! I'm perfectly sane

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    Trickyjabs;7901044

    Women's brains melt once they've had kids!



    I would be well screwed then because I am already a brainless idiot

    Lulu'sMammy;7901051

    Screw you! I'm perfectly sane




    matter of opinion:whistling:

    whatsThePoint;7901018

    Never spoken to my mother in law But only been married 5 years


    :giggle:

    why do MEN bitch.......honestly nothing better to do?

    Trickyjabs;7901044

    Women's brains melt once they've had kids!



    Well I dont know about that:-D but i've spoken to some real morons in my time
    from both genders sometimes"makes me think how the human race survived this long":roll::whistling:

    im very close to my mum, i speak to her everyday and my partners mother is lovely, maybe its just the men who dont like the mother in laws lol

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    s8fcc;7901131

    why do MEN .......honestly nothing better to do?



    easy love :?

    s8fcc;7901131

    why do MEN bitch.......honestly nothing better to do?



    LOL


    Ironic

    I love my mil she is the bees knees

    Honest she looks out for me and loves me to bits. SHe always takes my side agains DH :lol: (come to think of it so do his sisters :giggle: )

    I'm really luck to have 'em to be honest only got my sis left now on my side so I need someone to make up the numbers lol

    My mother in law would have married me if she could. we got on great

    Give your mum a decent chance on Monther's Day - organise a family meal or something. If she still doesn't respond to you after that you need to think about focusing on yourself and your own wife and family more, as she clearly is focusing on herself. What is she like with your other brothers? If she is like that with all of you then that may be just how she is. How does she get on with your wife? Is she afraid of treading on her toes a bit do you think? She might not want to become the 'big bad interefering MIL' to your wife and maybe is giving you a bit of space. Try the mum day thing and see how it goes. Or text her in a jokey way and say 'yes, i'm still alive thanks' . See what gives. Good luck!

    Lulu'sMammy;7901051

    Screw you!



    I knew you'd come around eventually! ;-)

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    My mother in law loves me and I think she is one of the best in laws ever. She is crackers, we have a right good laugh.

    I have always joked to my wife that she loves me more and sure enough at Xmas, we get a card from her saying Merry Christmas to Son + DAUGHTER IN LAW - Enough Said.

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    sillybilly;7901748

    Give your mum a decent chance on Monther's Day - organise a family meal … Give your mum a decent chance on Monther's Day - organise a family meal or something. If she still doesn't respond to you after that you need to think about focusing on yourself and your own wife and family more, as she clearly is focusing on herself. What is she like with your other brothers? If she is like that with all of you then that may be just how she is. How does she get on with your wife? Is she afraid of treading on her toes a bit do you think? She might not want to become the 'big bad interefering MIL' to your wife and maybe is giving you a bit of space. Try the mum day thing and see how it goes. Or text her in a jokey way and say 'yes, i'm still alive thanks' . See what gives. Good luck!



    Well when we moved into our first house her Mum came round all the time and helped to decorate and do the gardening, even my Mum's parents have been round to help but my Mum hasn't been round once to help :thinking:

    At our wedding my father in law was doing an amazing speech he went to thank everyone for their hard work especially my mother in law who done a huge job in making 5 bridesmaids dresses, done loads in the church with the flowers and decorating at the venue, My Mum had made a really nice 3 tier cake - she butts in thinking he had forgotten her, was quite embarrassing.

    Even getting the cake we wanted I had to write a huge text message (10 texts long) how she used to be really nice when I was little and she had some how changed to be really aggressive in the way she talks to people, it's upsetting because she did used to be so nice but now she says really nasty things about my brothers girlfriends.

    Saying that she did used to beat me and my brother with kitchen utensils and slippers if we tried getting up in the night to go to toilet, we got so scared in the end and just urinated in the corner of the room. That was when my Dad left though and she did offer to send us away to strangers.
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