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    No, absolutely not, especially not for romantic reasons. Why would you ask that?

    Oh my goodness back with a bang!! I don't know what you did wrong by the way.

    Are we talking about your present g/f here?

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    not if i didnt find them attractive at all. If I can't get somewhere on my own, then it's not worth getting there.

    hell yeah, if she was s8 CEO'ing/10k a day, no doubt

    go out with or have sex with ? - yes to the first - no to the second

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    as long as if they were female they had big norks

    black gerbil1;5707713

    hell yeah


    Who could be significantly more powerful than you????

    if compatible, marry, ye

    Huh, nope

    bykergrove;5707718

    what if you found them attractive also BUT you were aware of the fact … what if you found them attractive also BUT you were aware of the fact that they could help you in your career. They are about 7 years older too.



    That's pretty specific... lol, you must have someone in mind.!!

    to deal with each issue separately... I don't see that the seven yr age gap is relevant so long as they're both adults.

    If you find someone attractive and enjoy their company then certainly there may be romantic possibilities there... I dont think the fact that they have money/power within your career/studies should have any relevance to that... unless you already have some form of relationship that precludes any form of romantic attachment ( such as they are your teacher- that's a no no ).

    depends how long you'd have to go out with them for. If it was permanent no way, but a year or so I'd do it. If it was gonna set you up for life.

    chesso;5707724

    Who could be significantly more powerful than you????


    300k aint nothing.


    lol @ everyone who says "no" of course you would, why lie on the internet

    bykergrove;5707731

    haha I used a slang word and got suspended.No this isn't my gf. … haha I used a slang word and got suspended.No this isn't my gf. "Hypothetical Question"


    Well don't do it again!!;-)

    Oh right. The answer is no then - pointless and emotionally tiring.
    You are already really well paid and will easily rise up the ranks with your ability and attributes.
    I know you, you would feel awful just stringing someone along. Forget it.

    I'm off to watch the telly now - don't even think about it!!

    [COLOR=Red]Are you thinking of asking me out or something?

    BTW, if you did ask me out I would say no as I don't go for men.

    HTH.[/COLOR]

    black gerbil1;5707760

    300k aint nothing.lol @ everyone who says "no" of course you would, why … 300k aint nothing.lol @ everyone who says "no" of course you would, why lie on the internet



    Serious question no trolls please




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    bykergrove;5707803

    Would you go out with someone because they were significantly … Would you go out with someone because they were significantly richer/powerful and could actively help your career?



    Yes, I would. 100% definitely.

    bykergrove;5707803

    Yes student/teacher is a no no.I meant more someone that could influence … Yes student/teacher is a no no.I meant more someone that could influence your career but not like your boss or that you work under them. Just on the same floor.



    well.. prolly not wise to mix work and pleasure..

    but if you enjoyed their company and wanted to spend time with them, then I dont see why power/status/money should have any relevance to that . HtH xx

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    chesso;5707770

    Well don't do it again!!;-)Oh right. The answer is no then - pointless … Well don't do it again!!;-)Oh right. The answer is no then - pointless and emotionally tiring. You are already really well paid and will easily rise up the ranks with your ability and attributes. I know you, you would feel awful just stringing someone along. Forget it.



    Plenty of people do it. The current Dir of Education where I live has get into her role by sleeping up the hierarchy. It's no coincidence that she was sleeping with the head of the council and got this post. Same as she'd been doing with smaller fish on her way up.

    No doubt now she's there, the outgoing party leader is history.

    I wonder who's next?:whistling:

    StevenA2000_uk;5707813

    Yes, I would. 100% definitely.



    so long as they had big boobies lol

    Dude, don't do it.

    Sure your boss may be powerful, and promise you a new pair of comfy shoes, but he would use you up and fire you like he did to his other tea boy. :-(

    guv;5707827

    Plenty of people do it. The current Dir of Education where I live has get … Plenty of people do it. The current Dir of Education where I live has get into her role by sleeping up the hierarchy. It's no coincidence that she was sleeping with the head of the council and got this post. Same as she'd been doing with smaller fish on her way up. No doubt now she's there, the outgoing party leader is history. I wonder who's next?:whistling:



    the options don't look sweet

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    The JFK;5707790

    [COLOR="Pink"]Are you thinking of asking me out or something, Imran?BTW, … [COLOR="Pink"]Are you thinking of asking me out or something, Imran?BTW, if you did ask me out I would say no as I don't go for men.[/COLOR]



    So you're into little boys like your trolling buddy?

    Strong life choice.


    Now GTFO.

    bykergrove;5707738

    To date, say for a year


    yes most definitely

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    thesaint;5707833

    Dude, don't do it.Sure your boss may be powerful, and promise you a new … Dude, don't do it.Sure your boss may be powerful, and promise you a new pair of comfy shoes, but he would use you up and fire you like he did to his other tea boy. :-(




    I always thought you'd always been on the dole. Still, it's good to know you're useful for something.

    Cuppa anyone?

    ClarityofMind;5707829

    so long as they had big boobies lol



    Hell yeah baby! :-D


    nikkib123;5707842

    Hahaha true


    ex-squeeze me you?

    StevenA2000_uk;5707884

    Hell yeah baby! :-D



    :giggle:

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    also no moose's or Fb`s ..

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    bykergrove;5707914

    Well his boss does earn 300k.. even though his screen shot only showed a … Well his boss does earn 300k.. even though his screen shot only showed a 1k student loan



    Hmmm. I kinda saw the giver and taker roles as reversed!

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    bykergrove;5707970

    Apparently this added more spice to their relationship... I heard that … Apparently this added more spice to their relationship... I heard that after a hard days work he fancies some KFC.... that's what the police report said anyway.



    Nothing like a bit of filth and fury! (apparently!)

    Are you single or not? That would be thrown into the moral dilemma as well (at which point I would say no).

    Also, if she does improve your career, what would happen when the "relationship" ended? Would your new found success be cut short?

    > Serious post

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    guv;5707984

    Nothing like a bit of filth and fury! (apparently!)



    did you know he is called shirley :whistling:

    [SIZE="3"]Serious question no trolls please[/SIZE]



    bykergrove;5707914

    Well his boss does earn 300k.. even though his screen shot only showed a … Well his boss does earn 300k.. even though his screen shot only showed a 1k student loan



    bykergrove;5707970

    Apparently this added more spice to their relationship... I heard that … Apparently this added more spice to their relationship... I heard that after a hard days work he fancies some KFC.... that's what the police report said anyway.



    bykergrove;5708019

    some liddle ol' guy used to watch and write everything down.... something … some liddle ol' guy used to watch and write everything down.... something about his PHD :thinking:



    In b4 the spam.

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    thesaint;5708052

    In b4 the spam.



    Sorry. No can do. :thumbsup:

    If you wanna be useful, there are plenty of threads you can do that to.

    Now GTFO.

    100% yes

    bykergrove;5708065

    Let's take the first issue out of the equation as there are more deeper … Let's take the first issue out of the equation as there are more deeper issues with that point.If the relationship ended there is a 99% chance it would end on amicable terms. So I don't think the end of the relationship would have negative rammifications. Also, living/staying round this person's flat would mean you have a 10 minute walk along the river to work.



    Well, if the first issue isn't an issue, then go for it. It's a dog eat dog world and it's not just women who can sleep their way up!

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    boothy;5708088

    100% yes



    yes what ?

    Banned

    bykergrove;5708109

    so you come into a thread about relationships (I lol'd), troll (didn't … so you come into a thread about relationships (I lol'd), troll (didn't lol) then cry (lol'd again)? how old are you again?if you don't like this thread then you can check some memory card prices.



    LOL

    Repped.

    dog_cop;5708103

    yes what ?



    title of thread

    bykergrove;5708109

    so you come into a thread about relationships (I lol'd), troll (didn't … so you come into a thread about relationships (I lol'd), troll (didn't lol) then cry (lol'd again)? how old are you again?if you don't like this thread then you can check some memory card prices.



    lollington

    think that memory card thread was spammed yet again

    I couldn't tolerate going out with someone just because it would help my career, I'd have to fancy them in the first place.

    I wouldn't care about the age difference if I liked the person - also age seems less significant as you get older. 7 years older when you are 20 seems huge - but by the time you are 30 or 40 it doesn't seem to matter so much!
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