similar to jims problem...i like this guy who works in a restaurant near me...

how should i go about making my point??

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Smile!

Whip your baps out ?

Original Poster

i looked right at him and smiled and he did the same but then again he is a waiter and has to be polite! and cant get my baps out, its a family restaurant!!

Depends what your point is?

Tell him quick or you'll spend a fortune on food. :thumbsup:

Lulu'sMammy

Whip your baps out ?



Has that always worked for you then? :giggle:

Offer to sizzle his sausage?

Original Poster

was thinking bout leaving my number on a napkin but that seems so freaky almost! and what if he didnt see it and just threw it away??

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Original Poster

20. how do i go about telling him is kinda my question.... 'oh yeh il have the asparagus risotto...looking hot by the way!' lol i almost prefer the napkin scenario!

m_curiousity

20. how do i go about telling him is kinda my question.... 'oh yeh il … 20. how do i go about telling him is kinda my question.... 'oh yeh il have the asparagus risotto...looking hot by the way!' lol i almost prefer the napkin scenario!



Just engage in friendly conversation and fish for details (women are experts at this!!!!). And then just ask him if he fancies a drink after work or whether he would be interested in going for one another day.

Even if he says no then it's no embarassment, just put it down to experience. But i'm sure he'd be flattered regardless. :thumbsup:

Original Poster

im sooo bad at small talk!! i tend to just get straight to the point, which goes alright in clubs, not sure if it would work so well on a sweet looking innocent waiter!!

Syzable

Just engage in friendly conversation and fish for details (women are … Just engage in friendly conversation and fish for details (women are experts at this!!!!). And then just ask him if he fancies a drink after work or whether he would be interested in going for one another day.Even if he says no then it's no embarassment, just put it down to experience. But i'm sure he'd be flattered regardless. :thumbsup:




And if, after what Sy says, it doesn't work - you don't have to go back if it hurts too much

m_curiousity

im sooo bad at small talk!! i tend to just get straight to the point, … im sooo bad at small talk!! i tend to just get straight to the point, which goes alright in clubs, not sure if it would work so well on a sweet looking innocent waiter!!



It's just a matter of experience and confidence m. Honestly you'll be fine. If he isn't flattered and friendly then he isn't the type of person you want to be with anyway.

dress up really sexy

if your really enticing he should make the first move!

kinda like cant resist lol

You first need to find out which side he bats for.

Keep it clean people. Show some courtesy to the new girl. :thumbsup:

Original Poster

yeh i know, just rather difficult to make ur intentions known without coming across as a bit of a freak!

m_curiousity

yeh i know, just rather difficult to make ur intentions known without … yeh i know, just rather difficult to make ur intentions known without coming across as a bit of a freak!



I agree it's never easy but any man should always be flattered by the attentions of a nice young girl and he may feel the same as you and be too shy himself to make the first move.

Original Poster

haha and how do you know im a nice young girl?

m_curiousity

haha and how do you know im a nice young girl?



lol. Because if you weren't you wouldn't ask for advice and would have gone for the jugular by now. ;-) :-D

Original Poster

true i suppose. off for shower and prison break now, thanks for the advice everyone!

Syzable

lol. Because if you weren't you wouldn't ask for advice and would have … lol. Because if you weren't you wouldn't ask for advice and would have gone for the jugular by now. ;-) :-D



Now that's some clean yet absolutely hilarious stuff in a post. I bet some people on this thread didn't even know that was possible.

:giggle:

stora

You first need to find out which side he bats for.



I was thinking the same thing myself :giggle: :giggle:


Jims thread was a lot better as it gave more information and background info, I was just wondering if I knew the restaurant?, wow, 20 and planning more visits to this eatery, hope it's not BK, I hope not because I think I can smell a rat :giggle:

:-D :giggle: :-D :giggle: :-D

She has played you well mate!

She has a wicked SOH!
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