This is not a slating but a genuine enquiry....

I am in my thirties, been married, and have now been single coming up for 5 years, and to be honest I am quite happy being single (now) I do admit to occaisionally craving male company, but on the whole very settled into my life.
Anyways...It has been my experience, in real life and on the net that every man that has flirted with me, chatted me up or had an "encounter" with me, that seems decent at the time, after some research or detective work, they are married or living with a partner. So what I want to know is:-
1) Are there Brittish men who are faithful to their partners and if so what kind of percentage?
2) Are the men over thirty who are single the ones who have been left over because they can't handle monogomy and /or not worthy of my affection?
I know this may sound is if Im slating guys, Im totally not, just wondering what is REALLY going on out there!

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There are plenty of men out there that feel the same way as you... ie every woman over 30 who isn't married is a psycho or weird! It's just a matter of meeting the right person and you always find them when you're not looking!

been with my partner 6 years and 100% faithful all the way

married 24 years and never even thought about cheating! so we do exist

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wolf359;8266692

married 24 years and never even thought about cheating! so we do exist


Yeah:-D but are these the one who are kept by their other halves...and do most men cheat do you think?

Tis a slight generalisation. I'm in my 30's (I'm 30), single and genuinely monogamous

been with my 360 for nearly 4 years now and I've never even held a ps3 joypad let alone play with one.

donnydude;8266705

Tis a slight generalisation. I'm in my 30's (I'm 30), single and … Tis a slight generalisation. I'm in my 30's (I'm 30), single and genuinely monogamous



There you go!! We have a match! I feel like Cilla Black.

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baffledsalmon;8266687

There are plenty of men out there that feel the same way as you... ie … There are plenty of men out there that feel the same way as you... ie every woman over 30 who isn't married is a psycho or weird! It's just a matter of meeting the right person and you always find them when you're not looking!


Well I aint looking but the ones who look me out do seem to be this way and other female friends find the same. Or is it just the human race that now find it hard to be faithful?

ants97;8266708

been with my 360 for nearly 4 years now and I've never even held a ps3 … been with my 360 for nearly 4 years now and I've never even held a ps3 joypad let alone play with one.



lol:thumbsup:

been with my OH for 6 1/2 years and both been 100% faithful

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donnydude;8266705

Tis a slight generalisation. I'm in my 30's (I'm 30), single and … Tis a slight generalisation. I'm in my 30's (I'm 30), single and genuinely monogamous


Im not generalising Im asking:)

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ants97;8266708

been with my 360 for nearly 4 years now and I've never even held a ps3 … been with my 360 for nearly 4 years now and I've never even held a ps3 joypad let alone play with one.


LMAO:thumbsup:

1) Are there British men who are faithful to their partners and if so … 1) Are there British men who are faithful to their partners and if so what kind of percentage?



Yes lots,all of my male mates(including me)are

2) Are the men over thirty who are single the ones who have been left … 2) Are the men over thirty who are single the ones who have been left over because they can't handle monogomy and /or not worthy of my affection?



no,just haven't met the right person yet

None of it is worth worrying about,the one thing guaranteed to put a man off is if a woman is desperate for a bloke

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ants97;8266708

been with my 360 for nearly 4 years now and I've never even held a ps3 … been with my 360 for nearly 4 years now and I've never even held a ps3 joypad let alone play with one.



Bet thats a wii lie you are telling there gameboy

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boothy;8266756

Yes lots,all of my male mates areno,just haven't met the right person … Yes lots,all of my male mates areno,just haven't met the right person yetNone of it is worth worrying about,the one thing guaranteed to put a man off is if a woman is desperate for a bloke


I knew this would happen, Im not worrying about it, not even looking, Im interested in people and society, I am genuinly interested in the goings on out there.:roll:

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I don't remember chatting you up....so at least 1 man hasnt
yes, im the right age too!

cannot stand people who are unfaithful myself, and have never been, and have ended 2 relationships immediately because of it
you can also take flirting as being friendly, its a line people disagree on

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I suppose what Im trying to do is compare my thoughts and belief mechanisms with others as what Im experiencing is very different to what i hold dear. It makes me wonder has society toatally changed in this respect or are these values still upheld by the masses or the few.

never cheated on anyone been with my wife for 10 years now but if this ever failed 'd be a man ****

You sound like hard work tbh.

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trego37;8266818

I suppose what Im trying to do is compare my thoughts and belief … I suppose what Im trying to do is compare my thoughts and belief mechanisms with others as what Im experiencing is very different to what i hold dear. It makes me wonder has society toatally changed in this respect or are these values still upheld by the masses or the few.



I dunno if it is times have changed, or as we age our values change, and read things differently
people have always been unfaithful (wasnt the 60's all about free love?)
I guess its a matter of finding someone who finds the core values as important as you do?

at any age, it is never easy to be single or find anyone worth being with, being with someone you dont like sure isnt better than being single.

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thesaint;8266853

You sound like hard work tbh.


Is that directed at me, if so how so?:?

ants97;8266708

been with my 360 for nearly 4 years now and I've never even held a ps3 … been with my 360 for nearly 4 years now and I've never even held a ps3 joypad let alone play with one.


lol,:-D

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trego37;8266818

I suppose what Im trying to do is compare my thoughts and belief … I suppose what Im trying to do is compare my thoughts and belief mechanisms with others as what Im experiencing is very different to what i hold dear. It makes me wonder has society toatally changed in this respect or are these values still upheld by the masses or the few.



TBH I think cheating on spouses is as common as it's ever been, it's as old as the hills, it's just easier and more known about due to internet, mobiles etc and all that comes with it.

I think it's all relative and it's women just as much as men. I have cheated in the past, don't know why just did, wouldn't cheat on my hubby though as he is the "one". My hubby has never cheated on people and I would say his views are deemed quite old fashioned for his age, he's not, just polite and respectful.

But I know what you mean, any bloke that has ever contacted me on the net, here included have been married men after sex basically.

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jubbyme;8266863

I dunno if it is times have changed, or as we age our values change, and … I dunno if it is times have changed, or as we age our values change, and read things differentlypeople have always been unfaithful (wasnt the 60's all about free love?)I guess its a matter of finding someone who finds the core values as important as you do?at any age, it is never easy to be single or find anyone worth being with, being with [COLOR=red]someone you dont like sure isnt better than being single[/COLOR].


Totally agreee and find your other points really thought provoking

trego37;8266873

Is that directed at me, if so how so?:?



May I ask, are you British?

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I think the whole chatting up/flirting thing is a problem - it takes people down a certain road and too quickly . getting to know people in a more honest ,natural way is far healthier i`e always found . you can find someone attractive because of their personality/ sense of humour that you may not have ever thought of flirting with , because it is a clearer measure of who they are without the games being involved. their attractiveness comes from within then. its real.and not a mask .

HUKD is not the best place to get a balanced view as 90% of the men on here are that desperate than any woman who posts her pic on here gets loads of smutty comments and PM's....even if she looks like a bulldog chewing a wasp

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tinkerbell28;8266877

TBH I think cheating on spouses is as common as it's ever been, it's as … TBH I think cheating on spouses is as common as it's ever been, it's as old as the hills, it's just easier and more known about due to internet, mobiles etc and all that comes with it.I think it's all relative and it's women just as much as men. I have cheated in the past, don't know why just did, wouldn't cheat on my hubby though as he is the "one". My hubby has never cheated on people and I would say his views are deemed quite old fashioned for his age, he's not, just polite and respectful.But I know what you mean, any bloke that has ever contacted me on the net, here included have been married men after sex basically.


I suppose with technology these days its easier to be unfaithful...and to get caught too:thumbsup:

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Been faithful for 4-5yrs now...but I'm not in my 30's yet.

thesaint;8266888

May I ask, are you British?



Careful.............

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thesaint;8266888

May I ask, are you British?


Yes but lived overseas for a decade, been back for just under 5 years:)

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lumoruk;8266900

Been faithful for 4-5yrs now...but I'm not in my 30's yet.



trego37;8266913

Yes but lived overseas for a decade, been back for just under 5 years:)



no connection

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:thumbsup:Thanks to those who so far have taken this as it was meant, a discussion and look see at our society, i find it really interesting

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jellybaby22;8266892

you sound like you got a good one then :thumbsup: agree about the men on … you sound like you got a good one then :thumbsup: agree about the men on here though...AVOID at all costs..most are married....but play the old...my wife doesnt understand me....come to think of it..some of the women are just as bad



Yeah he is a good un, he is at sainsburys now getting me my pickled onions :lol: As I cannot eat anything without them now:lol:

boothy;8266898

HUKD is not the best place to get a balanced view as 90% of the men on … HUKD is not the best place to get a balanced view as 90% of the men on here are that desperate than any woman who posts her pic on here gets loads of smutty comments and PM's....even if she looks like a bulldog chewing a wasp



:lol:

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lumoruk;8266919

no connection


haha:p

tinkerbell28;8266929

Yeah he is a good un, he is at sainsburys now getting me my pickled … Yeah he is a good un, he is at sainsburys now getting me my pickled onions :lol: As I cannot eat anything without them now:lol:



are you with child?

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boothy;8266938

are you with child?



I am yes:-D teach him to go away for 4 months :lol:

trego37;8266913

Yes but lived overseas for a decade, been back for just under 5 years:)



Were the men "abroad" different?
I think men and women are the same no matter the country myself.

tinkerbell28;8266953

I am yes:-D



was unaware....congrats and all that stuff:)

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thesaint;8266954

Were the men "abroad" different? I think men and women are the same no … Were the men "abroad" different? I think men and women are the same no matter the country myself.


This is not solely based on men but obviously my experience is of man, but I can only speak of my experiences of being single and in my thirties in the U.K. if you catch my drift:)
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