My next "would you?" ......your spouse snogs another person...

(thanks to Emmerdale again lol) ...do you take them back??

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Original Poster

????????

nope last bird tht cheated on me (pulled a "mate" of mine) i pumped one of her best mates :-D

revenge is sweet

what would you do LLM

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micoo;8676014

nope last bird tht cheated on me (pulled a "mate" of mine) i pumped one … nope last bird tht cheated on me (pulled a "mate" of mine) i pumped one of her best mates :-D revenge is sweet



:w00t:


lol at "pumped" :-D

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bossyboots;8676028

what would you do LLM


No......any betrayal is enough for me to say "see ya"....and i'd also add a few extras like "well you were crap in the sack anyway" "my yorkshire terrier has a bigger and fatter weener" etc etc

whatsThePoint;8676035

your online !! don;t read her other thread :oops:



Hi You :-D..........had a great weekend enjoying the sun so not been in house much:) Yeah av seen her other thread lol

Depends...did he get faceraped?

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angelfairee;8676061

Depends...did he get faceraped?


eh??? :thinking:

Banned

I've no problem forgiving it, the making up she'd have to do for months...

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master_chief;8676068

I've no problem forgiving it, the making up she'd have to do for months...


as in how would you fix it? Endless Bj's ect are we talking?

Banned

Lulu'sMammy;8676080

as in how would you fix it? Endless Bj's ect are we talking?



The world doesn't revolve around sex but yes that 3way will definitely be had :thumbsup:

Lulu'sMammy;8676067

eh??? :thinking:



did she jump at him, forcefully sticking her tongue in his month without giving him the chance to object

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micoo;8676123

did she jump at him, forcefully sticking her tongue in his month without … did she jump at him, forcefully sticking her tongue in his month without giving him the chance to object


Lol....no.

Banned

Circumstances make a big difference to my decision.

DLM;8676140

Circumstances make a big difference to my decision.



lol what circumstances? they pulled another person

Banned

micoo;8676147

lol what circumstances? they pulled another person



What if they had a one off with someone and are deeply upset about it also.

DLM;8676168

What if they had a one off with someone and are deeply upset about it … What if they had a one off with someone and are deeply upset about it also.



lol, the fact the regret it means nothing, they obvisously didnt at the time

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micoo;8676177

lol, the fact the regret it means nothing, they obvisously didnt at the … lol, the fact the regret it means nothing, they obvisously didnt at the time



They confess after several month's of guilt.

micoo;8676147

lol what circumstances? they pulled another person



:giggle:



I go out most Friday nights with my husband and our friends to the local. You can spot the single females a mile off as they are constantly "scanning" the room :lol: I am sure you single guys do it too, but think sometimes the females are a bit more obvious !!!!!! Alcohol def plays a part I think when philandering married folk go out on their own

DLM;8676186

They confess after several month's of guilt.



for me that changes nothing, they cheated, end of

Original Poster

They have still betrayed the one they are "suppose" to love and cherish.
I do see your point DLM, i will give you another example of this happening with a cousin of mine....she met a fella whilst out and exchanged numbers.
They were then texting back and forth for a while and arranged to go for a drink together.
They chatted, she didnt say she was in a relationship or had children, although the man told her he had a child and was single.
She then snogged him when they left.

What do you think in this case?

bossyboots;8676188

:giggle:I go out most Friday nights with my husband and our friends to … :giggle:I go out most Friday nights with my husband and our friends to the local. You can spot the single females a mile off as they are constantly "scanning" the room :lol: I am sure you single guys do it too, but think sometimes the females are a bit more obvious !!!!!! Alcohol def plays a part I think when philandering married folk go out on their own



guys are subtle about it, when i walk into a room, i could point out the hot ones, attempt (usually well) to point out the single hot ones, this takes one quick scan, litterally a few seconds and not obvious at all

Most guys are the same :lol:

Banned

micoo;8676197

for me that changes nothing, they cheated, end of



Some people have too much to lose because of a fling.

They prefer to talk it out and mend their relationship.

You might understand when you leave mummy and daddies place :-D

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Lulu'sMammy;8676200

They have still betrayed the one they are "suppose" to love and cherish. … They have still betrayed the one they are "suppose" to love and cherish. I do see your point DLM, i will give you another example of this happening with a cousin of mine....she met a fella whilst out and exchanged numbers.They were then texting back and forth for a while and arranged to go for a drink together.They chatted, she didnt say she was in a relationship or had children, although the man told her he had a child and was single.She then snogged him when they left.What do you think in this case?



Just a woman missing her single life.

It doesn't mean anything.

oh here we go:roll:

DLM;8676219

Some people have too much to lose because of a fling.They prefer to talk … Some people have too much to lose because of a fling.They prefer to talk it out and mend their relationship.You might understand when you leave mummy and daddies place :-D



then they shouldnt have done it in the first place, anyone who takes back a cheater deserves to be cheated in again

and even though its not ur business leaving my parents house would change nothing, i dont want a serious relationship, im happy to keep goin out on the ****, much easier

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DLM;8676229

Just a woman missing her single life.It doesn't mean anything.


Really? You would take your fella back if he was the "she" in this scenario? Would it not be on the back of your mind when you kiss him that those lips have been around somebody elses lips? This is a snog, not a peck were talking.
Your more a woman than me because i'll be honest, it would always be on my mind. If im faithful, i expect my OH to be also.

Lulu'sMammy;8676200

They have still betrayed the one they are "suppose" to love and cherish. … They have still betrayed the one they are "suppose" to love and cherish. I do see your point DLM, i will give you another example of this happening with a cousin of mine....she met a fella whilst out and exchanged numbers.They were then texting back and forth for a while and arranged to go for a drink together.They chatted, she didnt say she was in a relationship or had children, although the man told her he had a child and was single.She then snogged him when they left.What do you think in this case?



She was bang out of order - and mega disrespectful to her partner as well. If a relationship has gotten to that stage where u will look elsewhere - u have to either sit down and talk about it, or end it I think. I have never been cheated on, nor have I cheated, but know people its happened to, and the consequences are just devastating

micoo;8676123

did she jump at him, forcefully sticking her tongue in his month without … did she jump at him, forcefully sticking her tongue in his month without giving him the chance to object



That's the one.

It's not your fault if that happens.

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bossyboots;8676236

oh here we go:roll:


Post 24 Big baps....what would you do ;-):p

Lulu'sMammy;8676253

Really? You would take your fella back if he was the "she" in this … Really? You would take your fella back if he was the "she" in this scenario? Would it not be on the back of your mind when you kiss him that those lips have been around somebody elses lips? This is a snog, not a peck were talking.Your more a woman than me because i'll be honest, it would always be on my mind. If im faithful, i expect my OH to be also.



I think you have summed that up perfectly you know :thumbsup:

Lulu'sMammy;8676266

Post 24 Big baps....what would you do ;-):p



answered it !! Respect is everything in a relationship - and how can u be respectful to your OH if ur swapping saliva with someone else

Banned

micoo;8676247

then they shouldnt have done it in the first place, anyone who takes back … then they shouldnt have done it in the first place, anyone who takes back a cheater deserves to be cheated in againand even though its not ur business leaving my parents house would change nothing, i dont want a serious relationship, im happy to keep goin out on the ****, much easier



If you have spent many year's together have children etc..

A good chat on what went wrong will probably mend things.

Lulu'sMammy;8676253

Really? You would take your fella back if he was the "she" in this … Really? You would take your fella back if he was the "she" in this scenario? Would it not be on the back of your mind when you kiss him that those lips have been around somebody elses lips? This is a snog, not a peck were talking.Your more a woman than me because i'll be honest, it would always be on my mind. If im faithful, i expect my OH to be also.



I don't see it as important.

If he was seeing somebody several month's, year's etc...

Different story,

I wouldn't let anyone steal my man :-D

DLM;8676293

If you have spent many year's together have children etc..A good chat on … If you have spent many year's together have children etc..A good chat on what went wrong will probably mend things.



:lol: that makes it worse

Original Poster

There is 2 phrases i can come up with it then DLM...

1. Doormat
2. Dependant
Unfortunatly i would refuse to be No. 1.
I honestly don't know how relationships can be repaired after anything like that has happened. It would ALWAYS be there.

If its just a one off and a drunken snog then i would let it drop ,after all we all make mistakes but anything more then i would get rid.

When ive had partners you would be amazed how many people still try it on with you still , they see it as a challenge i guess , most people aint got many morals these days

Banned

micoo;8676303

:lol: that makes it worse



My parent's separated when I was 10.

I wouldn't leave my children without a father at home because of a fling.

Banned

A-n-d-y;8676322

If its just a one off and a drunken snog then i would let it drop ,after … If its just a one off and a drunken snog then i would let it drop ,after all we all make mistakes but anything more then i would get rid.



+1

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DLM;8676324

My parent's separated when I was 10.I wouldn't leave my children without … My parent's separated when I was 10.I wouldn't leave my children without a father at home because of a fling.


and then we come to the argument of "were only staying together for the sake of the kids"....
we only get one life, this aint a practice run. Everybody needs to be happy.

Lulu'sMammy;8676315

There is 2 phrases i can come up with it then DLM...1. Doormat2. … There is 2 phrases i can come up with it then DLM...1. Doormat2. DependantUnfortunatly i would refuse to be No. 1. I honestly don't know how relationships can be repaired after anything like that has happened. It would ALWAYS be there.



Yes I agree with that too. A snog is a betrayal.....full stop. The women who go with married men - and know that fact - are pathetic and am sure would hate it done to them.

DLM u say you would never let anyone steal your "man" - yet you have admitted to being with a married man - wonder if his wife knew about that - like would you know if your "man" done it to you.

I think a lot of woman who have affairs with married men are insecure - Fern has posted up her story and she felt like that at the time
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