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    Some people can be really immature when it comes to this. I had a freind and happened to mention that i got a face full of someone elses smoke and hated it. She then called me pathetic for doing so.
    After that i made a comment about smokers dieng young and she gor really offended and called me a w*nker over this one statement.
    Is it just me or did she over react a bit becasue statistically smokers do die young.
    I know this., as general knowledge and also thats the words my tutor used in college today. Im doing a science degree so its correct thing obviously.

    Whats your opinion on the matter.
    Do you hate it when you get a face of someone elses smoke,
    Do you think its ok?
    Do you think my freind went over the mark a bit?

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    I am a non smoker but i do feel that smokers are having all this bad for you thing rammed down their throats & i disagree with it. Yes smoking should be banned indoors but enough is enough. People should be allowed to smoke when & where they like outside. Those TV ads should be banned. What happened to freedom of choice?

    Think you friend needs to grow up!

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    darren9030;3399654

    I am a non smoker but i do feel that smokers are having all this bad for … I am a non smoker but i do feel that smokers are having all this bad for you thing rammed down their throats & i disagree with it. Yes smoking should be banned indoors but enough is enough. People should be allowed to smoke when & where they like outside. Those TV ads should be banned. What happened to freedom of choice?



    Yes smoking should be fien outside, after all its not that bad, but its worse when you are stuck in a room with somone who smokes.

    starsparkle2311;3399668

    I smoke, but have been cutting down as i get older, can go for a few days … I smoke, but have been cutting down as i get older, can go for a few days without one, having a drink is the killer, but i imagine your friend is like most smokers, we all (i think) wish we hadn't started and get quite defensive when told the cons of doing so, because we already know! And no I don't think it's ok to blow smoke in someone's face whether they are a smoker or not. If i were having a drink, would it be ok to throw it over you? NO.



    brilliant answer:thumbsup:

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    darren9030;3399654

    I am a non smoker but i do feel that smokers are having all this bad for … I am a non smoker but i do feel that smokers are having all this bad for you thing rammed down their throats & i disagree with it. Yes smoking should be banned indoors but enough is enough. People should be allowed to smoke when & where they like outside. Those TV ads should be banned. What happened to freedom of choice?



    Well said Darren.

    I may be wrong here, but the OP says he/she got slated "just for mentioning" it. I have a feeling it probably wasn't the first time it was talked about to the friend and bringing up the conversation here makes me think that!

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    ukmonkey;3399678

    Think you friend needs to grow up!



    I think so to. She hasnt spoken to for like 2 months, and whenever i try to apologise she just spouts abuse at me.

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    guv;3399695

    Well said Darren.I may be wrong here, but the OP says he/she got slated … Well said Darren.I may be wrong here, but the OP says he/she got slated "just for mentioning" it. I have a feeling it probably wasn't the first time it was talked about to the friend and bringing up the conversation here makes me think that!



    Nope was the first time i had brought it up with this certain freind.
    Just the whole incident got me thinking. and wnated to see what your personal opionions where.

    Banned

    possibley not worth a friend having

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    starsparkle2311;3399668

    I smoke, but have been cutting down as i get older, can go for a few days … I smoke, but have been cutting down as i get older, can go for a few days without one, having a drink is the killer, but i imagine your friend is like most smokers, we all (i think) wish we hadn't started and get quite defensive when told the cons of doing so, because we already know! And no I don't think it's ok to blow smoke in someone's face whether they are a smoker or not. If i were having a drink, would it be ok to throw it over you? NO.



    Nah shes proud that she smokes. She sees smoking as a good things and she likes it.

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    Spearmint;3399713

    possibley not worth a friend having



    nah was no great closeness anyways, but its still the point that it was something so trivial

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    yeah i think its a bit of an overeaction

    I smoke too but I dont smoke around people, only outdoors.
    I think she is not much of a friend though

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    shosie;3399722

    Nah shes proud that she smokes. She sees smoking as a good things and she … Nah shes proud that she smokes. She sees smoking as a good things and she likes it.



    OK.. but it sounds like its more than that. People dont usually fall out for a single comment like that. I know I wouldn't.

    Its also that people don't their flaws/insecurities mentioned all the time, its not too pleasant is it fat bum?

    I think I'd be ditching any "friend" like that, or laying one into them. No need for it.

    I was a smoker for 12 years and I'd have never dreamed of blowing smoke deliberately in anyones face, its extrememly ignorant and a disgusting thing to deliberately do to someone.

    Find yourself a real friend...leave the loser to be a loser on their own.

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    StevenA2000_uk;3399800

    I was a smoker for 12 years and I'd have never dreamed of blowing smoke … I was a smoker for 12 years and I'd have never dreamed of blowing smoke deliberately in anyones face, its extrememly ignorant and a disgusting thing to deliberately do to someone.Find yourself a real friend...leave the loser to be a loser on their own.



    There was no mention of it being deliberate - and it wasn't the "friend" that did it.

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    Spearmint;3399748

    yeah i think its a bit of an overeaction



    think a slight bit more than that

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    starsparkle2311;3399754

    i wouldn't call passive smoking trivial, is she a bit of a binge drinking … i wouldn't call passive smoking trivial, is she a bit of a binge drinking ladette by any chance?:-D



    yeah she is lol.

    (im not like that)

    didt mean passive smoking was trivial just mean my statement was.

    I'm a smoker and am aware its bad for me, but so are many other things in life I dont really drink though so smoking is my only vice. However I dont smoke indoors or around non-smokers, even outside in open spaces I step away from people, the only place indoors I smoke in is my "office" (aka man-shed) when it rains (I have a nice chair to sit on too).

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    starsparkle2311;3399849

    just re-read post, take your point, but still sounds like a doomed … just re-read post, take your point, but still sounds like a doomed friendship, don't it?What's the ages here, i'm guessing early 20's? late teens?



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    guv;3399764

    OK.. but it sounds like its more than that. People dont usually fall out … OK.. but it sounds like its more than that. People dont usually fall out for a single comment like that. I know I wouldn't.



    cos most of her family smoked/s

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    skusey;3399761

    I smoke too but I dont smoke around people, only outdoors.I think she is … I smoke too but I dont smoke around people, only outdoors.I think she is not much of a friend though



    same here

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    StevenA2000_uk;3399800

    I think I'd be ditching any "friend" like that, or laying one into them. … I think I'd be ditching any "friend" like that, or laying one into them. No need for it.I was a smoker for 12 years and I'd have never dreamed of blowing smoke deliberately in anyones face, its extrememly ignorant and a disgusting thing to deliberately do to someone.Find yourself a real friend...leave the loser to be a loser on their own.



    Nah ive forgotten about her anyways i tried it first to tell her, and then she just stopped listening their was no point in keeping on going

    guv;3399823

    There was no mention of it being deliberate - and it wasn't the "friend" … There was no mention of it being deliberate - and it wasn't the "friend" that did it.



    Also no mention of it being accidental. And I didnt say it was the "friend" who did it." :thumbsup:

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    StevenA2000_uk;3399904

    Also no mention of it being accidental. And I didnt say it was the … Also no mention of it being accidental. And I didnt say it was the "friend" who did it." :thumbsup:




    Nah it was just as in genral like when someone smokes next to you, or your walking past someone.



    starsparkle2311;3399907

    WHAT?!




    exactly! see.

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    starsparkle2311;3400021

    really don't want to sound patronising here, but if you're the same age, … really don't want to sound patronising here, but if you're the same age, move on and forget about it, it's part of growing up you have plenty of time ahead to establish "real" friendships, by the sounds of it you're a good kid, your friend unfortunately will probably be pushing a pram by the time she's 18! sad but true, let her get on with it!



    I have moved on its just something that annoyed me. It was even more so when my cosuin died young of a heart attack didnt smoke didnt drink nothing she left 2 kids behind, Thats what really peeved me off about it.

    Nah sad as it sounds she wont be pushing a pram, shes the type the of girl that people wouldnt go near with a 10 foot barge pole. Its mean but not half as bad as some of the stuff shes said to me. and Thanks for that :thumbsup:

    gee, if this was friendship, who needs enemies ^^^

    I once read somewhere, something similar to the following

    As a result of your smoking, I am subjected to your residue, smoke which goes in my mouth and my eyes.
    As a result of me drinking, I need to urinate, would it be fair if my urine went in your mouth and your eyes
    I think thats a fair deal, dont you
    Its less likely to kill you after all.

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    loupomm;3400097

    gee, if this was friendship, who needs enemies ^^^



    aha yeah., exactly. plenty of those lol

    think tho, im not scared to voice my opinion so it can get me into troubloe at times. but this time round there was nothing outn of line

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    starsparkle2311;3400110

    No probs, and sorry to hear about your cousin, my sympathies to you!



    Thanks. ,

    i am 50/50 on this one as i allow no one to smoke in my house or round my boy but i cant stop what others do while out in the pub etc and i refuse to ask them/make them stop as i look it like fi it bothers me/you that much then go elsewhere (now the ban is in place - there is no excuse for not being able to be in loads of places hwere you can avoid smoking) but this is no offence to OP or others but there is so much out there that kills you, i dont smoke out of choice but all this you die young bla bla bla, but @ the end of the day there must be just as many people dieing of drugs/being overweight etc etc and for every young smoker who may or may not die early i bet there are loads and loads of people smoking 60+ years who are fine.... maybe i am missing something but thats my view lol

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    ADZ1478;3400115

    I once read somewhere, something similar to the followingAs a result of … I once read somewhere, something similar to the followingAs a result of your smoking, I am subjected to your residue, smoke which goes in my mouth and my eyes.As a result of me drinking, I need to urinate, would it be fair if my urine went in your mouth and your eyes I think thats a fair deal, dont youIts less likely to kill you after all.



    i actually lolled. :thumbsup: yeah fair point

    sorry also about your cousin, can i ask are you worried as they didnt smoke etc that 2nd hand smoke could of caused the heart attack ? i really didnt no 2nd hand smoke could be so risky, i did read it was dangerous for those pregnant etc to be around passive smokers

    shosie;3400166

    Thanks. ,

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    Dub1;3400167

    i am 50/50 on this one as i allow no one to smoke in my house or round my … i am 50/50 on this one as i allow no one to smoke in my house or round my boy but i cant stop what others do while out in the pub etc and i refuse to ask them/make them stop as i look it like fi it bothers me/you that much then go elsewhere (now the ban is in place - there is no excuse for not being able to be in loads of places hwere you can avoid smoking) but this is no offence to OP or others but there is so much out there that kills you, i dont smoke out of choice but all this you die young bla bla bla, but @ the end of the day there must be just as many people dieing of drugs/being overweight etc etc and for every young smoker who may or may not die early i bet there are loads and loads of people smoking 60+ years who are fine.... maybe i am missing something but thats my view lol



    Thats a good point to, and a signifacant number of people do die of passive smoking tho, even ina room with an open window smoke residue can still be there for 2 and a half hous afterwards.

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    Dub1;3400192

    sorry also about your cousin, can i ask are you worried as they didnt … sorry also about your cousin, can i ask are you worried as they didnt smoke etc that 2nd hand smoke could of caused the heart attack ? i really didnt no 2nd hand smoke could be so risky, i did read it was dangerous for those pregnant etc to be around passive smokers



    Thanks also. They dunno what caused it she just went to sleep and didnt wake up, No one in her house smoked? And then she made people go outside to ssmoke when they came in.

    yea dont get me wrong i agree with you 100%

    shosie;3400201

    Thats a good point to, and a signifacant number of people do die of … Thats a good point to, and a signifacant number of people do die of passive smoking tho, even ina room with an open window smoke residue can still be there for 2 and a half hous afterwards.

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    starsparkle2311;3400229

    point taken and you're quite right, i laugh at the pub smoking ban, the … point taken and you're quite right, i laugh at the pub smoking ban, the pubs where i live have set up really cosy "SMOKING" rooms, much nicer than the actual pub, we all go there to escape the **** that goes on in the pub and the non-smokers follow us in!The very one's who complain about it, come in and join us:w00t:



    Yeah thats another thing that people do, they compalin about something untill it can be gained from if you get me. Liek yur example complain all the time about smokers and then go to the skoing room cos its more cosy

    Also reformed smokers are the worse, my dad used to smoke and hes like aww filthy habbit disgusting and dunno why people do it and really gets at them from doing so. And im like wait u were smoking not that long ago

    round my way our 2 locals either have an outside tent or nothing @ all lol
    but you no 100% rain - snow or wind a smoker will go outside and smoke for example my old man who will go blue outisde just for a fag but @ the end of the day if i said oi stop smoking he wouldnt listen lol + even he has said he has been doing it so long its a habit for example on a long haul flight he can go with out a fag but when in the pub will go outside every 20 mins

    starsparkle2311;3400229

    point taken and you're quite right, i laugh at the pub smoking ban, the … point taken and you're quite right, i laugh at the pub smoking ban, the pubs where i live have set up really cosy "SMOKING" rooms, much nicer than the actual pub, we all go there to escape the **** that goes on in the pub and the non-smokers follow us in!The very one's who complain about it, come in and join us:w00t:

    can't stand smokers - they wind me up no end with their stinky ways

    bring back the press gangs!

    starsparkle2311;3400300

    well, i hope you do your farts in private!:w00t:



    charming :lol:

    the hottest and dirtiest stink of anyones farts pales against the strength of a lit up cancer cane
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