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    If you had been emailing and texting someone for 2-3 weeks and they were evasive about sending a pic,although they'd asked for AND seen one of you,would it make you wonder why ?

    Your thoughts please..........

    130 Comments

    they not who they say they are

    shanecr;4652452

    they not who they say they are



    starsparkle2311;4652455

    they're ugly?lol



    +1

    ha ha ha ha .......

    Seems the internet is the place for lying and duping sometimes .....or being really 2 faced behind peoples backs ......Its happened to me also .....:-D

    It is suspicious, maybe they are fugly?

    Plus don't put too much stock in a photo anyways easy enough to search google for a pic

    ugly, married, 13 year old, windup merchant, pervert, opposite sex to what they claim...etc etc take your pick lol

    Either they're ugly or not the who they say they are or embarrassed or concerned u might show someone else etc..

    Damm toooooooooo slow - as above lol

    what kind of pic did you send them ....?????:w00t:

    starsparkle2311;4652473

    "sometimes":whistling:who you been asking for pics from?lol




    No some others who may seem friendly to you, find out you have trouble in the marriage then have the cheek to try and hit on your wife .....real friendly !:whistling:

    Original Poster

    BTW not a rude pic!

    They just wanted to see your norks.

    edit: just seen the one above.

    Original Poster

    alnbowes;4652482

    No some others who may seem friendly to you, find out you have trouble in … No some others who may seem friendly to you, find out you have trouble in the marriage then have the cheek to try and hit on your wife .....real friendly !:whistling:



    Thats online forums for ya:w00t:

    deb8z;4652485

    BTW not a rude pic!



    imo its pretty dumb to send any pic over the internet, like the people who plaster their mugs all over this site, no good can come of it haha

    Titchimp;4652490

    They were hoping to see your norks.

    Maybe they're embarressed about the way they look:
    http://www.babble.com/CS/blogs/famecrawler/2008/10/23-End/michael-jackson-neverland.jpg

    kungfu;4652508

    imo its pretty dumb to send any pic over the internet, like the people … imo its pretty dumb to send any pic over the internet, like the people who plaster their mugs all over this site, no good can come of it haha



    especially when its even less private than facebook .....

    Original Poster

    alnbowes;4652515

    especially when its even less private than facebook .....



    How do ya work that out,anyone can see a profile pic on Facebook,its hardly less private.

    alnbowes;4652515

    especially when its even less private than facebook .....



    lol yep you dont even need to sign up on here to see threads, i seriously lol when people post pics woth their faces on, silly mistake, once its out there thats it you cant just delete it from the thread and its gone

    Original Poster

    kungfu;4652529

    lol yep you dont even need to sign up on here to see threads, i seriously … lol yep you dont even need to sign up on here to see threads, i seriously lol when people post pics woth their faces on, silly mistake, once its out there thats it you cant just delete it from the thread and its gone




    Are you also scared to cross the road too on the off chance you may get hit by a bus!!

    "Natversion1"
    :shock: And I thought u cared!!

    Banned

    I used to be really good friends with someone over the internet for like 2 years never once saw her photo didn't stop me being friends with her. Who could pretend to be a nice person for 2 years? Had to break it off with her though cause she fell in love with me :roll:

    starsparkle2311;4652539

    oh i get you, yes there's a few people on here i do like, but I don't get … oh i get you, yes there's a few people on here i do like, but I don't get myself too involved (pm's etc) with anyone, i find it hard enough trusting people in "real" life, let alone on here.hope your troubles aren't too bad:thumbsup:



    agreed, why anyone would consider people off a forum a 'friend' and confide in them and send pics etc absolutely bewilders me haha

    Original Poster

    lumoruk;4652554

    I used to be really good friends with someone over the internet for like … I used to be really good friends with someone over the internet for like 2 years never once saw her photo didn't stop me being friends with her. Who could pretend to be a nice person for 2 years? Had to break it off with her though cause she fell in love with me :roll:



    BUT did you ask for a photo though and received "excuses"

    hannah19790;4652553

    "Natversion1":shock: And I thought u cared!!



    You know online people are just weird, I'd never have a virual friendship :thumbsup:

    Banned

    kungfu;4652561

    agreed, why anyone would consider people off a forum a 'friend' and … agreed, why anyone would consider people off a forum a 'friend' and confide in them and send pics etc absolutely bewilders me haha



    I don't believe forum has been mentioned, perhaps it was a chat room :?

    deb8z;4652550

    Are you also scared to cross the road too on the off chance you may get … Are you also scared to cross the road too on the off chance you may get hit by a bus!!



    lol how is that in any way a good comparison? i look both ways when i cross...maybe you should look both ways before sending personal info and pics to strangers :thumbsup:

    lumoruk;4652575

    I don't believe forum has been mentioned, perhaps it was a chat room :?




    difference? still full of people pretending to be nicer than they actually are lol

    Banned

    deb8z;4652567

    BUT did you ask for a photo though and received "excuses"



    No, no excuses she didn't lie just said "I'm not sending you one" we talked on the phone a few times. Didn't matter to me she was really nice and I didn't care what she looked like

    maybe it is your X :w00t:

    Original Poster

    lumoruk;4652583

    No, no excuses she didn't lie just said "I'm not sending you one" we … No, no excuses she didn't lie just said "I'm not sending you one" we talked on the phone a few times



    Indeed,i'd rather someone said that to me.:thumbsup:

    natversion1;4652570

    You know online people are just weird, I'd never have a virual friendship … You know online people are just weird, I'd never have a virual friendship :thumbsup:



    Is a 'virual' like a virtual only more... 'friendly'??:-D

    Original Poster

    Plenty of people go out have a few drinks in a club ,bar etc,meet someone and go home with them at the end of the night,i don't see that differs much to "meeting" a person online,ya still don't know the person.

    This isn't a debate about the rights and wrongs of "meeting" online though.

    hannah19790;4652605

    Is a 'virual' like a virtual only more... 'friendly'??:-D



    Hmmm sorry my online stalker was PM'ing me and I made a spelling error

    Original Poster

    Reasons started with,i'll dig a picture out,then it was camera on the phone was broken when i said take a new one,then it was,need a haircut.

    natversion1;4652624

    Hmmm sorry my online stalker was PM'ing me and I made a spelling error



    U go one of those too?:? I can multi task though:-D

    There can be a number of reasons, maybe he's not confident in his own appearance, as a lot of people use the internet to "pretend" they're something they're not...not saying anything about BG1 and the rest. lol

    My ex for example, didn't like anyone seeing my pics either, regardless if it was male or female......she was going on like I was Bi and everyone was a potential thread. :giggle:
    This could be a similar scenario but in most cases, people don't send pics because they're not what they attempt to portray themselves as.

    Please note......that's not directed at BG1 again.

    Banned

    deb8z;4652631

    Reasons started with,i'll dig a picture out,then it was camera on the … Reasons started with,i'll dig a picture out,then it was camera on the phone was broken when i said take a new one,then it was,need a haircut.



    Sounds like he's worried you won't fancy him

    hannah19790;4652633

    U go one of those too?:? I can multi task though:-D



    Yeah I've heard something like that about you :thumbsup:

    Original Poster

    I'm glad its not just me being suspicious,thats why i started the thread to get various opinions.

    deb8z;4652618

    Plenty of people go out have a few drinks in a club ,bar etc,meet someone … Plenty of people go out have a few drinks in a club ,bar etc,meet someone and go home with them at the end of the night,i don't see that differs much to "meeting" a person online,ya still don't know the person.This isn't a debate about the rights and wrongs of "meeting" online though.



    lol at least in that scenario you can both instantly see if you fancy each other physically instead of him hiding behind a barrier spying on you

    natversion1;4652647

    Yeah I've heard something like that about you :thumbsup:



    :shock: U made that up!!:p
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