The Stranger

A few months before I was born, my dad met a stranger who was new to our small town. From the beginning, Dad was fascinated with this enchanting newcomer, and soon invited him to live with our family. Though his outside appearance was not attractive, the stranger was quickly accepted and was around to welcome me into the world a few months later.

As I grew up I never questioned his place in our family. In my young mind, each member had a special niche. My brother, Yoosuf, five years my senior, was my example. Sadiyah, my younger sister, gave me an opportunity to play big brother and develop the art of teasing. My parents were complementary instructors Mum taught me to love Allah, and Dad taught me how to obey Him. But the stranger was our storyteller. He could weave the most fascinating tales. Adventures, mysteries and comedies were daily conversations. He could hold our whole family spellbound for hours each evening and would consume most of our times over the weekend. If I wanted to know about politics, history, or science, he knew it. He knew about the past and seemed to understand the present. The pictures he could draw were so life-like that I would often laugh or cry as I watched. He was like a friend to the whole family. He took Dad, Yoosuf and me to our first major league cricket game. He was always encouraging us to see the movies and he even made arrangements to introduce us to several famous people.

The stranger was an incessant talker. Dad didnt seem to mind, but sometimes Mum would quietly get up while the rest of us were enthralled with one of his stories of faraway places go to her room and read the Quraan. She would sometimes quietly tell that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam said: The beauty of ones faith is shunning all non- productive activities.

I wonder now if she ever prayed that the stranger would leave. You see, my dad ruled our household with certain moral convictions. But this stranger never felt obligation to honour neither from our friends, adults or us. Our longtime visitor, however, used occasional four letter words that burned my ears and made Dad squirm. To my knowledge the stranger was never confronted. My dad was a teetotaller who didnt permit alcohol in his home not even for cooking.

But the stranger felt like we needed exposure and enlightened us to other ways of life. He offered us beer and other alcoholic beverages often. He made cigarettes look tasty, cigars manly, and pipes distinguished. He talked freely (probably too much too freely) about sex. His comments sometimes blatant, sometimes suggestive, and generally embarrassing. He showed us how to woo and flirt with women.

I know now that my early concepts of the man-woman relationship were influenced by the stranger.

As I look back, I believe it was Allahs Mercy that the stranger did not influence us more. Time after time he opposed the values of my parents. Yet he was seldom rebuked and never asked to leave. More than thirty years have passed since the stranger moved in with the family. He is now not nearly so intriguing to my Dad as he was in those early years. But if I were to walk into my parents bedroom today, you would still see him sitting over in a corner, waiting for someone to listen to him talk and watch him draw his pictures and enchant his audience with his magic.

His name you may ask? We call him...

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Original Poster

Can you guess who the stranger is? The answer is nothing to do with religion. I just didn’t want to change the original context.

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telly?

it it temptation or the devil
or
whiskey

The telly?

a telly?

Banned

Radio

cant believe I didnt think of that - nice one

Cluffy321;4001372

telly?



cheat! you changed it!

lies!

Cluffy321;4001453

lies!



fibber!:p

Original Poster

Cluffy321;4001372

telly?



Correct, but don't know if you cheated!

Abvance;4001472

Correct, but don't know if you cheated!



he did cheat! promise lol! me and the one above me posted telly at the same time.
:-D:-D:-D:-D:-D

i didnt it was a spelling error

Cluffy321;4001497

i didnt it was a spelling error



oh so you spelt the whole word wrong did you?!;-)

Original Poster

Cluffy321;4001497

i didnt it was a spelling error



You spelled 'TV' wrong?!

yes i put BG instead of TV

Cluffy321;4001532

yes i put BG instead of TV



you wrote BG1 originally......:p

Abvance;4001519

You spelled 'TV' wrong?!



easy done lol:w00t:

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Was it 9 months before you were born ??
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