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    Peaches Geldof gets married at 19 - So get's me thinking!

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    1. What age do you think, is the right age to get married?

    2. What age do you think, is the right age to have children?

    I'm 33, my fella is 27, so i think i might wait for marriage until he is 30 and i will be 36, what do you think?

    Oh and children, i don't think i will bother

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    not 19 when you have known each other for a month.

    these days prob about 30ish. all depends on the individuals involved and what situation you are in.

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    I think you should stop shafting ur ex like u were the other week, then maybe think about what u want

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    I dont think their is a right age really, i suppose every relationship is different and will last as long as it does no matter what your age. I had my children later than many and glad i did

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    ODB_69;2738210

    I think you should stop shafting ur ex like u were the other week, then … I think you should stop shafting ur ex like u were the other week, then maybe think about what u want



    That's in the past, i'm talking 3 year's ahead

    I got married weeks after my 21st birthday and have been very happily married for 15 years. Met my husband just before we both turned 16 so we were childhood sweethearts.

    Now that seems very young to me! But it has definately worked for us. I think it just depends if it is the right person or not and how long you have known them.

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    DLM;2738228

    That's in the past, i'm talking 3 year's ahead


    was like a week ago

    I always wanted kids before I was 30. The older you get the harder it gets to kick the ball about with them.

    I got married in 2004, I was 26 and my Wife was 23, we had our Daughter a year later. I wouldn't change a thing, we are both so happy and our Daughter is amazing.

    We have been together for 12 year.

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    ODB_69;2738242

    was like a week ago



    It so wasn't, Friday 4th July 2008 to be exact

    Nearly 6 week's ago.

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    jellybaby22;2738281

    I moved in with my other half after knowing him for 3 weeks.......we got … I moved in with my other half after knowing him for 3 weeks.......we got married about 5 months later....Sometimes you are just lucky and meet the right person...



    awwwww thats so nice, me and relationships really dont seem to bond well together, i hold onto the hope that maye i havent met mr right, although they always seem mr right till they go mr wrong:oops:

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    DLM;2738280

    It so wasn't, Friday 4th July 2008 to be exact :pNearly 6 week's ago.


    well it wasnt that long ago you posted about it then

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    ODB_69;2738299

    well it wasnt that long ago you posted about it then



    Maybe not but i do have a life other than here, occasionally.

    I have also been suspended on many occasions, as you know.

    ODB_69;2738299

    well it wasnt that long ago you posted about it then



    DLM;2738320

    Maybe not but i do have a life other than here, occasionally.I have also … Maybe not but i do have a life other than here, occasionally.I have also been suspended on many occasions, as you know.



    I'm sorry.....have I missed something:whistling:

    I think it depends on the individual, everyone is different and everyone is ready at different times - sometimes you're more ready than you think!

    I got married at 21, then split up and divorced a year later, we'd been together since being 16/17. My son was born when I was 27 and while it was a shock and not something I'd expected to be doing just yet I'd not change a thing about being a father, I didn't feel ready at the time at all! Two years later and I'm in to my fatherly stride good and proper.

    I don't think I'll get married again, having been there before and discovering that actually, its a shed-load of money and stress for a bit of paper and changing your partners name. Whats actually important is your commitment to the person you're with and how you lead your life, not some grand gesture to show the world how dedicated you are.

    end in tears, Peaches will flip out at some point, i'm sure of it

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    AugQX;2738348

    end in tears, Peaches will flip out at some point, i'm sure of it



    I thought so too, i think she might be doing a Britney :thumbsup:

    catinthehat;2738200

    these days prob about 30ish. .



    O no better get my finger out then :-D

    Have been engaged for 6 years mind :whistling:

    I agree, u can't put an age on somethinglike this. I was 21 when I married and I believe I was ready. There are some on the other hand that are defin8tl not ready for anything at that age!! lol

    i was thinking of doing it at around 26ish after my stint at uni. By that time no stress of uni work and stuff. Devote all the time to the missus

    Hiya chuck i got married at 19, had my kids young and struggled. I think going through hardships has made myself and my kids appreciate the good things in life more. They keep me young ( i'm 44) and in touch with the latest things so the child side of things is all good. I've been married for 25 years not all good and i do regret being with one person all that time, now that my three have all grown up and doing their own thing i do wish i had done more with my life for myself such as travelled more etc, it has it's fors and againsts i don't think there is any right or wrong time but i do think it's a decision not to be taken lightly, it's supposed to be for life.

    i would suggest 35 would be a good age

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    I think you have got it all worked out DLM....

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    queenlush;2738399

    Hiya chuck i got married at 19, had my kids young and struggled. I think … Hiya chuck i got married at 19, had my kids young and struggled. I think going through hardships has made myself and my kids appreciate the good things in life more. They keep me young ( i'm 44) and in touch with the latest things so the child side of things is all good. I've been married for 25 years not all good and i do regret being with one person all that time, now that my three have all grown up and doing their own thing i do wish i had done more with my life for myself such as travelled more etc, it has it's fors and againsts i don't think there is any right or wrong time but i do think it's a decision not to be taken lightly, it's supposed to be for life.



    Hello fellow manchester lady, hope you are well.

    Congratulation's on your good long marriage, it can get boring at time's though, i suppose.

    Keep smiling and keep up the good work :-D

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    Dell_in_the_bed;2738413

    I think you have got it all worked out DLM....



    I like to plan ahead but it usually end's up in piece's.

    I never meant to cheat on bf and regret it but my ex was just there in a moment of madness.

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    DLM;2738428

    I like to plan ahead but it usually end's up in piece's.I never meant to … I like to plan ahead but it usually end's up in piece's.I never meant to cheat on bf and regret it but my ex was just there in a moment of madness.




    I know what you mean, I can relate to that sometimes ....

    Your man is he comfortable with that kind of time period?

    Please sms me if you ever have those momens of madness again lol

    Scream;2738385

    i was thinking of doing it at around 26ish after my stint at uni. By that … i was thinking of doing it at around 26ish after my stint at uni. By that time no stress of uni work and stuff. Devote all the time to the missus



    no, just stress of work, mortgage, energy bills etc, lol

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    DLM;2738428

    I like to plan ahead but it usually end's up in piece's.I never meant to … I like to plan ahead but it usually end's up in piece's.I never meant to cheat on bf and regret it but my ex was just there in a moment of madness.


    how can you say you regret it when you were boasting about it?

    seriously...you should think about what you really want cause its not fair on him

    DLM;2738419

    Hello fellow manchester lady, hope you are well.Congratulation's on your … Hello fellow manchester lady, hope you are well.Congratulation's on your good long marriage, it can get boring at time's though, i suppose.Keep smiling and keep up the good work :-D



    No marriage is perfect but i've tried I think after 25 years we have changed so much especially me as i have my total freedomand independance which i guess he had all along. Lets just say i've woke up and the coffee smells really good ;-)

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    maybe 30s hopefully marry a young un the younger women are more impressionable hopefully be a serious first relationship so she gets swept up and marrys me and and then ill be good for about 20 years

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    Dell_in_the_bed;2738469

    I know what you mean, I can relate to that sometimes .... Your man is he … I know what you mean, I can relate to that sometimes .... Your man is he comfortable with that kind of time period?Please sms me if you ever have those momens of madness again lol



    God know's who care's, he's not allowed to have an opinion.

    I will sms you, don't worry, which get's me thinking where's your pic on the hottie thread?

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    ODB_69;2738492

    how can you say you regret it when you were boasting about … how can you say you regret it when you were boasting about it?seriously...you should think about what you really want cause its not fair on him



    I weren't boasting, just trying to laugh about it what would you prefer :cry:

    I do want him, he is the best but people do thing's they regret, unfortunately, that's life.

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    queenlush;2738493

    No marriage is perfect but i've tried I think after 25 years we have … No marriage is perfect but i've tried I think after 25 years we have changed so much especially me as i have my total freedomand independance which i guess he had all along. Lets just say i've woke up and the coffee smells really good ;-)



    Good for you, hope it stay's that way :thumbsup:

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    DLM;2738519

    God know's who care's, he's not allowed to have an opinion.I will sms … God know's who care's, he's not allowed to have an opinion.I will sms you, don't worry, which get's me thinking where's your pic on the hottie thread?



    That sounds more like DLM. If you are sure this is what you want than go for it

    The hottie thread :?

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    jellybaby22;2738552

    No you wouldnt do that to someone you really loved...sorry but you just … No you wouldnt do that to someone you really loved...sorry but you just wouldnt....Does he know...if not maybe he will find out ...think he would have an oppinion then...:thumbsup:



    I do love him but life has been difficult over the last few year's, so until you know the full fact's.

    It would be better to keep your opinion's to yourself.

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    jellybaby22;2738552

    No you wouldnt do that to someone you really loved...sorry but you just … No you wouldnt do that to someone you really loved...sorry but you just wouldnt....Does he know...if not maybe he will find out ...think he would have an oppinion then...:thumbsup:


    Agreed! If you had..you would have told them, not shared it with HUKD first

    Jellybaby....you told your husband about us yet?

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    ODB_69;2738568

    Agreed! If you had..you would have told them, not shared it with HUKD … Agreed! If you had..you would have told them, not shared it with HUKD firstJellybaby....you told your husband about us yet?



    No I advised her not to ODB.....

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    jellybaby22;2738578

    ha ha I love it...from the woman that boasts about it on a public … ha ha I love it...from the woman that boasts about it on a public forum.....think you are right to wait to get married..your not mature enough(in the head):thumbsup:



    Oh right, i will listen to you :whistling:

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    jellybaby22;2738585

    He understands..he saw your photo and knows I couldnt … He understands..he saw your photo and knows I couldnt resist...Shh...Im trying to keep the moral high ground here:w00t:


    I know..its hard...I look at me and just WANT me with such passion I dont know what to do about it.....

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    ODB_69;2738606

    I know..its hard...I look at me and just WANT me with such passion I dont … I know..its hard...I look at me and just WANT me with such passion I dont know what to do about it.....



    Did any of that had to do with your good grades at school as well

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    wait is this the **** who cheated lol

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    Proximo;2738644

    wait is this the **** who cheated lol



    It seems to be for some reason :x
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