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    Well looks like i am gonna be a single mum in the new year:(

    None of my friends are up at this time so need somewhere to vent .

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    Awww hun, whats happened?

    b**tard, better of on your own hun

    Whats up?

    Oh no :-(

    Fingers crossed for you.

    omg tinks!

    hope your ok. do you know this for definate or have you and your fella just had an arguement?

    :friends: we are all here.x

    oh dear. :-(

    gemmar26;7183341

    :friends: we are all here.x



    Do we ever go to bed?

    No you're not Tinks... you're gonna go out with me and we'll have a whale of a time. ;O)

    i hope its a mere argument and saying this in the heat of it.

    If he has the heart to leave you AND his child behind during the holidays, you're probably better of without him...Hope it works out for you.

    Your inbox will be full shortly OP,all the desperados:w00t:

    Banned

    oh well look on the bright side, at least you get some pressies before he goes. or you goes

    deb8z;7183357

    Your inbox will be full shortly OP,all the desperados:w00t:



    Yeah with Debz topping the list.

    I hope you both have a change of heart for all of your sakes

    AshleyRFC;7183385

    Yeah with Debz topping the list.



    I meant men hitting on her:roll:

    deb8z;7183396

    I meant men hitting on her:roll:



    Me too.:p

    AshleyRFC;7183347

    Do we ever go to bed?



    i go when i look like that!

    Banned

    deb8z;7183396

    I meant men hitting on her:roll:



    aint that the idea

    Chiptivo;7183383

    Go home abortion...http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/health/4717786.stm



    huh? she has kids...not is pregnant...

    AshleyRFC;7183404

    Me too.:p



    You've lost me,how can i be top of the list:?

    deb8z;7183424

    You've lost me,how can i be top of the list:?



    I dunno its late and I'm not even drunk.:?

    Banned

    Oh tinks you must be able to work something out :gift:

    Original Poster

    I has been brewing a while but kind of just sweeping it under the carpet.. neither of us are happy but i am still very upset about it and i just cant see us working it out

    Tinkytayls;7183450

    I has been brewing a while but kind of just sweeping it under the … I has been brewing a while but kind of just sweeping it under the carpet.. neither of us are happy but i am still very upset about it and i just cant see us working it out



    sorry to hear about that, but you need to do what is best for yourself, and the little 'uns.

    Banned

    THe HUKD curse strikes again :-(

    Tinkytayls;7183450

    I has been brewing a while but kind of just sweeping it under the … I has been brewing a while but kind of just sweeping it under the carpet.. neither of us are happy but i am still very upset about it and i just cant see us working it out



    well hun awful as it sounds maybe yous are better apart? hard to accept i know but if its just not gonna work theres no good gonna come out of dragging it out. have yous both talked about what yous want?

    sleep on it tonyt,everthing will be better tomorow.fingers crossedxxxxx

    awoodhall2003;7183461

    sorry to hear about that, but you need to do what is best for yourself, … sorry to hear about that, but you need to do what is best for yourself, and the little 'uns.



    :thumbsup:

    Sometimes its for the best, no point in being together and being unhappy. Just try to keep civil and remember the kid is the is the priority.

    Original Poster

    We havent spoke much the last week i know he wants to wait till after xmas has gone but i will feel so fake going to his familys for xmas so i think i willjust let him take the kids there and i will stay at home .. thank you all for being nice

    Hun I feel for you, if its not going to work out then its for the best but will be so hard to start with, but on the bright side you have all the nutters (i mean lovely people) on here to cheer you up when your feeling down x

    I mean it though I know it must be really hard and upsetting x

    Tinkytayls;7183450

    I has been brewing a while but kind of just sweeping it under the … I has been brewing a while but kind of just sweeping it under the carpet.. neither of us are happy but i am still very upset about it and i just cant see us working it out



    If you're not happy and can't work things out then you are better off apart.

    Just remember though this time next year you'll be wondering why you were so upset.

    There's nothing like time to heal.

    Chin up and have a nice Christmas with your kids ;-)

    Tinkytayls;7183511

    We havent spoke much the last week i know he wants to wait till after … We havent spoke much the last week i know he wants to wait till after xmas has gone but i will feel so fake going to his familys for xmas so i think i willjust let him take the kids there and i will stay at home .. thank you all for being nice



    have you got family or friends you could go to for xmas? it wont be nice for you at all to stay at home on your own

    KERMITZBITZ;7183349

    No you're not Tinks... you're gonna go out with me and we'll have a whale … No you're not Tinks... you're gonna go out with me and we'll have a whale of a time. ;O)



    my offer even stands over xmas. :thumbsup:

    Original Poster

    donnaraine;7183525

    have you got family or friends you could go to for xmas? it wont be nice … have you got family or friends you could go to for xmas? it wont be nice for you at all to stay at home on your own



    Thats what makes it horrible my family and close live 100 miles away and my best friend is away... my other 2 best friends are his sisters :? Life hey x

    Original Poster

    KERMITZBITZ;7183535

    my offer even stands over xmas. :thumbsup:



    :-D thank you x

    Tinkytayls;7183553

    Thats what makes it horrible my family and close live 100 miles away and … Thats what makes it horrible my family and close live 100 miles away and my best friend is away... my other 2 best friends are his sisters :? Life hey x



    maybe you could get a train a couple days before to see your family? the time away might do yous both good too, some time to think properly. i really hope that whatever happens you will be happy and have a lovely xmas

    Banned

    as it appears this could be your last xmas as a family then maybe you could both put your differences behind you to make it the best xmas ever for the little ones, hard - yes, but worth it im sure

    Tinkytayls;7183557

    :-D thank you x



    have you thought about counselling? together?
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