Random OT But what do you men think to your GF/Wife wearing a see through top?

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Found 7th Apr 2011
Completely random lol

I bought a top off here which is lovely, Tried it on as its for my holiday. Showed husband and he was a bit put out with the top.

Its black see through, but I did have a black bra on with nothing showing at all.
Is it just my husband being a bit OTT over a daft top? Or are all men like this with these type of tops?

Im only 28 so not old enough to be sat covered from neck to toe in woolen jumpers and jeans.

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I dont think my hubby would mind at all like you say you're not actually revealing anything

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I know I could of asked on a better place than a shopping forum before anyone states. but only other place is a mums site, so not many men and Facebook which he is on

this thread is dead without pics

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caz1cool

I dont think my hubby would mind at all like you say you're not … I dont think my hubby would mind at all like you say you're not actually revealing anything



I have still packed it for holiday, I never stop him wearing anything. I just don't know whether he is being pathetic or if other married men feel this way.

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greg_68

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haha, Don't think my kid would get a decent pic,

lol @ greg there's always one!

Everyone's different aren't they? as I say my hubby would not mind at all but that's just him, he's soooo laid back he's horizontal

greg_68

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This !

But other than that... I think that it's perfectly acceptable if the ladyperson is wearing a pretty brazier underneath that shows off.

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caz1cool

lol @ greg there's always one!Everyone's different aren't they? as I … lol @ greg there's always one!Everyone's different aren't they? as I say my hubby would not mind at all but that's just him, he's soooo laid back he's horizontal



My dad is the same with my mum, Even though he still comments on stuff me and my sister wear out lol Think he can't help it Hubby did this with a dress I bought. Was lovely backless black short dress. He said Its a dress that I should wear out with him. So it took me about 2 years to wear it out! Now it seems to be this top too. Seems daft

if you feel comfortable wearing it, then he should be OK with that

smarties?

Take it as a compliment as he obviously thinks you look attractive to others in it.

You are approx. my daughters age, just do it, enjoy 'your 20's'.

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Alfonse

smarties?



??? lol think that may of gone over my head? lol

Depends on your figure. If he's embarrased because he settled for a munter then don't wear it because you will make him hate you more. If he's going to be jealous because you look bang tidy in it, just wear it

Is your husband going on holiday with you? (not that that should make a difference)

I can't see anything wrong with it - you will most likely be wearing bikinis on holiday anyway. It sounds like this top would be less revealing than a bikini top would be.

My hubby wouldn't worry! He might raise his eyebrows but he wouldn't mind!

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bazzaric

Depends on your figure. If he's embarrased because he settled for a … Depends on your figure. If he's embarrased because he settled for a munter then don't wear it because you will make him hate you more. If he's going to be jealous because you look bang tidy in it, just wear it



haha I did ask him if it was the 1st option you said lol But he said no and tbh i am to self conscious to wear anything revealing if I was a chunk and looked bad in it. I think it looks lovely on, no fat hanging anywhere, so thats why I was a bit miffed when he said its not a top that I can wear without him oO

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d-j mitch

My hubby wouldn't worry! He might raise his eyebrows but he wouldn't mind!



I thought mine would be the same too, strange things.
BurntEffigy

Is your husband going on holiday with you? (not that that should make a … Is your husband going on holiday with you? (not that that should make a difference)I can't see anything wrong with it - you will most likely be wearing bikinis on holiday anyway. It sounds like this top would be less revealing than a bikini top would be.



Yes he is and he knows I have been bought a lovely bikini by my parents, and he knows i will be wearing that! I just don't get the fuss over this top.

Thank you all though. It has made me determined to just wear it and he will have to deal with it

Put a picture on here. Then he can hate you doing that instead of you wearing it on holiday.

could it be one of those tops that become see through with some flash photography, as it has been mentioned, pics, pics and more pics.
try it on again, stand in front of a mirror and take a pic.:p

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boabbyrab

could it be one of those tops that become see through with some flash … could it be one of those tops that become see through with some flash photography, as it has been mentioned, pics, pics and more pics.try it on again, stand in front of a mirror and take a pic.:p



haha think my flash is broke Shame I have the school run now lol I may wear it out for my friends birthday drinks in a couple of weeks, meaning I can get pics, even if they are drunken ones. I will wear it whether he says yes or not.

Husband has his own daughters he can dictate to about what they can and can't wear out. Don't think they rule stands for wives!
Edited by: "beth3735" 7th Apr 2011

the rules of this forum are we need to see the item in question being modelled, before we can cast any suggestions lol

personally i will need to see a pic of you on to see how it looks.....

i kind of see what he feels to be honest.... if my wife/gf/bf (equal oppertunities and all) was wearing a see through top then it would have to be for my eyes only because lets face it........ guys eyes wonder more than a chicken being chased!!!! so i see his concern

bazzaric

Depends on your figure. If he's embarrased because he settled for a … Depends on your figure. If he's embarrased because he settled for a munter then don't wear it because you will make him hate you more. If he's going to be jealous because you look bang tidy in it, just wear it



new fav word!!!

beth3735 boabbyrabcould it be one of those tops that become see through … beth3735 boabbyrabcould it be one of those tops that become see through with some flash photography, as it has been mentioned, pics, pics and more pics.try it on again, stand in front of a mirror and take a pic.haha think my flash is broke Shame I have the school run now lol I may wear it out for my friends birthday drinks in a couple of weeks, meaning I can get pics, even if they are drunken ones. I will wear it whether he says yes or not.Husband has his own daughters he can dictate to about what they can and can't wear out. Don't think they rule stands for wives!


oh dear, see i have got in quotes now so you cannot delete it, you will now have to do it cos it's on the net and will stay there forever, mwhaha

My hubby would love that AND he'd want me to wear it with no bra and a skirt with no knickers as hes a real perv X)

I think hubby being a bit prude tbh

I think you'll have to upload pics with you wearing it so we can make a judgement.

themummysclub

My hubby would love that AND he'd want me to wear it with no bra and a … My hubby would love that AND he'd want me to wear it with no bra and a skirt with no knickers as hes a real perv X) :pI think hubby being a bit prude tbh



TMI X)

Banned

Depends on your relationship I guess.

Do you get annoyed if he checks out other girls?

Imo, if it's bothering him lots it's probably not worth wearing out..

deb8z

TMI X)



NEI

themummysclub My hubby would love that AND he'd want me to wear it with … themummysclub My hubby would love that AND he'd want me to wear it with no bra and a skirt with no knickers as hes a real perv I think hubby being a bit prude tbh


eh, no he's just being a normal guy (_;)

Would he object to you wearing a bikini at the beach? If not, then don't see why he would object to something less revealing in public.

...but if it's really bothering him, I don't see why you'd want to wear it. After all are you dressing up for your man or for other men?

Josh
Edited by: "r3tract" 7th Apr 2011

themummysclub

My hubby would love that AND he'd want me to wear it with no bra and a … My hubby would love that AND he'd want me to wear it with no bra and a skirt with no knickers as hes a real perv X) :pI think hubby being a bit prude tbh




And do you oblige?

Wear it. This is the UK.

Banned

bykergrove

Depends on your relationship I guess. Do you get annoyed if he checks out … Depends on your relationship I guess. Do you get annoyed if he checks out other girls?Imo, if it's bothering him lots it's probably not worth wearing out..



Would you suggest she wore something that covered her entire body?

If you want to wear it and it doesn't look bad then go for it.

dress for yourself beth-nobody has any right to tell you otherwise-you arent anyones property-if you like it wear it-thats my tuppenceworth.

barky

dress for yourself beth-nobody has any right to tell you otherwise-you … dress for yourself beth-nobody has any right to tell you otherwise-you arent anyones property-if you like it wear it-thats my tuppenceworth.



The selfish attitude that makes Britain the great place it is.

Josh

FilthAndFurry

Would you suggest she wore something that covered her entire body?If you … Would you suggest she wore something that covered her entire body?If you want to wear it and it doesn't look bad then go for it.



Your wooden spoon seems to be getting a bit of use these past couple of days.......

It wouldn't bother me if my gf wore something like that, but then I am pretty laid back most of the time. As others have said, if he's not got problem with you wearing a bikini I don't see why he should have a problem with something like this....

Simples - men are jealous creatures who don't want others to enjoy your bodily goodies.

I'm a bit that way myself, but wouldn't stop her wearing anything unless I thought she looked ridiculous, but she's stylish so it's all good brah.

DragonChris

Simples - men are jealous creatures who don't want others to enjoy your … Simples - men are jealous creatures who don't want others to enjoy your bodily goodies.I'm a bit that way myself, but wouldn't stop her wearing anything unless I thought she looked ridiculous, but she's stylish so it's all good brah.




brah....?.....really.....?
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