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    paranoid? am i reading into this too much?

    so ive been chatting to someone for a couple years now on and off. we are back on speaking terms and he says he is interested in me and wants to take me out but when i look on his facebook page tonight i see this message from a lass 'Thank you for the lovely message you are great too. i know i cant believe after all these years we have got back in touch... it will not be long to go now ;-) yey yey yey x x x' whats annoying is he has obviously messaged her before texting me all night. is he secretly a rat? or am i being paranoid over nothing. no i havent met him but i want to and he says he wants to meet me too, now i see this and i dont know what to do

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    Don't get me started,most are game players.

    Keeping his options open i'd say,lining a few women up!

    sorry but, whats he done wrong?

    Banned

    Dont hate the player. hate the game.

    ^ Tru dat

    on a serious note though... its not like you two are dating is it? he can have some fun while he is single no harm there. maybe just friendly banter (pahahaha yeh right) nah seriously i think your just looking into it to much .

    avoid him!!x

    tinkerbell28;4697792

    Double post, I agree:thumbsup:




    i agree, but can't really see what's wrong with it, until you meet up and start a relationship why not?

    Original Poster

    so should i still go ahead and meet him? hes not your typical lads lad going out drinking all the time and stuff like that which is why this message has me confused. i cant look on her page to see what hes said cos its private and shes in manchester network and im in newcastle network

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    wonder-baby;4697811

    i agree, but can't really see what's wrong with it, until you meet up … i agree, but can't really see what's wrong with it, until you meet up and start a relationship why not?



    yeah i was sort of thinkig along those lines, but at the same time i have been shat on in the past and its made me so wary

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    donnaraine;4697815

    so should i still go ahead and meet him? hes not your typical lads lad … so should i still go ahead and meet him? hes not your typical lads lad going out drinking all the time and stuff like that which is why this message has me confused. i cant look on her page to see what hes said cos its private and shes in manchester network and im in newcastle network



    thats doesnt matter you can still add them. or get someone else to add her so it doesnt look suspicious lol

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    DangerGod;4697842

    thats doesnt matter you can still add them. or get someone else to add … thats doesnt matter you can still add them. or get someone else to add her so it doesnt look suspicious lol



    but isnt that crazy stalkerish behaviour? lol

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    donnaraine;4697853

    but isnt that crazy stalkerish behaviour? lol



    yes but its healthy behaviour lol

    Banned

    dont hate the playa just play the game

    DangerGod;4697867

    yes but its healthy behaviour lol



    OMG ya nutcase lol

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    DangerGod;4697867

    yes but its healthy behaviour lol



    lol nooooo i cant do that. and im not going to start asking him who she is, i mean we arent seeing each other so he can do what he wants but just makes me think again about meeting himand has me wondering what he said to her

    The guy is only after one thing, just go an meet him

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    makershaker;4697912

    The guy is only after one thing, just go an meet him



    whats the one thing?

    donnaraine;4697916

    whats the one thing?



    Wants his end away

    Without sounding harsh I think your being a little paranoid. You arent together right? So he is just a single fella whos having fun chatting to girls. Now if you were together and this happened, thas an entirely different story...
    If you dont feel comfortable meeting with him after reading that then don't go as the night will just be really awkward

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    makershaker;4697924

    Wants his end away



    lmao

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    tinkerbell28;4697922

    I do not what you mean. I know your not dating etc, etc and it should not … I do not what you mean. I know your not dating etc, etc and it should not matter, but it does, doesn't it? Almost like how can I describe it, you don't want to be part of a pick n mix, do you? Like you could be anyone, it's whoever says yes first kind of thing? I know that sounds bad, but I know what I mean as I would feel the same lol.



    yeah it does matter. suppose only time will tell

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    hunter82;4697931

    Without sounding harsh I think your being a little paranoid. You arent … Without sounding harsh I think your being a little paranoid. You arent together right? So he is just a single fella whos having fun chatting to girls. Now if you were together and this happened, thas an entirely different story...If you dont feel comfortable meeting with him after reading that then don't go as the night will just be really awkward



    so do i act as if it didnt happen? give him a chance but maybe keep my eyes open? it does sound dodgy though especially after some of the stuff hes said to me. oh if i was seeing him trust me by now his wil ly would be in a vice lol

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    makershaker;4697924

    Wants his end away



    well if thats all hes after hes not getting it! im not like that lol

    donnaraine;4697974

    well if thats all hes after hes not getting it! im not like that lol




    I am,can i have his number!:-D

    donnaraine;4697965

    so do i act as if it didnt happen? give him a chance but maybe keep my … so do i act as if it didnt happen? give him a chance but maybe keep my eyes open? it does sound dodgy though especially after some of the stuff hes said to me. oh if i was seeing him trust me by now his wil ly would be in a vice lol



    You could just jokingly ask what the message was about, he leading you both on type thing.
    I couldnt just keep quiet I have a big mouth lol

    hunter82;4697996

    You could just jokingly ask what the message was about, he leading you … You could just jokingly ask what the message was about, he leading you both on type thing.I couldnt just keep quiet I have a big mouth lol




    Thats me,i'd end up saying something!

    deb8z;4697989

    I am,can i have his number!:-D



    :w00t:

    deb8z;4697989

    I am,can i have his number!:-D



    :w00t:

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    deb8z;4697989

    I am,can i have his number!:-D



    haha dont tempt me to give it out, i would actually find that really funny lol

    donnaraine;4698020

    haha dont tempt me to give it out, i would actually find that really … haha dont tempt me to give it out, i would actually find that really funny lol



    ooooh like a love honey trap, catch him good an proper :w00t:

    hunter82;4698026

    ooooh like a love honey trap, catch him good an proper :w00t:




    I never thought of that pmsl !!

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    hunter82;4698026

    ooooh like a love honey trap, catch him good an proper :w00t:



    noooooooo dont tempt me! good idea though

    donnaraine;4698038

    noooooooo dont tempt me! good idea though



    fabulous idea if I do say so myself lol :thumbsup:

    Original Poster

    thing is he was offline when that message was sent so he hasnt seen it yet, think i will just keep an eye on his page for a few days see if she sends anymore

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    hunter82;4698049

    fabulous idea if I do say so myself lol :thumbsup:



    you volunteering? tell me how the convo would go and i'll think about it lol

    donnaraine;4698056

    you volunteering? tell me how the convo would go and i'll think about it … you volunteering? tell me how the convo would go and i'll think about it lol



    it would have to be censored huni :thumbsup:
    pmsl no I am a very happyily married woman pmsl I was thinking more......
    someone else...... :whistling:

    Men can be so thick,i was seeing this guy once,told me he was single and he was acting NOT single,i looked him up on Friends Reuinted,he was on there complete with a recent profile saying he was married,i confronted him and he said,we're just sharing the house we're splitting up!

    There were a few choice words and i said goodbye,but not as politely!

    Ya can't set him up thats too mean.

    what are you looking for, night of passion, fun or serious. Why not meet him,have a laugh and take it from there.

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    hunter82;4698069

    it would have to be censored huni :thumbsup:pmsl no I am a very happyily … it would have to be censored huni :thumbsup:pmsl no I am a very happyily married woman pmsl I was thinking more......someone else...... :whistling:



    haha i couldnt do it anyway incase he found out it was me, but sometimes i wish i did have guts to do stuff like that. like i say time will tell

    deb8z;4698081

    Men can be so thick,i was seeing this guy once,told me he was single and … Men can be so thick,i was seeing this guy once,told me he was single and he was acting NOT single,i looked him up on Friends Reuinted,he was on there complete with a recent profile saying he was married,i confronted him and he said,we're just sharing the house we're splitting up!There were a few choice words and i said goodbye,but not as politely!



    oooh i wouldve phoned his wife lol
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